90% of dudes not getting laid is due to an underdeveloped personality - NOT LOOKS

[HayZues Christi]

100% agree.

Will neg 5 fa *******s itt today

[Vexidi]

Yup. They can smell insecurity and desperation like a dog smells fear and nothing dries it up quicker.

[AlamedaBoy]

I have decent social skills just zero intuition and I just presume girls don't really like me that much.

[PKneyr]

Most brahs who don't get laid don't even try to. I know many who haven't had sex in the past 5-10 years, they go to work then play video games until they sleep.

[solidus2k3]

what about all the misc chads

[bee su]

speaking from experience amrite op[?

[AWillis]

[mandarin163]

Personality is nothing but a meme, a sloot decides your "personality" ie your face within the first 10 seconds of seeing you.

Of course there are outliers (very rare) but anyone saying its their personality pulling sloots are simply just better looking than they think.

[HayZues Christi]

Personality is nothing but a meme, a sloot decides your "personality" ie your face within the first 10 seconds of seeing you.

Of course there are outliers (very rare) but anyone saying its their personality pulling sloots are simply just better looking than they think.

Neg #1

[Chrysippus]

man lands on moon

[Ratfish]

How do you know when you’re “being yourself”? I think being myself is me being quiet, but I’m actually weird af and a little mean. I enjoy making people uncomfortable just a little bit but I don’t think that’s an attractive personality.

I’m embarrassed of my personality and I don’t let it come out in small talk essentially.
Do you just build on to what people respond to the most?

i don't try to impress people, although i do try to make them laugh because that's fun for everyone. i've had a few times at bars where i've been a bit tipsy and basically doing a standup routine in front of a bunch of strangers who are loling hard at everything i say. have had gals walk up and introduce themselves brazenly afterward too srs.

everyone is afraid of who they are. just think of how few people on this site post their faces. what are you afraid of? strangers making fun of you? if you can't handle some heat from anonymous *******s, how are you going to impress anyone in real life?

i turn off uninteresting pretty gals all the time. don't give a fukk. there's always another gal.

i pulled sort of a heist recently where i went to a bar and started talking to this 26yo gal who is about as cute as the one i posted in that other thread. i was rekt but i told her that she looked like she was in love with the bartender, which she was. i also randomly said, "you look like you have a nemesis at work named Sharon" which was also true, but i can't even tell you how i guessed that lol. anyway, she's fukken cool and we hung out one night and crawled a million bars and at some point i stopped her and she asked if i was gonna try to kiss her and i said, "may as well get it out of the way." later on that night i was fingering her at her place (10/10 playboy pussy aesthetics) but i had smashed an ex earlier in the day and hadn't showered and wasn't gonna go full scummaxxx and smash this one. also, it's cool to fool around but not necessarily smash a gal who is a friend. she would be an excellent wingwoman.

anyway, she ended up dating that bartender or some chit and he's a lot taller and better looking than me and he absolutely hates me lol. every time he sees me, he looks fukken shook because he knows. one time, before the night where she got naked, she texted me to come to the bar to make him jealous because he wasn't paying attention to her. i was in an uber a mile away so i just diverted to there. i sit down next to her and say, "make him jealous, eh? so like...grab your tits?" she says "oh, that's a great idea, but wait until he looks away" wait wut, but i wasn't gonna dispute. she then says "no, under the shirt" and she wasn't wearing a bra. that was a fun night.

having typed all that out, i realize now that my stories have no pertinence to your question. let that sink in lol

[MisterJustice]

Most brahs who don't get laid don't even try to. I know many who haven't had sex in the past 5-10 years, they go to work then play video games until they sleep.

and what would they need to do to change it then? not go to work? not play video games? how does going to work and playing video games = not getting laid? How would, lets say, stopping video games, make that person get laid? where is the connection here

[eod8989]

It's because you have to initiate and audition for them which is pathetic

[MisterJustice]

i don't try to impress people, although i do try to make them laugh because that's fun for everyone. i've had a few times at bars where i've been a bit tipsy and basically doing a standup routine in front of a bunch of strangers who are loling hard at everything i say. have had gals walk up and introduce themselves brazenly afterward too srs.

everyone is afraid of who they are. just think of how few people on this site post their faces. what are you afraid of? strangers making fun of you? if you can't handle some heat from anonymous *******s, how are you going to impress anyone in real life?

i turn off uninteresting pretty gals all the time. don't give a fukk. there's always another gal.

i pulled sort of a heist recently where i went to a bar and started talking to this 26yo gal who is about as cute as the one i posted here. i was rekt but i told her that she looked like she was in love with the bartender, which she was. i also randomly said, "you look like you have a nemesis at work named Sharon" which was also true, but i can't even tell you how i guessed that lol. anyway, she's fukken cool and we hung out one night and crawled a million bars and at some point i stopped her and she asked if i was gonna try to kiss her and i said, "may as well get it out of the way." later on that night i was fingering her at her place (10/10 playboy pussy aesthetics) but i had smashed an ex earlier in the day and hadn't showered and wasn't gonna go full scummaxxx and smash this one. also, it's cool to fool around but not necessarily smash a gal who is a friend. she would be an excellent wingwoman.

