Ofc but you’re increasing the odds of less dicks when you get a good one when she’s young. I know your not American but here in America these women end up with high numbers and imo it does a toll on their mental psyche...they become fuked in the head. Mental baggage. But that’s my personal opinion. You have to become extremely picky with western women. Especially women in ny,nj
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06-17-2020, 12:59 PM #181Se Vi Pacem Para Bellum
What you know bout pain? Blood sweat and tears man im sittin in the rain.
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06-17-2020, 03:19 PM #184
I don't think I'm superior, I'm just a confident man. My parents are divorced. All relationships have challenges to overcome.
Sure it can happen to me or anyone, but why worry about it? It shows your inexperience. Don't let fear of a marriage falling apart stop you from being with the right girl or getting married and raising a family. It's immature.Just Bleed
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06-17-2020, 03:44 PM #185
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06-17-2020, 03:50 PM #186"The flowers bloom, then wither... The stars shine and one day become extinct. This earth, the sun, the galaxies and even the big universe, someday will be destroyed. Compared with that, the human life is only a blink, just a little time. In that short time - people are born, laugh, cry, fight, are injured, feel joy, sadness, hate someone, love someone. All in just a moment. And then, are embraced by the eternal sleep called death."
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06-17-2020, 04:04 PM #188
It's not ignorance it's being a man, holding your nuts, and leading a woman while you're in a relationship. Married or not that's what men do.
Security > Insecurity.
What do you know other than statistics and other people's business (failed relationships)? You have zero experience and have psyched yourself out. Life is what you make of it as is marriage...
I'd rather risk failing than not do something because I was too scared to fail. Stay on the sideline.
You know that stuff doesn't happen overnight. You and I both know something can be done beforehand and after.Just Bleed
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06-17-2020, 04:09 PM #189
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06-17-2020, 04:09 PM #190
The difference is, if you are alone and miserable at 40 there is the chance things will get better and you can have the life you want and be happy
If you are 40 and married to a fat whale you despise with 3 kids, like the picture in this thread, there is no way out and no hope. Even if you just walk out and disappear 90 % of every dollar you earn until 60 is going on child support, for kids you never see who will be raised to hate your guts
It's the complete lack of hope in the 2nd scenario that would kill me
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06-17-2020, 04:11 PM #191
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MGTOW is respectable by some measures however it is largely guided by incels and jaded divorced men. The former wish to spread their misery whereas the latter just want to prevent it. Women are attracted to men who personify the MGTOW philosophy so for some men it’s a means to an end. Personally, I’m married with 5 kids and couldn’t imagine living alone. I have other kids with different woman so have to interact with women frequently, as well.
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06-17-2020, 04:16 PM #192
When i was younger nobody told me son you won't get married by 31
Everyone said just work hard, lift, be nice and things will work themselves out
Now at 31 i know there is almost no chance of marriage. My sister isn't even getting married and she has model tier looks.PC specs
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06-17-2020, 04:21 PM #194
I can't swing a dead cat without hitting 9 old man Dan Bilzerians in Scottsdale srs. They are rare overall, probably <5% of older single men, but they exist in every major city.
I met this bohemian guy in his 50's with long hair who is poverty retired. Lives very frugally off meager income, but isn't wageceling. He is super low inhibition and has a relatively nice rotation of middle aged sloots going. He kinda made it.
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06-17-2020, 04:29 PM #195
Here's my plan:
1.)Enjoy single life until early-mid 50's.
2.)Retire.
3.)Move to Brazil.
4.)Marry some hot & young Brazilian woman who's poor, desperate and has no other opportunities.
5.)Have a kid and live long enough to see them into early adulthood.
6.)Die and leave what's left of my money to my wife, her younger lover and my kid.Last edited by goober3; 06-17-2020 at 04:41 PM.
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06-17-2020, 04:57 PM #203
Nope wrong
Not saying I’m perfect and of course I have flaws like everyone else.
But the basics were in order: I genuinely loved him, I was always completely honest, I was always completely loyal, the marriage was central to my life, and I don’t have any addictions.
None of those were true on his part. And his issues were very extreme, far beyond normal marital problems.
My main responsibility was choosing to marry him in the first place, and then being too naive and too codependent to realize what was happening and to protect myself.
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06-17-2020, 05:04 PM #204
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06-17-2020, 06:37 PM #210
I grew up in the same type of environment. Bipolar mother with an alcohol problem. Hated being at home growing up. She’s on her 4th husband now. Lots of thirsty guys out there that will put up with just about anything. (Wrecked cars, police, physical abuse). I’m a homebody/introvert probably because of it. I enjoy being at home in my own environment where I have control. Girlfriends who bring unnecessary drama into my life are forgotten about. People who meet me for the first time or have known me through work but never asked, can’t believe I don’t have kids and am not married. But with my background it would make sense.
I’m not afraid of being single at 50 compared to the fat pushover “Beta” husbands with miserable wives at home.
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