Surprising Marriage Statistics

[Jacobcapra]

I have seen multiple people state that men are abandoning marriage in record number, that marriage is a poor financial decision, and have noticed an overwhelming animosity for it from some miscers. Being married I'm obviously pro-marriage but this isn't to argue whether marriage is a good idea or not. Just simply pointing out that while marriage is becoming less popular, it is not because of the current social and dating cultures that social media and dating apps have brought about. Marriage declined way more in the 70's and the 2000's, before IG and Tindr.


Specifically was interested to see how the % of adults marrying has trended in recent years in response to a comment I read, and was pretty surprised tbh.



Turns out the % of adults >18 that are not married has only dropped 9% in the last 25 years, and has remained stagnant that past ~5 years. A big factor is that the average age of marriage has gone up to nearly 30 years old, compared to about 21 in 1960. In short, there are MUCH less adults in the 18-25 range that are married.

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Also it turns out that only 14% of adults >18 that are not currently married are as such because they don't want to be. A majority of unmarried people want to get married some day.

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Funny enough, it looks like abandoning marriage is a trait of the uneducated. Those with a bachelor's degree or more have been getting married at essentially the same rate for the last 25 years. Meanwhile those with a high school diploma or less have decreased by 13% in the same time. The same drop was seen for those with only some college education.

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http://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank...status-widens/

[badbl00d]

inb4 chitstorm

[devin45k]

I am 30 and most of the divorces I have seen already have been either people that were desperate for anyone to date them or people that shouldn't even have been dating each other let alone getting married.

[FailedPotential]

OP is 24 and is already married

Just fkin lol

How old were you when you actually got married?

[Jacobcapra]

OP is 24 and is already married

Just fkin lol

How old were you when you actually got married?

Was 22, wife was soon to be 24


Aye when u know u know, now she's been helping me pay my car note and student loans for 1.5 years feelsgood

inb4 chitstorm

My angus is peppered.

Didn't recognize you for a second brah, RIP a timeless avi

[FailedPotential]

Was 22, wife was soon to be 24

Aye when u know u know, now she's been helping me pay my car note and student loans for 1.5 years feelsgood

Lmao, you gold digger you

[CoolKnees]

I think its better to study divorce rates than marriage statistics.

Most people are open to marriage and truly believe there's a happy ending for them. Most of the people against it are the ones who've already been burned.

[Dan_S]

OP is 24 and is already married

Just fkin lol

How old were you when you actually got married?

While I wouldn't recommend getting married in your early 20's, I got married at 20. Been married 14 years.

[RaphaelDeLaGhetto]

There's no such thing as forever

[MetroBrah]

repped.


fkin lmao at mgtow *******s

almost as bad as "i dont need no man" sjw whales

[strangerswrath]

I think I read somewhere that in 2014 was the first year in American history that men wanted to get married less than woman do.

[DDSF1]

Bullshet statistics or twisted statistics don’t tell us about the absolute cuckery of marriage for the vast majority of men.

You do not have the anywhere near the authority, respect, or control, as a man, that you had in a marriage as little as 50 years ago. Women have an ability to take almost everything they want and do and say whatever they want towards you, and even physically assault you. If your wife does not hit you and you don’t think having to ok everything with her as a an “equal” means you are in a good marriage you are delusional. That’s not a good marriage, regardless of what cucks lie and say about their status.

[wesleysh21]

Here's a stat for you...







...100% of all marriages end in divorce or death. How you like them odds OP?

[FailedPotential]

While I wouldn't recommend getting married in your early 20's, I got married at 20. Been married 14 years.

People getting married at 20 is unheard of where i'm from, seems funny to think about a 20 year old couple, married

[Jacobcapra]

I think its better to study divorce rates than marriage statistics.

Most people are open to marriage and truly believe there's a happy ending for them. Most of the people against it are the ones who've already been burned.

Lotta miscers <30 that are anti-marriage though


Also, divorce has been on a steady decline for like the last 30 years. Still doesn't substantiate miscers saying that marriage is being abandoned.

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[badbl00d]

My angus is peppered.

Didn't recognize you for a second brah, RIP a timeless avi

I don't even recognize myself anymore

[Sparta11]

I am 30 and most of the divorces I have seen already have been either people that were desperate for anyone to date them or people that shouldn't even have been dating each other let alone getting married.

This ^^

[Jacobcapra]

Bullshet statistics or twisted statistics don’t tell us about the absolute cuckery of marriage for the vast majority of men.

You do not have the anywhere near the authority, respect, or control, as a man, that you had in a marriage as little as 50 years ago. Women have an ability to take almost everything they want and do and say whatever they want towards you, and even physically assault you. If your wife does not hit you and you don’t think having to ok everything with her as a an “equal” means you are in a good marriage you are delusional. That’s not a good marriage, regardless of what cucks lie and say about their status.

Bro I said specifically in the OP this is not a thread to discuss whether or not marriage is a good idea. I'm well aware of the misc's general consensus on that.