anyway, she ended up dating that bartender or some chit and he's a lot taller and better looking than me and he absolutely hates me lol. every time he sees me, he looks fukken shook because he knows. one time, before the night where she got naked, she texted me to come to the bar to make him jealous because he wasn't paying attention to her. i was in an uber a mile away so i just diverted to there. i sit down next to her and say, "make him jealous, eh? so like...grab your tits?" she says "oh, that's a great idea, but wait until he looks away" wait wut, but i wasn't gonna dispute. she then says "no, under the shirt" and she wasn't wearing a bra. that was a fun night.

having typed all that out, i realize now that my stories have no pertinence to your question. let that sink in lol

dang Ratfish what a slayer

[LikeAMachine]

It's because you have to initiate and audition for them which is pathetic

Bro I am amazed that you have been doing this cry baby sh*t for half a decade on this account alone.

well done

[mandarin163]

Neg #1

Come at me you chad *******

[Lightsoft]

i don't try to impress people, although i do try to make them laugh because that's fun for everyone. i've had a few times at bars where i've been a bit tipsy and basically doing a standup routine in front of a bunch of strangers who are loling hard at everything i say. have had gals walk up and introduce themselves brazenly afterward too srs.

everyone is afraid of who they are. just think of how few people on this site post their faces. what are you afraid of? strangers making fun of you? if you can't handle some heat from anonymous *******s, how are you going to impress anyone in real life?

i turn off uninteresting pretty gals all the time. don't give a fukk. there's always another gal.

i pulled sort of a heist recently where i went to a bar and started talking to this 26yo gal who is about as cute as the one i posted in that other thread. i was rekt but i told her that she looked like she was in love with the bartender, which she was. i also randomly said, "you look like you have a nemesis at work named Sharon" which was also true, but i can't even tell you how i guessed that lol. anyway, she's fukken cool and we hung out one night and crawled a million bars and at some point i stopped her and she asked if i was gonna try to kiss her and i said, "may as well get it out of the way." later on that night i was fingering her at her place (10/10 playboy pussy aesthetics) but i had smashed an ex earlier in the day and hadn't showered and wasn't gonna go full scummaxxx and smash this one. also, it's cool to fool around but not necessarily smash a gal who is a friend. she would be an excellent wingwoman.

anyway, she ended up dating that bartender or some chit and he's a lot taller and better looking than me and he absolutely hates me lol. every time he sees me, he looks fukken shook because he knows. one time, before the night where she got naked, she texted me to come to the bar to make him jealous because he wasn't paying attention to her. i was in an uber a mile away so i just diverted to there. i sit down next to her and say, "make him jealous, eh? so like...grab your tits?" she says "oh, that's a great idea, but wait until he looks away" wait wut, but i wasn't gonna dispute. she then says "no, under the shirt" and she wasn't wearing a bra. that was a fun night.

having typed all that out, i realize now that my stories have no pertinence to your question. let that sink in lol

[matt3635]

People who say this are all muscle no face looks wise, or neither. Good looking ripped guys can get laid regardless of personality. As long as they don't bully or be nasty to the girl.

[ErnieMccracken]

i don't try to impress people, although i do try to make them laugh because that's fun for everyone. i've had a few times at bars where i've been a bit tipsy and basically doing a standup routine in front of a bunch of strangers who are loling hard at everything i say. have had gals walk up and introduce themselves brazenly afterward too srs.

everyone is afraid of who they are. just think of how few people on this site post their faces. what are you afraid of? strangers making fun of you? if you can't handle some heat from anonymous *******s, how are you going to impress anyone in real life?

i turn off uninteresting pretty gals all the time. don't give a fukk. there's always another gal.

i pulled sort of a heist recently where i went to a bar and started talking to this 26yo gal who is about as cute as the one i posted in that other thread. i was rekt but i told her that she looked like she was in love with the bartender, which she was. i also randomly said, "you look like you have a nemesis at work named Sharon" which was also true, but i can't even tell you how i guessed that lol. anyway, she's fukken cool and we hung out one night and crawled a million bars and at some point i stopped her and she asked if i was gonna try to kiss her and i said, "may as well get it out of the way." later on that night i was fingering her at her place (10/10 playboy pussy aesthetics) but i had smashed an ex earlier in the day and hadn't showered and wasn't gonna go full scummaxxx and smash this one. also, it's cool to fool around but not necessarily smash a gal who is a friend. she would be an excellent wingwoman.

anyway, she ended up dating that bartender or some chit and he's a lot taller and better looking than me and he absolutely hates me lol. every time he sees me, he looks fukken shook because he knows. one time, before the night where she got naked, she texted me to come to the bar to make him jealous because he wasn't paying attention to her. i was in an uber a mile away so i just diverted to there. i sit down next to her and say, "make him jealous, eh? so like...grab your tits?" she says "oh, that's a great idea, but wait until he looks away" wait wut, but i wasn't gonna dispute. she then says "no, under the shirt" and she wasn't wearing a bra. that was a fun night.

having typed all that out, i realize now that my stories have no pertinence to your question. let that sink in lol

1. Be outgoing
2. Don't be not outgoing

[psychosylocibin]

if you have basic social skills down but can't get laid, its your looks period.


you don't need some ultra charismatic PUA level 9999 personality to get laid. If that were the case then half the planet wouldn't be married.


