How do still single guys in your 30s-40s feel that most men your age have moved on?

[HMFIC_BROWSIN]

Simple truth: Some people aren't meant to be in relationships. I am one of them. I feel trapped everytime i am with a woman long term. If i spend i weekend with them i count down the minutes until they leave. I am very content with my life.... have plenty of friends and money/possessions to keep me occupied. A full time woman is nothing but a burden for me.

Kind of this^

I value my time alone/miscing over having someone talking to me constantly just because we're in the same room at the same time.

Peace & quiet is the goat. Dont think ill ever move in with a significant other. Srs.

[Nocturnal310]

humans do better in pairs...

all successful businesses had partners

all cops have a partner

even in animal kingdom lonewolf doesnt survive long in the wild



thats why america was super successful when traditional family values were prevalent



problem these days is that if a guy marries a wrong woman ..he has a lot to lose and life being nearly ruined..whereas women dont have as much legal liability...even if u dont marry, its important to have a serious relationship or a partner at some point in life when you feel stable...could be in 20's, 30's or 40's....or even 50's...but as you get older, dating pool diminishes and if you are not a 1% Type A successful alpha male..u dont have much hope in dating beyond age 35.

[Acetheticz]

humans do better in pairs...

all successful businesses had partners

all cops have a partner

even in animal kingdom lonewolf doesnt survive long in the wild



thats why america was super successful when traditional family values were prevalent



problem these days is that if a guy marries a wrong woman ..he has a lot to lose and life being nearly ruined..whereas women dont have as much legal liability...even if u dont marry, its important to have a serious relationship or a partner at some point in life when you feel stable...could be in 20's, 30's or 40's....or even 50's...but as you get older, dating pool diminishes and if you are not a 1% Type A successful alpha male..u dont have much hope in dating beyond age 35.

Completely disagree. If you're 35, dont look like a meth addict, and make at least 55k/year (unless youre living in Cali or NY) then you can easily date 21-24 year olds as long as you give out the allusion that you're happy and want to have fun with them.

[jakobi78]

Completely disagree. If you're 35, dont look like a meth addict, and make at least 55k/year (unless youre living in Cali or NY) then you can easily date 21-24 year olds as long as you give out the allusion that you're happy and want to have fun with them.

why would a 21-24 year old woman that's willing to date an old man when they can get someone their age....
unless she's 1)a gold digger 2) has daddy issues 3) has low self esteem....

[IrishCule]

why would a 21-24 year old woman that's willing to date an old man when they can get someone their age....
unless she's 1)a gold digger 2) has daddy issues 3) has low self esteem....

AKA 99% of 21-24 year olds.

[DJKhaled]

Lol all of the ones that are married with kids with "real adult responsibilities" seem miserable

I have friends like that and they are no longer fun and lively like when we were young. Its like they had their soul sucked out of them. I can feel the depression pouring out of them. All their wives have them by the balls, some in sexless marriages, and all they do is work to pay for all their families chit.

[yabbayabba]

Lol all of the ones that are married with kids with "real adult responsibilities" seem miserable

I have friends like that and they are no longer fun and lively like when we were young. Its like they had their soul sucked out of them. I can feel the depression pouring out of them. All their wives have them by the balls, some in sexless marriages, and all they do is work to pay for all their families chit.

What are you doing for fun? It's Saturday night and you are on the Misc with your thumb up your ass.

[MisterJustice]

Happy wife happy life

Lol @ cope ITT

[maori-rap]

Never been kissed aesthetic-autistic virgin. Gonna be 30 in a few months. Feels great.

Same, just not autistic and a few years older.

I don't regret not being married with kids. Truth be told, I have enough issues just looking after myself and making sure the bills and various taxes are taken care of. I own a home (18k or so of mortgage to pay still) so its not like I don't have responsibilities...my property is my responsibility. At least I have a young niece and nephew so I get to see what it is like to have kids in a 'second hand' type way without any of the ownership and bother.

So I don't date at all. But I just fill the free time with other chit; gym, reading, gardening, housekeeping, internet, music/drama, xbox one, Now TV, vacations etc. I'm far from some obese basement dwelling neckbeard loser (and I'm not saying that anyone else here IS that type of person)

[DJKhaled]

What are you doing for fun? It's Saturday night and you are on the Misc with your thumb up your ass.

Still better than coming home to screaming brats and a sexless wife that nags at you

[greenleaf]

Married men = lower T. No thx jeff.

[Yoopwat]

Finding a partner you want to be with and settling down and developing a strong family unit is pretty much the cornerstone of developed society. For an example of what happens without strong family units please see black people worldwide.

[ButcherSir]

50% are settling for a 2/10 whale
50% browsing incels forums all day

[Bar182]

Im single but all men should strive to get married and have a family. Its the cornerstone of society, its what built civilisation and that why the world is falling apart.

The western world cant replace itself as our fertility rates are so low. Marriage is a huge sacrifice for a man but if we dont do it we are gonna be replaced.

Old and single will suck too

[Ryceryder85]

why would a 21-24 year old woman that's willing to date an old man when they can get someone their age....
unless she's 1)a gold digger 2) has daddy issues 3) has low self esteem....

You have some growing up to do my brother.

[Acetheticz]

why would a 21-24 year old woman that's willing to date an old man when they can get someone their age....
unless she's 1)a gold digger 2) has daddy issues 3) has low self esteem....

Maybe because 75% of 21-24 year old women prefer dating older men.

