Dating entitled “Leftover Women” (oldcels older than 27) in China

[outfoxxed]

she looks like a glowless lesbian.

[whitepaper]

That lady asking her questions...I got the sense she was jealous she's old and likely in an unhappy marriage.


Seems like education was the thing she stuck with to become a lawyer, and isn't looking for the traditional Chinese female role in a marriage. At least it's presented as such.



Lol, that one guy "I want to be the dominant one." I get where he's coming from, but he reeked of lacking confidence.

[fishnbrah]

Tfw the first minute was a barrage of punches to my feels

[BabcocksHair]

jeez white women MOG asian women hard.

[SpeakethTruth]

The ending had me . Family was giving her **** and she was trying to pretend that she was okay with being single.

Despite what a lot of people seem here seem to think, her family wasn't making fun of her. They're expressing concern for her future, albeit in a non-sugar coated way.

[anonymous]

I think we just witnessed a murder.

Wew lad!

[kinzu1996]

i saw the whole documentary in french, who was about one hour long, it's deleted now on youtube for some REASONS, there was also other glowless women.

[dizzin9]

Lmao got fisted 1 min in ouch

[joocyness]

Geez that was almost uncalled for.































































Almost

[Polaris]

she looks like a glowless lesbian.

This + the other comments that said similar. At least get rid of the damn boy haircut.

[orangetide]

she is def a closeted lesbian.

[CrimsonSteel]

I feel bad for her, people are just RAILING into her. But it's probably better feedback than the culture in the US. "SELL DEM A$$H0LE PICS! LIFE ON TUTORIAL MODE OR IT'S MISOGYNIST!"

[KBurn]

There are hundreds of millions of leftover men in China who would drag their balls through a field of broken glass just to catch a whiff of a pencil that she used. They would worship her and let her use them as a foot rest. Issue is all of them are beta, lowly paid, lowly educated, unsuccessful men. You guys don't get it, these guys get paid $200 a month, openly chit in the streets, can't write, can barely read, and have very limited speaking ability. This girl is a lawyer, even if she lowered her standards to the ground, there'll still be 0 chemistry. She'll be talking about french wine, and he'll be talking about designated chitting streets. China has a large middle class, but the vast majority of the country is still populated by people like that, and these are the freaks that'll abort or kill baby girls, causing the massive imbalance.

The man she wants is degree educated, which is in extreme short supply in China, as a lot more women than men go to uni (same as the west) Educated families don't do chit like abort or kill baby girls, they either stop having any, or just pay more till they get a boy. Within middle class, educated families, there are more girls than boys, and degree educated boys whittles that down by a lot.

These degree educated Chinese guys are not some alien, they're like the guys in the west, alpha, demanding, domineering. That's how you climb in any society, moreso China than others. All the handsome, tall, nice, rich feminist and successful guys are marrying 10/10 18-21 year old HBB 5-10 years younger than them, their demand is extreme, only a small fraction of a percentage of Chinese guys are like that. To have a son / son-in-law like that is better than winning lottery to most Chinese families.

She's not a 10/10, she's anything but 18-21, so any educated guy she wants will be a freaks, and still in short supply. So you get the extreme shy beta guy, the turbo male chauvinist and the loveless marriage freak. Thing is, all these guys can pick a 10/10, 18-21 yo village girl, who will be desperate to marry them and clean their shoes with their hair, so there's no incentive to change or stop being freaks.

I do feel quite sorry for her though. China is a country for extremes, and she got caught out on the wrong end of statistics. In any more developed Asian country, she'll be able to find a good guy. She seems like a decent girl after all, maybe a lesbian, but IDK, maybe she got too traumatised.

[OliverHeldens]

I live in a college town with a lot of Chinese girls, and they're tough. All of them have no siblings, and they really are entitled. I've had them being friendly upfront, but you just kinda see flashes of being spoiled and bitchy, and I have always come to the realization that I'd never seriously date any of them.

[KBurn]

I live in a college town with a lot of Chinese girls, and they're tough. All of them have no siblings, and they really are entitled. I've had them being friendly upfront, but you just kinda see flashes of being spoiled and bitchy, and I have always come to the realization that I'd never seriously date any of them.

That's the way Chinese society is though. Look at the doco, mother was literally a mud farmer, most likely, can't read, can't write, can barely speak, only recently had electricity and plumbing. Daughter is a high flying lawyer travelling internationally. Its a dog eat dog world, most spoilt, rotten and materialistic wins.

