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12-10-2018, 12:05 PM #121
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12-10-2018, 12:28 PM #123
My ex said the same alongwith 'theres no one else' 'you will always be special to me', while she already hooked up with a new guy behind my back.
In cases like these, believe the opposite of what she tells you
its not you its me = its something about you
no, i am not seeing anyone now = she definitely is
you will always mean a great deal to me = you aint **** to her now, maybe you were but not anymore
maybe we can be together in the future = .....yea you dont need translation for this cuz **** that sheet*Canadian Crew*
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12-10-2018, 12:30 PM #124
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12-10-2018, 12:33 PM #125
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12-10-2018, 12:37 PM #126
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12-10-2018, 12:38 PM #127
holy fukking sheet my ex said the same when i very pointedly kept asking her about the SUDDEN breakup---few weeks later i found out through mutuals that she WAS already seeing someone, confront with evidence, she breaks down and confesses to cheating
Bro go NC right now, never ever let her have power over you ever again!*Canadian Crew*
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12-10-2018, 12:39 PM #128
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12-10-2018, 12:49 PM #129
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Correct. Losing a long relationship is like an amputation, but not a nice neat surgical one, it's a limb being torn off in machinery. It's bloody and messy and takes a long time to recover from. You won't reattach that limb, you tourniquet and get medical treatment (talk to friends, psychologist, priest, whatever) and rest and recover and then move on.
It's common to go back for one last fck, and to try to turn that into a rekindling. It never works. I've done it. Multiple times. It never works.
And now I am happily married to a good woman and we have two kids. Life does go on after a loss, and there are good women out there.
Oh, and get an STD check. Sorry but it's a possibility if there was some overlap. Lots of people don't leave their current job until they have a new job. It's the same thing for some people.
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12-10-2018, 12:52 PM #130
99% of women will leave if you don't lead them in the relationship. maybe you are inexperienced but in her mind you didn't give her any reason to stay. they'll get bored and when someone else makes them feel something - they're gone. it is why it is important to have a purpose in life that they can support you with (so you can build a future together), then it gives them purpose also. and i don't mean having kids.
accept it is over, don't try to get her back. work on yourself. install grindr and you'll be okLast edited by AWillis; 12-10-2018 at 01:18 PM.
Subjecting yourself to self imposed discipline is the surest way to increase the quality of your existence
Never accept defeat
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The opposite of courage, in our society, is not cowardice but conformity
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12-10-2018, 01:01 PM #131
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12-10-2018, 01:59 PM #132
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12-10-2018, 02:05 PM #134
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monkey branching 101
a series of short tasks over a relatively longer period of time is life. altruistic light moves under the cover of your own darkness.. find this inner torch bearer and accompany them to the end. we all walk together, but we all walk alone. there is no understanding or purpose beyond that
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12-10-2018, 02:09 PM #135
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12-10-2018, 02:43 PM #138
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haha this so much
back when i started dating, it would start off great then after 3-4 months it would just go downhill and stress me tf out, then I would be feeling down when it never worked out. People who rely on other people for happiness are weak individuals imo. True happiness comes from within, and enjoying your own company. As soon as some girl starts pissing you off, puts stress on your life, replace them instantly, and treat every girl as just a bit of fun, something quite literally to do when you're bored.
do and focus on your own thing brah. keep relations casual. Women are dream killers.
NC, move on, forget she ever existed.UK Brah
HTC
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12-10-2018, 02:43 PM #139
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12-10-2018, 03:04 PM #140
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12-10-2018, 03:11 PM #141
Misc is full of so many cucks nowdays
Golden rule: pics
Relationship H&A------------> if you want to talk about your ex boyfriend like a bunch of girls and twinks in a cafe
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12-10-2018, 03:17 PM #142
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12-10-2018, 03:21 PM #143
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**** happened to me to. Gf of 3 years left me to bang one of her friends. Went full Nc, didn't know about it until she comes crawling back, told her she made a stupid mistake and was tired of her constant need for approval and it was done. Then found out she'd been ****ing someone I knew. Took everything my flatmates had to stop me beating them both into the ground,
The most truthful thing you can ever hear boys, if you're reading this and you're like "nah that **** won't happen to me, she loves me" we all felt that way, doesn't stop them pulling those knickers down and spreading them legs for a smashing.
You never really recover from that, I have a good time with the girls I date now, but even if they would never do it, I know they're all capable, you can't let that **** happen to you twice.
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12-10-2018, 03:29 PM #144
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12-10-2018, 04:12 PM #147
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My ex who was with me 1.5 years dumped me in July. In November she hits me up with a happy birthday wish, and we end up smashing that night and the next morning. Next night we're alone and I ask if she's been with anyone since we split. Obviously the answer is yes, I tell her we can't get back together and she goes ballistic. Tells me she hates me, I'm evil, I'm a bastard, etc. Bish you're the one who thought the grass was greener and assumed you could get some strange, then come back to who treated you right (me) after you get pumped and dumped. Now I've gone fully NC, I'm playing the field and have been on dates with 5 girls in the last month. One of them is looking like relationship material so we'll see where it goes.
The point is that NC is the correct answer and don't take her back when she crawls to you on her knees.405x3, 275x3, 495x3
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12-10-2018, 04:14 PM #148
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