Background: I was physically and sexually abused, a lot, as a child. March 9th 2019 I am going to tell my story at the himtoo movement march in Washington D.C.
I started masturbating compulsively at age 8. I have never stopped. I gained great knowledge with my first orgasm. I stuck my penis in the stream of the bathtub water faucet. Tingly. I wondered what it would feel like on the other side so I twisted my erect penis in the stream. Tingly. Orgasm! 8 years old look a the knowledge I held. There are multiple areas of sensation on the glans/head of the penis and not all of them cause orgasm. In fact the area that does, the frenulum, is not the most sensitive area of the penis. I played around with this knowledge for forty years.
Then I found the pattern.
I want to reveal this masturbation technique at the himtoo movement march.
Try it and post your critique here, good or bad.
Possible benefits:
Premature ejaculation no more
Ejaculation without orgasm
Orgasm without ejaculation
Zero refractory period
Lets start with what everyone knows. A man masturbating in a porno. Hand grasps erect penis thumb on top, stroke up stroke down...
A) So, lets invert the hand so the thumb and index finger can grasp the penis at the base. Stroke up stroke down. Notice now at the top of the stroke you have 3 fingers which can apply more sensation all over the head of the penis. Do that.
B) take one or two fingers and circle the coronal ridge (penis parts here:
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Alternate between A and B. B will be more sensitive than A. Do not be alarmed if you cannot do too many revolutions with B. Just like lifting weights, over time you will be able to do more.
While you are doing B you cannot orgasm. You will be able to masturbate over longer periods of time. All this threshold manipulation transfers directly to sexual intercourse.
If are succeeding with this pattern when you switch back to A, from B should get a sensation like you are creating and relieving an itch at the same time.
Learn more about your own sex and then share this information with your partner.
P.S.
Two days ago, 4 additional years on top of the 40 years.
Step 2: After the first ejaculation and before the first orgasm, switch to circling. Brand new sensation I have never felt before. You can still alternate A and B. oh my!
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