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Meeting with her in less than 2 hours.
I'm such a fuking nervous wreck before dates with girls I'm attracted to. Even though I'm 31 years old I'm still just as pathetic as when I was 18. No matter what I do I always end up getting rejected at the end of the night. I'm already a sucker because I'm taking her out to dinner and drinks and already said it was on me which means I'm paying. What the fuk do misc?
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09-27-2019, 01:55 PM #1
Misc help me clap dem cheeks (HTC Only)
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09-27-2019, 02:15 PM #10
Have you already been flirting with her? Or is she just using you for a free dinner? if you have sexual vibes already established then just relax and have some drinks and find an excuse to be alone with her at your place or hers.
Don't be that desperate guy who tries to get laid too fast and shot down, especially if you're not two or three points above her. If it's your first date just chill and have a good time.
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09-27-2019, 02:17 PM #11
No such thing as an easy smash for me. I just have no idea how to escalate. We could be hanging out and talking and I guess having a good time, but then if I try to make a move it always comes off as painfully awkward. They usually let me down very gently at the end of the night or they say they'd like to meet again and then ghost me.
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09-27-2019, 02:19 PM #12
Yeah I laid down some sexual vibes earlier this week in our tinder convo. I asked her if she likes getting her neck kissed and she said she loves it. I then said then how about I come over and do that and she said to take her out on a date first.
So I guess on the one hand I should just play it cool as I'm already "in"??? At the same time I've been in this situation before and always manage to fuk it up.
I'd say I'm about on her looks level.
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09-27-2019, 02:22 PM #13
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09-27-2019, 02:27 PM #15
We matched on tinder. I told her I was looking for a gf who would give it up to me anytime I wanted. She laughed. I asked her if she likes getting her neck kissed. She said she loves that. I said how about I come over and do that and she said to take her out on a date first. That's pretty much the entire story.
I'm fuking shaking because I'm so nervous. How pathetic can a 31 year old possibly get? I think I'm gonna take some ibuprofen to calm me down. Fuk. I think at this point I'm just nervous of getting rejected at the end of the night again and feeling like a sucker. I hate that feeling. Makes it much worse when everyone on her says she's a whale and it's an easy smash and yet I can't close.
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09-27-2019, 02:40 PM #21
In my experience and all the online dating advice says you cannot ask that as it much too straightforward. You have to come up with some stupid fuking scheme that gives her an excuse to alone with you so that sex "just happened". The thing is I hate doing that **** and it always comes off as fake and phony and they reject me. You really do need to have either iron confidence or be a straight suave dude. I have no idea how people hook up so often as it is such a difficult thing for me.
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