Anyone else get scared they may end up alone? [srs]

[kennyreid95]

need advice brahs

sex is overrated, still women are beautiful human beings in life

[sword_]

I'm worried more about settling for the wrong person than being alone TBH.

[dontstopmirin]

I'm worried more about settling for the wrong person than being alone TBH.

dont want to be robbin williams

[RiceBrah93]

In more worried about not making my first milly before I hit 26

[TheAsianMan]

Hey OP I feel the same way, only single brahs out there who never had a real relationship takes off know the pain.

I hope you'll feel better knowing that I go through the same lonely feels every day of my life. Its a struggle, but I manage to go through days after days functionally normal. You cant let the feeling control you, just let it take over and pass, do not fight it. Understand that there are many people out there who are much worse situation than you. Also, understand that only people close to you know your situation, so for every happy face you see out on the street there is probably one that hides great loneliness.

[OsPerez1996]

You ain’t ever alone, when you got the heavenly father.

Serious boyos.
We’re only young and good looking for a short time. Trying to smash as much as possible is not the way.
Leads to empty unfulfillment.

[BigGuy4You]

this might be too ****gy for the misc, but I take solace in believing that things work out as they're supposed to. you meet the necessary people as they are needed in your life, you just have to be astute enough to notice. you might be FA, but you might also meet your 10/10. life's wild, no need to force it. at least for me, but i'm a hyooge ******* (not literally).

[ItsOkayBro]

My goal is to be alone

[DoYouEvenNEM]

OP you've made several posts so far and almost all of them reference your financial status and/or jobs.

Bishes don't care about that unless you're worth $50 million and dropping a BMW on them. You need face surgery to look like Chad or pick up hobbies full of horny women (go take yoga class or shop or something).

[NoNonsenseBrah]

you should learn how to cold approach (srs)
Would recommend checking out honest signalz or todd v dating on youtube.
its a skill that can be trained.
you only have yourself to blame if you end up alone.
there's an abundance of women out there.
If it takes you 1000 failures to find the right girl, it is worth it.
Your brain won't remember the rejections.
I suggest you hop on NoFap and NoPorn - and stay on it for the rest of your life. Your standards will reset to normal, and you will feel like connecting with women. Checkout the book "Your Brain on Porn"

If you follow my advice, you will save your life.
If you don't, then you are relying on luck.

[TheAsianMan]

you should learn how to cold approach (srs)
Would recommend checking out honest signalz or todd v dating on youtube.
its a skill that can be trained.
you only have yourself to blame if you end up alone.
there's an abundance of women out there.
If it takes you 1000 failures to find the right girl, it is worth it.
Your brain won't remember the rejections.
I suggest you hop on NoFap and NoPorn - and stay on it for the rest of your life. Your standards will reset to normal, and you will feel like connecting with women. Checkout the book "Your Brain on Porn"

If you follow my advice, you will save your life.
If you don't, then you are relying on luck.

strong name to content

age: 30

listen to this man.

[WhirlwindTobias]

you should learn how to cold approach (srs)
Would recommend checking out honest signalz or todd v dating on youtube.
its a skill that can be trained.
you only have yourself to blame if you end up alone.
there's an abundance of women out there.
If it takes you 1000 failures to find the right girl, it is worth it.
Your brain won't remember the rejections.
I suggest you hop on NoFap and NoPorn - and stay on it for the rest of your life. Your standards will reset to normal, and you will feel like connecting with women. Checkout the book "Your Brain on Porn"

If you follow my advice, you will save your life.
If you don't, then you are relying on luck.

He's not going to find a partner by following scripted youtube videos with paid actors. Get outta here with that YouTube PUA crap.

[bryannzyzz]

Nowdays I only hookup I’m 24 all the women at my age have had more than 10+ partners. Imagine one of those cumbucket to be the mother of you children. No thanks Jeff.

I should have married a girl when I was 18.

[NoNonsenseBrah]

He's not going to find a partner by following scripted youtube videos with paid actors. Get outta here with that YouTube PUA crap.

You don't need scripts, but memorizing an opener will help.
The more action you take = the more results.
The more failure and rejection = the more you learn.
To get good at something, you have to practice at it.
Eventually, you get good if you learn from your mistakes.
It's tough as hell. But you are building a skill which you can use to attract an abundance of women into your life.
You are now the man who has choice.
You choose which one you want to girlfriend/wife/whatever.
(this relates to anything in life that takes time, hard work, effort to accomplish. Gym, starting a business, learning a sport)

To Op, this is the kind of negative person you have to ignore. Nay sayers and haters.
This moron probably has never cold approached a girl in his life. I laugh at self-defeating losers like this. F**k you moron I quoted. Get the fuk outta my way.

