I haven’t clicked on this thread in a long time because it’s just so pathetic.
Looking forward to. Thread from OP that he met a snowflake, fell hard only to find out she cheated on him. But OP had so much good karma and is a great guy with lots of options... how could this happen.
You have no moral ground. Just because a husband wants to make something work with a woman he loves doesn’t make him a cuck. It makes you pathetic.
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01-24-2020, 10:32 AM #211Woke
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01-26-2020, 03:04 PM #220
YaBoyDave was a classic example of when keeping it real goes wrong.
I'm very undecided on what to do with this girl, I could easily just disengage and she would slowly but surely get the hint and fade away.
I could push things and make her feel like I want to be with her and probably make her fall for me. She has said a few times that she has fallen for me and wants to be with me so it wouldn't take much.
Part of me knows I will bang her a few more times and then lose interest.
Hmm... I kind of like the idea now of getting girls with boyfriends to want me, is that a known fetish? There's another girl I work with who would sit on the desk near me often, then one day I was flirting with her and her boyfriend noticed, since then she has moved a few seats away. Obviously at his request... I am considering pressing it and seeing what I can do.
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01-27-2020, 09:32 AM #221
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01-27-2020, 06:22 PM #222
You hope. There's been no trouble yet because she's still seeing you. Break things off and maybe she'll fade, maybe she won't.
Hmm... I kind of like the idea now of getting girls with boyfriends to want me, is that a known fetish?
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04-16-2020, 06:40 AM #224
The update... Several months down the line now and... I am still seeing her on a regular basis, still having sex with her, she still lives with her husband she tells me that she loves me and she has said she is looking at flats to move into a few times but I doubt any actual progress has been made on that.
Unprotected sex, she's on no birth control, I don't care.
Apparently her home living situation is like room mates now with a terrible atmosphere. He wants her to stay with him, with or without me she clearly has no interest in doing that but who knows.
He has been aware of me for a while but I don't know if he knows exactly what's happened and what's still happening.
I went for a walk with her the other day and we sat down on a bench, as we were talking she started getting really nervous and panicky... There was this guy jogging towards us... After a while of watching she says 'It's Steve..', her husband. I just sort of laughed and thought this is going to be awkward... Then as he gets closer she calms down and 'Oh no, it isn't him, it's okay'.
Just lol
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04-16-2020, 09:09 AM #228
I have slept with another girl while I've been sleeping with her yes, and talking to several others.
I don't know what I'd do if she got pregnant, cross that bridge when we come to it... Or throw the baby off it, lol jk
I probably wouldn't care if she got pregnant to be honest, I'd just carry on as I am and then when the baby comes see how interested I am in the little guy... Or just tell her there's no way I'm being involved so she may as well stay with Steve and convince him it's his haha
She wasn't scared of him like attacking us, she's already said he's fuzzy, just scared to the obviously incredibly awkward situation that would be
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04-16-2020, 09:47 AM #229
Friend of a friend was like this. I think it was the conquest, the victory or whatever more than anything else. Maybe some danger too? I don't know. He would go after a girl with reckless abandon until he got her then once he did he would get bored and move on. But anyway, he broke up 4-5 engagements/marriages before he finally got one of the girls pregnant. Of course his relationship with that girl lasted no time at all and now he pays a ton of child support even though he makes poverty wages and doesn't get to see that kid. He was a dumbass for sure.
oh sh*t I wrote the above before reading this. You are playing with fire there. Its going to be a f*cking mess.
If she gets pregnant and stays with him there is a presumption in the courts that the guy the lady is married to is dad. So that's a nice little legal quagmire you will get to have fun with (pay $$$ for in order to fix assuming you want custody) and that's before probably being stuck with child support payments when the "crazy" lady you conquested decides to take her kid and leave or more likely when you get your thrill of victory and want to move onto the next one. I don't know what you make but you might want to put your salary into your states child support calculator and see what a once a month weekend warrior father pays in child support.
Anyway brah, I don't care what you are doing. Husband knows whats up and he is sticking with her so at this point I have no sympathy for him. Pathetic. But this has the potential to really suck so at the very least I hope you are pulling out.
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04-30-2020, 12:11 AM #238
This should be the final update...
I woke up to a message from this girl this morning basically saying
'I'm sorry but I need to end our romantic relationship, I do like you and hope we can be friends, you deserve someone who you really want to be with'.
Just lol, I don't care you cheating sluuuuut
Nothing had happened, we just hadn't seen each other for about two weeks. The last few times we had seen each other she kept saying 'I love you', typical sloot behaviour. I wasn't saying it back, I'd just like give her a hug or a kiss to avoid saying it... Then the past couple of weeks she hadn't asked to see me and when I said I'd come see her on her lunch break she said she wouldn't have time. She was just generally off and different in her messages but she was still instantly replying to everything I sent.
I have a feeling in a few days or a week or so she will start with the 'I never wanted to leave you, I still love you, I wanted to see if you love me too stuff'...
So there you go guys, your girlfriend could have a several month affair, tell another guy she loves them, have unprotected sex and then come back to you as easy as that, just lol at investing into a relationship emotionally and expecting loyalty. I've never seen it happen
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