I know a China dude here in oz, married a 10/10 HBB, both parents are doctors, and even up to today, his parents still gets marriage proposals from other families, and there is mad hate on the HBB's family till the extent someone tried to burn their house down back in the country. Everything is an insane competition.

China is a country of extremes. Never knew how bad it was till I made friends with a lot of the China mob. One thing I noticed is that quite a lot of them send their "nicer" children abroad, the ones that are too soft, too indecisive, or or too nice, because they'll never survive back in the country. Pretty much all of them had stories about how others royally screwed them over back in the country. The smart, tough and ruthless ones stay in the country to take over the family's business.

[CopeFear]

It has nothing to do with her age. It's all about the face.

[datclownbaby]

Once had a date with a 30 year old and jokingly asked why she was 30 and still single, she cried and I never heard from her again lmao

[Better Unborn]

she's obviously a lesbian

short-hair phd that can't find a man is straight? please

[Drhunglow]

I feel bad for her. I hope she finds her match. Plenty of these women are marrying foreigners from what I hear

Yea lots of blasian babies being made. Same thing in Africa. Some of those guys there go black and don't go back

[Savux]

What a vile family jesus christ. That sister is a fat kunt.

[iabs]

holy shiit, you can see her soul dying at the end.

[KevC]

The first minute and a half is every single chick in the west for real that grew up with Tinder. Standards will be too high and they will end up alone and bitter and then become a feminist saying "where did all the good guys go"

With that being said, that ending was absolutely brutal felt bad for her. family is indeed vile

[bea5twood]

The first minute and a half is every single chick in the west for real that grew up with Tinder. Standards will be too high and they will end up alone and bitter

Hopefully they put away some kind of nest egg from all the thotting. Most will starve after their glow has passed and onlyfans gently tells them it's game over. By this time they will have developed an expensive lifestyle and will probably end up homeless instantly.

[KBurn]

With that being said, that ending was absolutely brutal felt bad for her. family is indeed vile

Only the HTC sister was vile though. You could tell that the rest was truly concerned for her, but just were pushing their expectations on to her unfairly. The HTC sister was throwing her weight (LMAO) around.

The last bit of what she said was a zinger tho. So many Asian families think kids=auto-happiness. Asian kids are the biggest drain on happiness ever. You not only have to just have them, they need to grow up with Asian expectations, do well in tests, need to go to good schools, need to learn lots of extra-curricular activities, piano, violin, need to be doctor, buy big house, big car, pretty/handsome spouse, have successful grandchildren. From the day they're born to the day you die, all eyes will be on them 24/7/365, the slightest slip up will mean the shame of the entire family, and condemnation from society.

The Asian families here treat everyone who "couldn't do something as simple as making it to University of Melbourne" as semi-retarded. Even the Monash kids are looked at as winning the participation trophy. The families whose kids went to RMIT or worse are never spoken about other than a cautionary tale of not beating your kids hard enough. There was even a family whose kid (a doctor) bought 5km away from the approved suburbs, and the entire family was ethered for being too poor, unfit for society.

Kids of other ethnic groups might bring them happiness, but Asian kids, no, never, its a lifetime of stress and being judged.

[FrankCostanza]

that is where it all went wong.

[DrBroscientist]

Damn the reporter was savage. Feel sorry for her, especially at the end with the happy family get-together that became a "let's-sit-in-a-circle-and-roast-her-together".

[mellowfellow01]

can confirm this is how chinese /Vietnamese parent's are .
fkn loved my nutcase inlaws.

[ProudKraut]

Looks like the grannys copefear bangs in shady massage parlors.

[TheIronAsylum]

i mean its true these women are absolute garbage the american ones are 10x worse as well

[six2mogger]

My older feminist sister has the same butch haircut, is the same age and unmarried, and my parents scold her in the same way lol.

This is actually one of the reasons why chink and pajeet women love beta white cawk. These girls deeply resent their families and their traditions, beta white dudes give them the validation they crave.

It’s actually kind of a stain on the family if you have a daughter like this. People assume you fukked up. They talk chit about you. Friends will ask you, “how’s your daughter? Is she married yet?” just to hurt you. Sometimes you stop getting invited to parties and weddings because parents don’t want their daughters to be influenced by your feminist daughter.