A lot of men fall into the "no personality or game" camp and thats is why they can't get laid

but a lot of men also fall into the "good personality but not good looking enough" and can't get laid.


also, spot saved for otaku and I

[Ratfish]

oh, another thing about that chick is the night where i fingered her, she asked if her weird gay cousin could hang out as well earlier in the night. i was like yeah sure, i hang out with *******s all the time (i meant the misc). anyway, dude rolls up with a pack of ****s and before i know it, it's me, her and 5-6 gay dudes hanging out dedsrs. one of them was a wasted endocrinologist and he takes a liking to me and starts getting handsy. i pulled him aside and said, "hey buddy, if you were a straight dude, i would fukken dismantle you right now. i don't think a hate crime is gonna impress her though, so back the fukk off." he didn't fukk around after that lol. one of the other gay dudes didn't like that dude either and when he was talking said, in a catty ******* voice, "ugh, change the channel" i loled hard af at that

[MyBaddBrah]

The way to personality max is literally just get people laughing and feeling good. Drop the "character" you know as yourself. Focus on the energy/vibe.

Too many people try to charactermax (your ego, thinking you're important, you're not), instead of focusing on the raw energy and building up a vibe. People are too protective of their character/image, putting too much energy in looking/being cool.

The Chad already gets laid by looking/being cool because social conditioning has built his character up. If you're not a Chad, you have to do the work yourself

Thats why the introvert/extrovert thing is BS. The introvert is simply too cowardly to surrender his ego/image. You gotta take the leap of faith sooner or later boyos. Extroverts are just people who took that leap at an earlier age. They got momentum.

"Developing" a personality is a paradox, because you need to be doing less (less filtering/worrying/protecting your character), not more. That's ultimately what being yourself means, there's no effort. Like Bruce Lee said "Be water"

[Ratfish]

The way to personality max is literally just get people laughing and feeling good. Drop the "character" you know as yourself. Focus on the energy/vibe.

Too many people try to charactermax (your ego, thinking you're important, you're not), instead of focusing on the raw energy and building up a vibe. People are too protective of their character/image, putting too much energy in looking/being cool.

The Chad already gets laid by looking/being cool because social conditioning has built his character up. If you're not a Chad, you have to do the work yourself

my entire squad is substantially better looking than i am but when we're talking to sloots, they completely disappear. my one good buddy got pissed when he went to take a leak and i started making out with the chick he liked. i told her that he was interested in her and would be pissed but she said she didn't care and didn't like him.

i had another time where i was in the patio section of a bar being a real piece of chit and this sloot with absolutely gargantuan tits says "that guy is hot (pointing to some random dude), your friend has nice arms, but you're the only one i wanna fukk." incidentally, she ended up being a squirter and absolutely ruined her corolla. lol

every fukken post on the misc is about chad this, chad that, my genetics are inferior, woe is me. all fukken bullchit. i'm a bald, decrepit sewer creature and i can steal chad's girl by sheer force of personality.

[PelvicThrustBP]

the amount of things that attribute to the success of attracting the opposite sex are so numerous and different that you can't possibly pin it on one thing, even looks.

one of the hottest girls in my agency is dating, and in love with, a literal 5/10.

if you wanna keep it simple, it's really as easy as this:

if you wanna get laid, learn to adapt and/or learn to lie
if you wanna find a girlfriend/wife, be yourself and enjoy getting rejected 1000 times until you find your match.

[adonio577777]

People who say this are all muscle no face looks wise, or neither. Good looking ripped guys can get laid regardless of personality. As long as they don't bully or be nasty to the girl.

If they’are confident yes, if they have low self esteem and no communication skills they will have issues with women like every other guy.

Women love communication, I don’t care how good looking a guys is, if he don’t know how to communicate, to interact and flirt properly he will have issues with women.

[BrightThru2014]

Issue is personality is largely developed through socialization with the opposite sex that takes place during childhood to late adolescence, by the time most men are adults they have lived through a lifetime of rejection by women and are utterly and permanently stunted.

It may no longer be looks, but it was their looks to begin with that shaped their present social skills.

[ErnieMccracken]

one of the hottest girls in my agency is dating, and in love with, a literal 5/10.

He hung like a horse?

[sandaltan]

if you lower your standards sufficiently anyone can engage in high-risk sex with fat girls

[JRJester]

Lmao @ this beta generation. We need another world war.

[sandaltan]

Lmao @ this beta generation. We need another world war.

let's make it a war on an idea, not a real war.

like a war on drugs!

or a war on poverty!

or a war on christianity!

YOU NAME IT LIMITLESS POSSIBILITIES

ill start a war on your ******* ass!

sorry