[eod8989]

Yes because I have too much anxiety and I might be on the spectrum these days. Time is flying by too. Every year I get more awkward and more anxiety srs. Figured this would all get better by now

[wincel]

Not scared anymore. I have finally accepted it.

[eod8989]

What do you find cool? And social? Go do that

Mixed sports teams, lectures, evening classes, hiking groups, cooking classes...whatever you enjoy or kinda want to learn about

Get out of your comfort zone, get outside and do something that doesn’t revolve around sexual conquest

Won’t mean much but I’ve always got the impression you’re pretty quality, I don’t think you’ll end up alone

Also a real dating site, not a hookup site, isn’t a bad idea

How does one just get out of their comfort zone though? Even when I was social all day i still had trouble with women and socializing in general. And definitely had trouble meeting ppl. Some ppl just aren't good at dating and being social and just because they get out of their comfort zone doesn't mean they will succeed.

[AgentSkyhawk]

would rather pick alone over being lonely.

[HockeyBacon18]

dont know these feels OP

Planning my wedding with my future wife.

October 20th, free drinks, see you there

will fly to australlia for open bar

thanks for the invite

[RoxyFoxy22]

Yes, I am thinking about it when I see that the guy I loved the most engaged in November 2017 like it was nothing, I lost someone amazing due to my behaviour and I am constantly thinking that if I find another good man I will do the same mistakes and I do not want again that sadness

So my feelings are usually off and I hide the problem with school and gym, I also have a cat that I love a lot and my family who is everything for me

I worry about it when I see awesome young couples who seem to have it all, but usually I avoid thinking in that direction

[joshewwah]

Yes, I am thinking about it when I see that the guy I loved the most engaged in November 2017 like it was nothing, I lost someone amazing due to my behaviour and I am constantly thinking that if I find another good man I will do the same mistakes and I do not want again that sadness

So my feelings are usually off and I hide the problem with school and gym, I also have a cat that I love a lot and my family who is everything for me

I worry about it when I see awesome young couples who seem to have it all, but usually I avoid thinking in that direction

I'll be your next good man bb

[gonnaLiftSum]

no im not scared
im alone the last 15 years
no gf
no friends

just misc

[AlexTheNewbie]

It's so fkin easy to find a girl that's all over you... So being alone is not an issue.

What I'm worried about is having the wrong one, thinking it's the right one and ending up divorced at 50 years old.

[joshewwah]

It's so fkin easy to find a girl that's all over you... So being alone is not an issue.

What I'm worried about is having the wrong one, thinking it's the right one and ending up divorced at 50 years old.

Nope, not for most of us

[AlexTheNewbie]

Nope, not for most of us

Your time will come bro. 4 years ago I had the same attitude. One day you'll just not give a **** anymore and free yourself from all the anxiety. Reach that point and you'll experience a whole new world.
srs, been there.

[joshewwah]

Your time will come bro. 4 years ago I had the same attitude. One day you'll just not give a **** anymore and free yourself from all the anxiety. Reach that point and you'll experience a whole new world.
srs, been there.

tell that to this guy:

[AlexTheNewbie]

tell that to this guy:

- Start lifting to build a great body and compensate face
- groom!
- build charisma and confidence by not giving a **** because you've got nothing to lose
- work on yourself, find hobbies, realize you're the only person that can make you truly happy

[joshewwah]

I’m 30 in 6 months and still single. Havent talked to chicks outside of a few dates here and there since college.

What keeps me going is staying shredded, having a nice place, being debt free, and having savings.

What I think will greatly assist in my journey to find someone is no fap, no porn, meditation, and pursuit of lots of hobbies, + travel. A year of self improvement is a looooong time if you work at it each and every day.

If you take care of yourself in all facets of life there’s no reason you can’t find a girl in her early twenties to settle down with you

seems like your advice isn't working for you

ayy lmao

- Start lifting to build a great body and compensate face
- groom!
- build charisma and confidence by not giving a **** because you've got nothing to lose
- work on yourself, find hobbies, realize you're the only person that can make you truly happy

its all looks money status and genetics boyo

[AlexTheNewbie]

its all looks money status and genetics boyo

Then you better get to work and change whatever you can

don't be that sad kunt

[WhirlwindTobias]

To Op, this is the kind of negative person you have to ignore. Nay sayers and haters.
This moron probably has never cold approached a girl in his life. I laugh at self-defeating losers like this. F**k you moron I quoted. Get the fuk outta my way.

I'm a naysayer for watching a YouTube video and acknowledging that the girls are paid actors following a script. Did you even understand what I meant by it being scripted? It's not about the guys following a script, the WHOLE THING is a script.

Guy approaches girl "Hey, do you want some money. We're just doing some funny film for YouTube. I'm going to come up to you and you just have to be super receptive and give me a fake number"

Cold approaching works but you're a deluded fool if you think youtube videos are genuine. If avoiding that delusion makes me negative - so be it.