reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/9d0tqh/do_not_give_into_wondering_what_else_is_out_thereI had the purest, most wholesome relationship in the world. We developed a strong friendship at the age of 15, got together at 16, had our first kiss at 17 and lost our virginities to one another at 20. He wasn’t the best-looking guy and he was far from an “alpha male” but he treated me like I was gold every single day of our relationship. I can honestly say that he had never hurt me. We had a great connection and had every intention to spend the rest of our lives together.
...Until I started wondering what else was out there. I looked around my college campus and saw other girls with these great-looking jock-types. I listened to stories of my friend as she hopped from the beds of player to player, making it sound as exciting as possible. Hook-up culture was rampant and hot guys were like trophies. When I saw girls at or below my smv pull alpha jock types, I started to stupidly wonder if I was “selling myself short”. I’m ashamed to say that I actually began looking down on my poor boyfriend.
I broke up with him at 21, on summer break, simply stating that I felt like we had grown apart. A month later I went back to college. It didn’t take long for me to be approached by the most typical “alpha” player jock that had ever lived. It’s actually hilarious how typical he was. Being hungry for what I felt like I’d been “missing out on”, I took him up on his offer and we became fwb. I knew it wouldn’t last- I’d heard all the stories and seen all the examples. But I decided that the experience was worth the potential outcome.
The potential outcome indeed happened. I found myself getting attached to him. Deeply. Just like the cliche goes, he didn’t feel the same (although he sure claimed to in order to keep me as a lay). He had an abundance of options, way too many to fall for lil’ old me. I fell deeper and deeper as time went on to the point where I found it damn near impossible to let him go. I got badly hurt and embarrassed time and time again but whenever I tried to leave, he would pull me back, likely for the ego boost. It took him leaving the country for me to “let him go”.
Now, 2 years since this fiasco began, I feel dead inside. I can’t stand knowing that I left such a wonderful relationship for such a dumb reason. The most messed up part? My ex boyfriend told me that he still loved me and he forgave me for what I did. He was even open to getting back together. I couldn’t. I could no longer feel any kind of attraction to him anymore. In fact, I couldn’t feel it for anyone. Instead of having an n count of 1 (my potential husband), I now have a raised one. I can only see loneliness in my future; marriage is a far-fetched fantasy. This, I brought entirely on myself.
the most brutal part is the next comment she made tho:
*LTR = Long Term Relationship btwI definitely know that he was an awful, awful LTR candidate (for other reasons I neglected to add to my post) and while this does help, it also kind of makes things worse. In the end, he’s the one in the back of my mind instead of my extremely-LTR-materiel ex.
just fking LOL, a robust chad bangs her for one NIGHT then runs off and becomes the one she craves now opposed to her highschool boyfriend of 4 years who even asked to get back with her after it
it's a cold world boyos, be chad or get chadded.
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03-26-2019, 07:46 PM #1
[BRUTAL] Sloot dumps LONG term boyfriend for a taste of a "jock" at college
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03-26-2019, 07:48 PM #2
Really sad how women are like this but that's the reality of the world we live in this day and age unfortunately.
What can you do?
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03-26-2019, 07:50 PM #3
She's a sloot and her long term BF is a total fkn cuck for wanting her back and Chad is pathetic for jerking a third-tier sloot around. Basically everyone in this story is awful and they all deserve their misery, well obvious Chad's not miserable but Chad gonna Chad.
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03-26-2019, 07:51 PM #4We developed a strong friendship at the age of 15, got together at 16, had our first kiss at 17 and lost our virginities to one another at 20
this happened.
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03-26-2019, 07:51 PM #5
Are we going to pretend that men don't dump their girlfriends for the "college experience"? There are numerous posts on this website about guys who prefer not to be in relationships because they want to go and smash girls.
What I'm seeing is that the girl in the OP made a mistake, regrets it, and is now going to learn from it. The real crime is the ex boyfriend who is still open to taking her back two years later.Attract toxic girls but I'm not toxic crew
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03-26-2019, 07:52 PM #6
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03-26-2019, 07:52 PM #7
A woman who takes responsibility for her own actions? I can respect that.
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03-26-2019, 07:53 PM #8
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03-26-2019, 07:53 PM #9
Inb4 she gets cheated on
Loyalty meaans nothing now
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03-26-2019, 07:54 PM #10
become the jock but also be a good lover and maybe problem solved?
its about the looks though. She herself said that the guy she was with before wasnt good looking.
Weve all been there before. Had the slightly chubby girl that we know we could keep around but its like..meh.. not even turned on by herDoordasher crew (SRS)
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03-26-2019, 07:54 PM #11
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03-26-2019, 07:56 PM #12
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03-26-2019, 07:56 PM #14
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03-26-2019, 07:58 PM #15
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03-26-2019, 07:58 PM #16
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03-26-2019, 08:00 PM #17anonymousGuest
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03-26-2019, 08:01 PM #18
Ive done this to so many women
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03-26-2019, 08:02 PM #19
So to join the misc, you must be 21? I'm a recent graduate, btw. So yes, I know what it's like. It's not what you're trying to paint it to be. You're a miserable, lonely boyo, and misery loves company. You're trying to make people anxious and insecure so you can feel better about your ****ty situation. I speak for most of the misc when I say "miss us with that ****".
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03-26-2019, 08:04 PM #20
Fake & gay
Also men do this all the time to their loyal gfs. Just lol @ not being the turbo chad here
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03-26-2019, 08:05 PM #21
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03-26-2019, 08:06 PM #22
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Somebody find out cuck ex boyfriends misc account so I can neg him, for being such a pussy. 21 years old and single the world is yours son, get it together.
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03-26-2019, 08:07 PM #23
Negged for reddit cuck story.
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03-26-2019, 08:08 PM #24
this just in
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03-26-2019, 08:08 PM #25
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03-26-2019, 08:09 PM #26Mother north, united we stand, together we walk
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03-26-2019, 08:11 PM #27
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