[CoolKnees]

Lotta miscers <30 that are anti-marriage though

Also, divorce has been on a steady decline for like the last 30 years. Still doesn't substantiate miscers saying that marriage is being abandoned.

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Hint: Miscers are a very small subsection of the general populace and most of the people here are trolling. For example: every miscer wants to act like a black knight yet female miscer threads get the most traffic.

[atomicbbgum]

OP is 24 and is already married

Just fkin lol

How old were you when you actually got married?

I was 20, about to be 21, been married for 9yrs this coming July. Most of my friends are either divorced or on their second marriage.

[RaphaelDeLaGhetto]

Also, divorce has been on a steady decline for like the last 30 years. Still doesn't substantiate miscers saying that marriage is being abandoned.

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I think that's because now people who want to get married get married. It'd been about getting pressured to have to be married for quite some time in the past

[Jacobcapra]

Hint: Miscers are a very small subsection of the general populace and most of the people here are trolling. For example: every miscer wants to act like a black knight yet female miscer threads get the most traffic.

That's sort of what I'm getting at. Despite what the common miscer will say, nearly everybody wants to get married eventually. Like literally >95% of people according to the stats in the OP.

I was 20, about to be 21, been married for 9yrs this coming July. Most of my friends are either divorced or on their second marriage.

Damn, das not it. Well to the friends being divorced, anyway. Gratz on the successful marriage.

I think that's because now people who want to get married get married. It'd been about getting pressured to have to be married for quite some time in the past

Interdasting, that's a good point. It's much more acceptable now to just have an LTR with no marriage, or to raise a child without getting married. Forcing marriage for cultural sake or for a child probably does lead to a high divorce rate.

[SpeedCheeser]

Over 30 with bachelor's degree checking in. No interest in getting married crew. I have no issues with commitment, but it's just not a decision that benefits me in any way whatsoever, but could end up costing me if things don't work out. Why voluntarily put myself through that? If a woman can't commit to me without the promise of a legally recognized title or a claim to portions of my assets (however few they may be), then she doesn't deserve to be married anyway.

[faxanadu]

I come from a upper middle class religious family. My parents and all their friends have been married for 30+ years.

HOWEVER

The amount of quiet misery that I see/hear with these marriages is a lot. Absolutely reminds me of that movie American Beauty. You got some people that are just in it for the politics and have their girlfriend/boyfriend on the side. You got others where one is a beta and knows the other cheats. You got some that can't stand each other but social constructs keep them from getting divorced. You got others that are only sticking it out until the kids are out of the house. You got others that are miserable but just love company.

I can count on one hand the couples that I've met that have been together forever and actually still love each other.

Add in all the divorce statistics ... and i can't hardly find anything good about modern marriage. I think things were better when marriage had a more natural/tribal aspect to it (arranged/3 wives/etc). I think the money and "idea" of marriage in the last 100 years has done a good job ruining it in the western world.

[pojo18]

Was 22, wife was soon to be 24


Aye when u know u know, now she's been helping me pay my car note and student loans for 1.5 years feelsgood

damn brah , married at 22 is like leaving the party at 9 pm lol. Don't worry you'll pay her back 10x over when you guys break up by or before 2024

[Beararms]

I'm almost sure if the guys who do plan on getting married knew the legal side of everything they'd change their tune. A lot of guys go into marriage without any type of plan, by the time they figure out the business/legal aspects of it, its to late. Women don't think of it unless they have a lot of money, then they tend to think just like us. Typically though most women aren't marrying down. If they make 100k they want someone making the same or more.

With access to the news and social media, we are seeing a lot of these high profile men getting burned. I think we will see a very harsh reaction from men when marriage is brought up.

[Aesthetical]

LMFAO @ low IQ peasant incel miscers

[areyoucereal]

While I wouldn't recommend getting married in your early 20's, I got married at 20. Been married 14 years.

Holy phuck.... You're 2 years older than me but already been married 14 years.

I can't even imagine getting married when I was 20. I may have well been 13 mentally.

[ChristianMR]

Over 30 with bachelor's degree checking in. No interest in getting married crew. I have no issues with commitment, but it's just not a decision that benefits me in any way whatsoever, but could end up costing me if things don't work out. Why voluntarily put myself through that? If a woman can't commit to me without the promise of a legally recognized title or a claim to portions of my assets (however few they may be), then she doesn't deserve to be married anyway.

[Aesthetical]

Over 30 with bachelor's degree checking in. No interest in getting married crew. I have no issues with commitment, but it's just not a decision that benefits me in any way whatsoever, but could end up costing me if things don't work out. Why voluntarily put myself through that? If a woman can't commit to me without the promise of a legally recognized title or a claim to portions of my assets (however few they may be), then she doesn't deserve to be married anyway.

But who was common law marriage, check you state laws.

Dat feel when splitting bills
Dat feel when not paying single tax rate
Dat feel when sexorz whenever you want
Dat feel when household income doubles
Dat feel when stay at home wife raises children instead of $10/hour wagecel nanny/daycare
Dat feel when woman always by your side in social settings
Dat feel hnnnnnnnnnnng