The harshest redpill is how women treat you if you're ugly vs if you're handsome

[Legz422]

yea but went over your head was that most men treat even ugly women with kindness and respect. the opposite RARELY happens in fact a lot of uglier men are the subject of mockery and shame by women

lol wut?! Most of the guys in this thread say that attractive people are treated better than unattractive people. That goes for both men and women.

[NDMD]

Who the fu*ck wants to deal w/ some nasty f*cks?

[Cha0tic]

Facts

been starting to talk to a girl at my gym every now and then when I see her bc i always see her watching so I decided why not. Easily one of the best looking girls there

other day guy smaller then I am, not attractive goes up to try to help her with unloading some weight off squat bar. He helps she puts headphones back on ignores after that.

I go up to her she takes them off, has a conversation, laughs at everything I say jokes back and forth slight flirt. Even came to say bye to me on her way out and proceeded to try to be funny/cute.

another girl at the gym does comps and **** another very pretty girl, people stare don't say anything. A few weeks ago she came up to me because she noticed me from IG and started talking to me and told me my cut is going good etc.. And every now and then when I see her she watches me and says hi.

that's reality of things, if you're attractive you get treated different.

[ImpressiveGainz]

Good looks are like anything else: more valuable genetics for reproduction.

In ye olde dayes, only the smartest, most athletic, best looking caveman got to bang cavechicks and pass his superior DNA along. Somewhere along the line, probably about the time we got modern medicine, genetically inferior people became more viable and began reproducing. So blame modern society. Also, dumbass nerds tried to convince everyone that good looking people and athletes couldn’t also be smart in an effort to help their cause. This further diluted the superior genetic pool and now a bunch of autists are running around who offer nothing except being really good at math or something.

Im not advocating eugenics at all, but there are A LOT of people alive today who probably wouldn’t make it three turns into Oregon Trail.

[anonkunbrah]

and then u woke up

[jizzfarmer]

[TheWeeknd4Ever]

Seek help OP

[mcdojo]

I look at attractive guys more than I look at unattractive guys, but I wouldn't date the Chadliest Chad if I didn't feel a mental connection and they had a chit personality. So yes, being good looking will get you hawked and flirted with, but looks alone won't always get you the girl.

It's called the halo effect, you will attribute a better personality to a Chad so he wins again. Notice what OP is saying, suddenly he has become funny to girls and they laugh at his jokes.

[SportCoat]

It's almost as though people are attracted to attractive people

u taking my lines and my gifs...

[Legz422]

It's called the halo effect, you will attribute a better personality to a Chad so he wins again. Notice what OP is saying, suddenly he has become funny to girls and they laugh at his jokes.

I don't.

Women tell white lies all the time, the opposite sex is usually twice their size in pounds and twice as strong as them. So women tell lies to protect themselves , one of the biggest ones is" you are a nice guy" , which usually means you are ugly or that they found you unattractive.

Here is a video that explains everything:

Cliffs:
1-be handsome
2-be attractive
3- don't be unattractive

https://www.*************/view?i=f76_1323277426

I've known plenty of attractive guys (to me) that are nice. WTF. You guys are ridiculous.

[69Lbs]

OP is ugly


Rest In Peace m8

[Silencespeaks]

I've known plenty of attractive guys (to me) that are nice. WTF. You guys are ridiculous.

Same. Goodlooking nice guys are the GOAT. I think all women like nice attractive guys.

[Nicklol]

Yep..

every aspect of life..

cute girl sits beside homeless guy on bus whos yelling and scratching himself instead of me.

cashier or gym receptionist dont look at me or greet me.. then as soon as I walk out I hear her greet the next person and flirt in the friendliest voice.

girl accepts my instagram request,doesnt follow me back. I figure she doesnt follow many people but I check her feed and shes following 10 other guys beside me in the past 24 hours. Their instagram wasnt even interesting, I guess I was just bald or too ugly to follow back.

Everyone is always implying how you should have had a dating life in high school or college.. girls went out of their way to avoid me and complained to teacher if the teacher did a random seating plan and then ended up beside me.

besides that... zero tinder matches, zero fuk buddies, never had a gf.

You see movies or commercials with couples or people having sex but you cant relate, youre too ugly.
you hear "love" songs on radio and even if its catchy,you cant sing along to it because nobody will ever love you and you cant relate to it

Oh and no matter how good of shape youre in or any physical improvements you do besides plastic surgery, you still wont be more attractive

[AcetylCoA]

you hear "love" songs on radio and even if its catchy,you cant sing along to it because nobody will ever love you and you cant relate to it

feels

[69Lbs]

Yep..

every aspect of life..

cute girl sits beside homeless guy on bus whos yelling and scratching himself instead of me.

cashier or gym receptionist dont look at me or greet me.. then as soon as I walk out I hear her greet the next person and flirt in the friendliest voice.

girl accepts my instagram request,doesnt follow me back. I figure she doesnt follow many people but I check her feed and shes following 10 other guys beside me in the past 24 hours. Their instagram wasnt even interesting, I guess I was just too ugly to follow back.

Everyone is always implying how you should have had a dating life in high school or college.. girls went out of their way to avoid me and complained to teacher if the teacher did a random seating plan and then ended up beside me.

besides that... zero tinder matches, zero fuk buddies, never had a gf.

You see movies or commercials with couples or people having sex but you cant relate, youre too ugly.
you hear "love" songs on radio and even if its catchy,you cant sing along to it because nobody will ever love you and you cant relate to it

Not sure if srs, post a pic...

