Getting married before 35 is pure cope

[CityJaeger]

Unless you're a braindead zombie with no dreams, no lust for adventures and for life and wish for nothing else than the tranquil life of an ordinary pleb wageslave.

So many adventures to go on, so many experiences to live and new people to meet.

I want to sail, I want to face my fears in the nature : deserts, desolated icelands,toundras. I want to ride horses till the end of world. Preferably on my own.

How can I do all when I have a nagging needy wife at home calling me every 5 minutes to know where I am and what I'm doing ?

How can I do that with a toddler waiting for his daddy to return everyday ?

No boyos, you've got to live your life to the fullest whilst you're still young before considering any kind of long-term relationship or engagement.

Once you're 50 and the kids finally left the house, it will be too late: you'll be old, tired with the same old hag that you haven't touched in years and disillusioned to death.

[WoofieNugget]

Like anything it depends on circumstance - but yes, most MEN should wait until at least after 30 to even consider marriage and commitment like family. I usually tell guys focus on career and enjoying life up until 30, and then if you decide you want a family it's a good time to start looking around. Guys over 35 can easily land and wife up a girl 5-10 years younger.

Problem is the opposite is true for women. If they aren't married by 35 then they are basically seen as damaged and useless.

[CityJaeger]

Like anything it depends on circumstance - but yes, most MEN should wait until at least after 30 to even consider marriage and commitment like family. I usually tell guys focus on career and enjoying life up until 30, and then if you decide you want a family it's a good time to start looking around. Guys over 35 can easily land and wife up a girl 5-10 years younger.

Problem is the opposite is true for women. If they aren't married by 35 then they are basically seen as damaged and useless.

Who the hell would wife up a 35 yo unmarried chick ?

The other day I saw the before/after pics of a female fried between age 18 to age 29 (today) : it was absolutely brutal, I dare not imagine what she'll look like in 5 years.

It's always the same profile : Career-focused, entitled and uppity with a lot of expectations. They'll end up alone or with a desperate loser.

[DrewDarden]

I love how people who use the word cope in reference to others are nearly always the ones coping when doing so.

[Slaydom]

Who the would wife up a 35 unmarried chick ?

The other day I saw the before/after pics of a female fried between age 18 to age 29 (today) : it was absolutely brutal, I dare not imagine what she'll look like in 5 years.

It's always the same profile : Career-focused, entitled and uppity with a lot of expectations. They'll end up alone or with a desperate loser.

U take a massive gamble

Most men at 35 will face challenges in finding younger women

[Titansfan08]

braindead zombie checking in

[StrongFella]

Married and still have the time and ability to pursue what I want crew

Strong generalizations OP

[notbadnotbrad]

Meh everyone is different. No right or wrong way to go about this.

Plus life is too random to have these set type of rules. You can't help it if you meet some unreal girl before 35 and want to marry her. Chit happens, plans change.

Go with the flow always.

[rectifryer]

didn't read thread

getting married after 20 is cope SRS AF CUZ

[CityJaeger]

I love how people who use the word cope in reference to others are nearly always the ones coping when doing so.

I can tell that you've settled down and now regret your freedom.

It's over for you.

Imagine not being able to purchase your dream car because you have to accommodate a woman which know nothing about cars and will probably abuse the components with her poor driving skills just to go around town and comuting.

I will never trade my 911 goal for a mediocre SUV.

[HayZues Christi]

Bro, you're like 30. If you haven't already been our adventuring and experiencing the world, it's too late for you. Srs.

[phaginator]

Completely right OP.

Sadly most men are beta cucks who fall under social pressure. They get married and become a wageslave to pay of that mortgage.

[BustaCapp]

[rectifryer]

I can tell that you've settled down and now regret your freedom.

It's over for you.

Imagine not being able to purchase your dream car because you have to accommodate a woman which know nothing about cars and will probably abuse the components with her poor driving skills just to go around town and comuting.

I will never trade my 911 goal for a mediocre SUV.

not sure if srs

a good woman will add to everything, not take away

[CityJaeger]

Bro, you're like 30. If you haven't already been our adventuring and experiencing the world, it's too late for you. Srs.

