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Thread: A tenant just committed suicide
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10-13-2020, 06:28 AM #31
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10-13-2020, 06:34 AM #32
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10-13-2020, 06:39 AM #33
Just a reminder that even the little things can pile-up and get you in a moment of weakness. Take a moment to yourselves brahs, away from long term stress. If you take little steps to move your life to have less burdens in general (be it work, family, commute, toxic relationships, addictions, and of course the little things); all the better.
Not sure what I'm really sayin, just don't take your mental health for granted
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10-13-2020, 06:45 AM #34
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10-13-2020, 06:56 AM #35
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10-13-2020, 07:00 AM #36
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10-13-2020, 07:02 AM #37
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10-13-2020, 07:24 AM #38
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10-13-2020, 07:30 AM #39
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10-13-2020, 07:34 AM #40
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10-13-2020, 07:36 AM #41
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10-13-2020, 07:41 AM #42
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10-13-2020, 07:44 AM #43
Feel bad for the dogs and feel bad for you OP because that's not only going to be a mess to clean up but the stigma is going to make the place harder to rent out.
The fact that he didn't take care of the dogs, damn. I know usually when people off themselves they aren't in the right state of mind but at least care for the dogs.
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10-13-2020, 07:46 AM #44
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10-13-2020, 08:03 AM #45
Kind of a weird moral high ground some people here are taking, thinking only about the dogs. Pain, I mean it goes both ways; and this is the last mfker that you'd expect to have made peace with himself if he decided to take things down that road.
I feel for the guy and whatever reasons we don't know that pushed him over the edge, for his family and whoever cared about him and now have to live the rest of their life with that pain in the back of their mind. And for OP who has to deal with that mess, clean-up and the aftermath. Take some measly greens, bud
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10-13-2020, 08:19 AM #46
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10-13-2020, 08:20 AM #47
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10-13-2020, 08:22 AM #48
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10-13-2020, 08:24 AM #49
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10-13-2020, 08:36 AM #50
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10-13-2020, 08:47 AM #51
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10-13-2020, 08:55 AM #52
Not sure if painful, but a homicide detective was speaking in one of my classes saying this scene can be pretty horrifying. Blood rushes to the surface looking for oxygen, there is a word for it but it eludes me. A lot of times, victims can have blood coming out of their eyes, mouth, ears, etc... not sure if this can happen before death or not though.
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10-13-2020, 08:59 AM #53
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10-13-2020, 09:08 AM #54
Sorry to hear, I got a girl in my class that died at age 13 from a brain bleeding. And when I was 16 I was travelling by train (sitting right behind the machinist door) when I felt the train break really hard and then hit some kind of tree, I saw a branch flying. 1 minute after the train finally came to a halt, the machinist came out and I saw the front window was fully covered with thick dripping blood obstructing the whole view. The branch I saw flying turned out to be a leg.
I feel like I can handle this, even though it's the first time it's someone I actually had a report with.
Police just broke the seal on the house and they will let their family take care of the rest. I fear that they won't want to be involved and that will have to take care of removing all his belongings. Hopefully I can contact his insurance company to see if there can be arranged something. Cop told me they left the couch he died in... I don't care for the dog**** or pee, but I don't feel like touching that soaked couch...
I got 3 ozone generators, I use them all the time after a tenant moves out to get every bit of scent gone. This time I'll run all 3 for a few days on end I think.
I'm considering doing it myself, got quoted over 3k to clean it and only got a reserve of 2k from the tenant.
Many thanks for all the kind words everyone, I will take my time to answer every single question in due time. Now I'm focussing on getting all the work done to get this place back in my hands, fix it up and rent it. Spend 1 year on the remodel of this place and this was the first tenant for this place as of 3 months... Same place got broken into 6 months ago and I lost 3k in tools whilst working on it. Seems like a doomed property, yet one of the safest neighborhoods in a very expensive location.
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10-13-2020, 09:12 AM #55
Fuk that selfish piece of trash for not ensuring someone had the dogs before doing the deed. Srs.
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10-13-2020, 09:19 AM #56
My brother in law's mother was engaged to a guy.
Just found out over thanksgiving that he hung himself in the garage this summer.
BILs mother cut him down and her and first responders did CPR for a long time to no avail.See BrianDaMans sig.
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10-13-2020, 09:21 AM #57
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at first you're kinda thinking an animal chit nearby then it just hits you and you know
i don't know how to describe it but its unique
i would think twice about doing it yourself honestly. dealing with that stuff is at a base level traumatizing and there's a reason people pay other people to do it. besides, you're disposing of biohazards and that comes with red tape. i don't think it's really cool to just chuck it in the trash and make garbage workers sift through it
yeah cause when you're overriding every human preservation instinct and ending your own life, you're totally in a mental state where you're capable of thinking of the consequences
do you seriously just lack that baseline understanding of what mental illness is? it's a completely illogical act, you can't apply logic to it
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10-13-2020, 09:30 AM #58
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10-13-2020, 09:32 AM #59
So, does he get the security deposit back or not?
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10-13-2020, 09:37 AM #60
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It’s always heartbreaking to hear things like this.
My sister in-laws neighbors was an ER nurse. From what she said he suffered some kind of traumatic experience where a coworker came in and shot a bunch of people at work. He couldn’t handle it and ended up stuffing rags under the doors and lit a BBQ in his bedroom and that was that.
A few years ago our Uncle shot himself in the head while at home. Leading up to that he had spent all the money and left out Aunt with nothing. No note as to why. I do know that he had been doing skydiving with tandem jumps. He wanted to jump solo but because of his age they wouldn’t let him. We think he originally planned to jump and not pull the cord. Doesn’t make it any easier, but damn.
So sorry Op.
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