[AlamedaBoy]

My mother is a Russian immigrant. She got a ******* just like you to fall in love with her. He paid for everything, she took him for all he’s got.

He was a sandals wearing dad bod ******* just like you who was head over heels in love.

She used him for the stability because he was a stupid desperate American who can never get a girl if he tried to. She targeted him for a reason.

The check paid for everything. Meanwhile she was actively dating a chad who would buy me cool chit and take her to expensive restaurants.

Sooner than later after her and my papers were done she left the sad fuk And he went back to living with his mother almost completely broke.

This is your future you fukking beta cuck moron. And you deserve every last bit of it

Strong motherly influence, you seem well adjusted as a result.

[AlamedaBoy]

Maybe because 75% of 21-24 year old women prefer dating older men.

Do they? I don't know if I buy this. To be dateable as an older man you better want to be very well off, be particularly handsome and have the right personality(the type of cringeworthy guy who needs a 23 year old on his arm for validation) to pull women younger. In a world where women have their own **** together and don't need a man for financial security, I think the days of the older man being a knight in shining armour for a younger girl are over.

[SeymourGains]

My mother is a Russian immigrant. She got a ******* just like you to fall in love with her. He paid for everything, she took him for all he’s got.

He was a sandals wearing dad bod ******* just like you who was head over heels in love.

She used him for the stability because he was a stupid desperate American who can never get a girl if he tried to. She targeted him for a reason.

The check paid for everything. Meanwhile she was actively dating a chad who would buy me cool chit and take her to expensive restaurants.

Sooner than later after her and my papers were done she left the sad fuk And he went back to living with his mother almost completely broke.

This is your future you fukking beta cuck moron. And you deserve every last bit of it

Congratulations, you get to inherit his behaviours and personality through the genes hes passed on

[r32gojirra]

Congratulations, you get to inherit his behaviours and personality through the genes hes passed on

So you think the cuck in the story is his biological relative? Lol@u

[AlamedaBoy]

I think the guy came to America young with his mom, would seem a bizarre way to talk about your own biological father. Also, that guy maybe a 'cuck' or whatever else you want to call him, but without him who knows where himself and his mother could have ended up. His mom and himself could have ended up in the clutches of a 'real alpha' women beating Chad.

And how is the 'Chad' any different in the story either, he'd buy some rando Russian kid 'cool' **** and take his mom to expensive restaurants. Sounds pretty much like the aforementioned loser, only he had 'Chad' looks.

[r32gojirra]

Do they? I don't know if I buy this. To be dateable as an older man you better want to be very well off, be particularly handsome and have the right personality(the type of cringeworthy guy who needs a 23 year old on his arm for validation) to pull women younger. In a world where women have their own **** together and don't need a man for financial security, I think the days of the older man being a knight in shining armour for a younger girl are over.

If anything these days are just beginning. Guys are living with their parents until their 30s here because they can’t afford housing. Having financial independence makes you a catch

[RoxyFoxy22]

On those kind of topics I find it fascinating how those who are single pretend it's awesome and they have an awesome life because they are single, giving example of miserable people who got through divorces or are cheated on, etc. On the other side, the ones who are married pretending their life is perfect and they found the one, giving examples of the perfect family who lives in total harmony and they never feel alone.

Both sides are full of chit.

There are always pros and cons, there's no answer, do whatever the fuk you want

[SeymourGains]

So you think the cuck in the story is his biological relative? Lol@u

[aal04]

Why dont you ask them?

You can find them at the trendy club standing on the side by themselves staring at the younger girls with a norwood reaper haircut and a button collared shirt that was hip when he was 16.

[BustaCapp]

Single for life

Solo creature by nature

As if you have any choice in the matter anyway!

[1QWIK7]

I feel it.

I’m the only one in my group single, I smash but not in a real relationship.

I may be broken though, all signs are pointing that way at this point.

Oh well, at least I’m fit and still have a thick head of hair.

Same here.

Mid 30s, single, no kids, have a home, my cars. I'm fine the way everything is right now.

Being married with kids doesn't make anyone a man, if anything they just went along for the same ride most people think is the "normal" way of living a life. To grow up, get married and have kids. Sounds normal but it's not the ONLY normal way.

I don't like kids so that's always going to be out of the equation. I would just have to find a woman who doesn't want to have kids. Which will be the difficult part.

And yes mid 30 crew with all my hair checking in. I see guys in their early 20s starting to go bald already LOL

[scudda]

On those kind of topics I find it fascinating how those who are single pretend it's awesome and they have an awesome life because they are single, giving example of miserable people who got through divorces or are cheated on, etc. On the other side, the ones who are married pretending their life is perfect and they found the one, giving examples of the perfect family who lives in total harmony and they never feel alone.

Both sides are full of chit.

There are always pros and cons, there's no answer, do whatever the fuk you want

But its awesome af. Imagine coming home to a nagging wife like you, might off myself or might off you...

[caj]

I'm almost 30 and I'm not married. But I might as well be. I've been living with my gf for three years now. She's a couple of years younger than me and is trying to establish her own business, so she's not even thinking of marriage right now. And I'm definitely not in any rush to get married.

[VinnyPazRules]

They have homes, wives, children
Real adult responsibilities
While at most you're still dating with no real commitments
Basically haven't progressed to real adulthood
You might have more disposable income and free time
But that doesn't necessarily make a man

Feel bad for them, most of them work 12 hour days 6 days a week so they don't have to be home. It's so bad they actually see work as a reprieve. Plus their wives are all whores. its sad