I've been busy accumulating currency and travelling. I've had my fair share of adventures but not enough to my taste bro.

Marriage is for reproducing and create a stable home in which to raise your child. I don't need the companionship of a toxic social-media addicted average girl.

[Titansfan08]

[Evolutionary1]

You fell in love with a Hooker.


You shouldn't be giving advice

[DolphinPilot]

How come you don't post that Charlton Heston gif any more?

[notbadnotbrad]

I've been busy accumulating currency and travelling. I've had my fair share of adventures but not enough to my taste bro.

Marriage is for reproducing and create a stable home in which to raise your child. I don't need the companionship of a toxic social-media addicted average girl.

I've been firing it up with the boys for 12 years now. Have smashed a ton of girls. It's gotten stale for me.

Would rather have a wife and kids and do family vacations and stuff srs.

[RealLifeAlpha]

just like everything in life, "it depends".



i'd say if are in your 20's and you find a girl who's attractive, has a good head on her shoulders, solid values, loyal, and has a low body-count, then i would never fault anyone for locking that down. modern women are mostly slampigs (at least the ones still on the dating market in your 30's). most modern men aren't much better either (**** job, low-test, pussy, out of shape, etc.)


(ded fkn Srs)

[radrd]

My wife and I got married when we were both 30 and it's been good. I don't disagree that men could wait until their mid 30s, but marrying a woman who is over 30 is questionable at best if you plan on having kids. You need some time to be married before you have a kid. We had our daughter when my wife was 33 and it worked out fine. We only wanted one. We probably could have had a second and it would have been okay too, as long as we got that done within a couple years. But now that my wife is 40, having another kid would be really rough on her and the odds of birth defects go up considerably.

All this applies to brahs wanting kids. If you don't want kids, don't get married unless you're willing to risk everything you value most for companionship. No matter how perfect she seems, there are going to be things you hate about her, and marriage takes a lot of work if it's going to be tolerable, much less mutually beneficial.

[phaginator]

Age: 31

Divorce rate; almost 50%

Lol at beta cucks who settle down thinking they will stay together forever, especially in this social climate.

[HayZues Christi]

Completely right OP.

Sadly most men are beta cucks who fall under social pressure. They get married and become a wageslave to pay of that mortgage.

You're an incel addicted to online porn.

Doesn't get more beta cucked than that.

[notbadnotbrad]

most modern men aren't much better either (**** job, low-test, pussy, out of shape, etc.)

lmao this, this site always wants to blame women for all their problems but refuse to look inwards.

[Hypernation]

Meh everyone is different. No right or wrong way to go about this.

Plus life is too random to have these set type of rules. You can't help it if you meet some unreal girl before 35 and want to marry her. Chit happens, plans change.

Go with the flow always.

This. Very subjective.

Be that as it may, I believe in a vetting process of at least 5 years.

[HayZues Christi]

I've been busy accumulating currency and travelling. I've had my fair share of adventures but not enough to my taste bro.

Marriage is for reproducing and create a stable home in which to raise your child. I don't need the companionship of a toxic social-media addicted average girl.

That sounds like a you problem if all you can attract are toxic social media addicted clowns.


Don't get me wrong, I don't think getting married young is wise, but guys who.act like there are no good women out there, expose their own lack of ability to attract quality women.

I think more important than one's age, is how long they've known their potential wife. 5+ years imo. Including having lived together for at least 2.

[DrewDarden]

not sure if srs

a good woman will add to everything, not take away

100% this.

[Titansfan08]

I don't think it's by choice for these single miscers

[gainztrain818]

Thinking one size fits all is pure cope.

[sooby]

depends, i know a brah who is married with a kid. like 2-3x a year he takes random vacations to places like Venezuela, Columbia, Turkey, Switzerland, etc and does stuff like hiking, sky-diving, bungee jumping.

I don't think it is necessarily mutually exclusive. although I do think getting married early for many is a bad idea without first getting their chit together.