You tell me what happened here (Text Pics)

[wheelerx50]

Holy chit dude what the fuk are you doing?

Are you going to bed? Wut?

legit this, lol'd

[Arkileon]

Wheres OP?
































OP are you going to bed?




































I'm terrible at this whole posting thing.

[Arkileon]

But real talk OP you should have been able to tell from that message how uninterested she was, any response after that was a loss. The fact that you asked a stupid ass question after that is why we're all laughing, it was another L. And then texting her again...

She disrespected/rejected you, and you tried twice when you shoulda just moved on. it happens. Happened to me. Will happen to me again. Just keep rolling

[sabonis224]

Let me guess.. Still no answer right lmao

[MericaThatsWhy]

She's playing the game

and because you are on here worrying about it...

She's winning the game



Go NC until she response

or

Reach out again, with the intent to smash and then go NC

[ryan0931]

Same thing happened with me and my coworker lol.

At first she took time to respond. We went to the movies. Tried texting her once more before seeing her at work, but no response. Acts a little quieter at work, but still talked briefly at times.

Thinking about texting her, but I shouldn't especially since I'm her manager. She is leaving to school in a week, but still



Just saw the text pic, that's brutal lol

[Jeffbrah]

The 20min later text is fine man don't stress about that -- it's the going to bed text that killed it. It's just out of place. Shouldn't have responded at all to her good night text and just called her a few days later. Would of had her wondering about you... or perhaps she would have texted you the next day. Who knows?

Look at it from her point of view: when you texted her the "going to bed?" text, she's thinking "wtf? of course I'm going to bed this guy must be FA lmao he must not talk to a lot of girls"

[4ea]

you texted her after 20 minutes of getting her number...

should have waited at least a day or two. texting immediately comes across as desperate. the last thing a quality girl wants is a desperate guy.

Possibly but I’m a pretty straight forward person bro I don’t play games. I wanted to go out and do something not text. So when I text it’s usually to set up something. Not have a ****ing convo

while i understand this mentality, ive observed that girls, especially pretty ones are incredibly fickle, and likely immature due to being spoiled all their life. you cant be 100% straightforward with them, you have to play the game. show you're interested, but also send a subtle message that you dont fukin need her or really care about her. if she likes you, itl fuk with her head and make her obsess over you. sending straightforward, and boring text messages just wont work, unless maybe if youre crazy rich and male model attractive. but even if you have everything else going for you, if you act like a love sick lil puppy shel ignore you and forget about you.

women simply are not logical, you have to play the game to get anywhere with them. if you dont do this you will fuk it all up.

[Clinos]

She Peaced-Out on the 2nd sentence. No hope. No survivors.

[Kiop]

good nite, sweet prince

[TinySquats]

But I don’t see how I’m chasing her? I sent one text yesterday replying to her and one today. And when you see the context of the situation, it should be justifiable. I’m not ****ing blowing her up everyday or running up to her whenever I see her.
I get that but I’m still not understanding the whole waiting to text bs.... ok so let’s say you text 20 days from now instead of 20min. Are those other 100,000 guys just going to be gone now because you waitind 20 days? Cmon bro. It’s not even about this chick anymore. It’s about this whole text “game”...

It's all a part of modern dating now. I used to think like you, where I thought if things worked out then I shouldn't have to play any games with the person and vice versa. But no, whether you like it or not there is a game and you either adapt or lose out on the ones that are better at the game. The people who were better "catches" were indeed better at the game. I have of course failed with cringey convo like you, but you gotta learn from it. If you don't work on adapting, you might not attract the women you actually desire.

If you wanna dive into the dating pool again, don't be afraid to chat with girls you aren't necessarily trying to gf (as in she doesn't need to be hbb). Practice the pull and push between them in the text game. Know what works and what doesn't. I wish I practiced on some decent ones before messing up on the cuties. Most of the time saying less is actually more.

[LeonardShelby]

"goodnight"

"Are you going to bed?"



That was her IRL response to reading your last text.

[Bannister11]

was painful to watch, but don't sweat it OP, text game can be improved with a few simple steps

it's much harder to improve real life game, they have boot camps for that chit

[AsianPaesan]

She said goodnight and then you asked her if she was going to sleep... bro

[FitnessJake]

Yeah











She's not into you.

[aranadiscoteca]

Legit lost it at 'are you going to bed'

still loling

[SipNPiz]

Hit her with the tried and true, “please respond”

[sabonis224]

good nite, sweet prince

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You goin to bed?

[AWillis]

OP part of what made your text to her full autism was you just stated a fact and didn't ask her ****. you gave her nothing to play wiih. hey it is Baris from XX. you expect her to give a fk? you didn't guide the conversation anywhere so of course she takes a day to reply, you didn't ask her a question. IQ of Jason Genova

it sick, it piss.

[rainieravesouth]

how many more times are you going to text her until you get hit with this?

she's busy, Baris


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[STLbuilder]

tomorrow then a day.

isn't that the rule on how long to wait.

[wooosh3]

in for updates when you see her at work

[toodieselbro]

in for updates when you see her at work

Lol Haven’t seen her yet. She usually comes in maybe twice every 2 weeks or something like that. And no guys she hasn’t responded yet.

[deltbrah]

who the **** goes to bed at 9:30pm.

shes not interested mate move onto the next

[_chef_]

24 hours later and no sight of this bitch.


Just bury her and get over it

[rockr101]

shudda hit her with the "perfect, let's reschedule"

[ryan0931]

Lol Haven’t seen her yet. She usually comes in maybe twice every 2 weeks or something like that. And no guys she hasn’t responded yet.

Fuk bro it's the same as my situation. Maybe see this girl I like once or twice a week at work. Can't text her bc she wouldn't respond

[viennafat]

Sorry OP, but this seemed over before it even started.

"Are you going to be bed?" sealed the deal.


Not even Black Jesus can save you now.
Hell, not even real Jesus can save this.

[MichelleLnne]

He said text pics

I guess that means he's trying to paint a picture with words

im cracking up, i don't even know if this was that funny

OP if she has not texted you yet after you asking if she was going to bed. DO NOT text her again!! i repeat DO NOT. IF she texts you back, wait a couple of days to text her and when you do, respond as if you had just gotten the text.

you know we all want straight forward, no games and **** but there's a reason the games exist...

[ryan0931]

Sorry OP, but this seemed over before it even started.

"Are you going to be bed?" sealed the deal.


Not even Black Jesus can save you now.
Hell, not even real Jesus can save this.

Damn what happened to that dude? Just realized he's been missing for a min...........