[The1337King]

I got a fat latino friend who dresses like ****, has a neck beard and is ugly as ****. The guy is a real estate agent. I've never seen a man hook up with so many crazy hot hbb's. He told me he's "just good at selling himself". The guy has so much confidence and is a pure sleaze bag. I honestly think it's purely about confidence. All this guy does in his spare time besides hit up bars is play world of warcraft. Just be the best you, you can be and own it, and don't give a fook about what anyone else thinks.

[Codyisback]

thread title: sad but true

[Nicklol]

Not sure if srs, post a pic...

Spoiler!

[Casca]

Spoiler!

You're no eod, but you're not ugly. You probably won't be having girls instantly feel attracted to you because of looks, but you're not repulsive or anything like that.

If you're attractive and introverted, there are problems. You ever see a guy get rejected and then freaks out on the girl? She didn't do anything to the guy, she just doesn't want to date for whatever reason. Goes the other way around too. Girls constantly show you interest, a lot of them. All the time. It can go bad when you're around them regularly and you ignore them. Most of them just eventually stop, but sometimes you get one that goes bat**** and just absolutely starts hating on you. And you're introverted, so you don't really talk to many people around you. Girls that go crazy here are not, they are usually really loud and will start talking **** about you to everyone. And then you have dudes that just instantly dislike you or wants to think you're gay.

[MiscInformed]

I got a fat latino friend who dresses like ****, has a neck beard and is ugly as ****. The guy is a real estate agent. I've never seen a man hook up with so many crazy hot hbb's. He told me he's "just good at selling himself". The guy has so much confidence and is a pure sleaze bag. I honestly think it's purely about confidence. All this guy does in his spare time besides hit up bars is play world of warcraft. Just be the best you, you can be and own it, and don't give a fook about what anyone else thinks.

FA miscers don't want the truth.

I've known guys like that. So much self-confidence that women became entranced by them. Ugly guys too. Back in college, I knew a guy who was like that. He had a huge nose. I mean, you could have ski jumped off of it. He had that swagger of somebody who was really good looking, but if he was, I didn't see it. The only thing he had going for him was being a manmore. He might have been 6'4" or 6'5". Anyway, he hooks up with this chick at a club and we later find out she's a local radio DJ. So I listen in to the show a couple days later and the other DJs are teasing her about meeting a guy. When she recites what she likes about him, she mentions that he's tall but she also says he's really good-looking. Thing is... he wasn't. His self-confidence made him much more attractive in her mind's eye than he really was. I wasn't a good friend of the guy. He was more a friend of a friend, so I'd only run into him at card games or the occasional night out. I think he dated her for a couple of months until he got bored.

Looks matter, but if she's intrigued by you, she'll think of you as being better looking than you really are.

Edit: I just found a pic of the guy online. He looks like a used car salesman. I'm tempted to post a pic here so FA miscers can see there is hope for them, but don't want detectives to figure out who he is.

[kratosbrah]

treat all women except my mother like **** so never have this problem crew

[EoR]

This "I am angry that you're talking to me" behavior is a defensive mechanic from being hit on all the time and having a decent social value. While young and attractive they feel insulted a sub 8/10 male is daring to even chat with them. They cannot fathom a male being platonic in communication and see everything as personal attention and trying to be picked up. As their looks erode this frustration/anger will decline because the amount of attention and pick-ups are also declining, so they want to hold onto any form of male interaction. That's when you will see articles of: "Why am I ghost now?" and they will blame males for being shallow etc. It's all basic NPC theory.

[irmocool]

lol lets just pretend you didnt get more confident smh

[MediocreGains]

So attractive people are attractive? Shocking.

[LugosiNineOne]

You learn this aspect of life very early if you are honest with yourself and not dumb. People will say I am good looking (I never talk about my looks) but women completely ignore me or act hostile towards me. Not all, but most. It is something you just learn to deal with.

[irmocool]

Good looks are like anything else: more valuable genetics for reproduction.

In ye olde dayes, only the smartest, most athletic, best looking caveman got to bang cavechicks and pass his superior DNA along. Somewhere along the line, probably about the time we got modern medicine, genetically inferior people became more viable and began reproducing. So blame modern society. Also, dumbass nerds tried to convince everyone that good looking people and athletes couldn’t also be smart in an effort to help their cause. This further diluted the superior genetic pool and now a bunch of autists are running around who offer nothing except being really good at math or something.

Im not advocating eugenics at all, but there are A LOT of people alive today who probably wouldn’t make it three turns into Oregon Trail.

like yourself?

[HoustonMiscer]

many times i have had platonic, small talk interactions with women where i wasn't even trying to flirt with them. they tried to act like i was hitting on them or some **** lol. bitch u ain't even that hot, who the fuk do you think you are? women are fukin delusional. they think guys are trying to hit on them all the time. bitch get over yourself, you aren't that important.

[BrightThru2014]

I went from 215 to a lean 160 lbs following about a year of relatively focused consistent dieting at age 23.

Went from obliviously happy with a few average to below average girlfriends from ages 16-22, to bringing back 7-8s at will from bars (always had a charismatic overcompensating personality and good face) and ended up hating all of humanity. It's sickening how differently people treated me, old friends included.

[EoR]

many times i have had platonic, small talk interactions with women where i wasn't even trying to flirt with them. they tried to act like i was hitting on them or some **** lol. bitch u ain't even that hot, who the fuk do you think you are? women are fukin delusional. they think guys are trying to hit on them all the time. bitch get over yourself, you aren't that important.

Yep. You can spot their behavior and you just want to say: "Fuking relax, this is called a normal human conversation. I am not trying to pick you up" - and may any God help you if you give a normal smile while you talk. My previous post ties in why they think every male is hitting on them.

[friesbruh]

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