It's good to hear that you are doing well. I know what it's like to get "hangry" and start yelling at people.
It's not so much that someone isn't eating healthy foods, but that they may be lacking certain essential nutrients. B3 is a big one. Many Schizo people are cured after taking large enough doses. Some of the more long-term cases required supplementation for five years to get better. Lithium is found in drinking water, but only in certain areas. Although SAM-e is a natural chemical in the body, it is used as a prescription anti-depressant in a few European countries.
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11-08-2017, 11:03 AM #751
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11-08-2017, 11:43 AM #752
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11-08-2017, 05:14 PM #753
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What is your Hierarchy of Needs? A girlfriend can be the best thing that ever happened to you or the worse thing in your life. You really need to get stable -- and comfortable in your own skin -- first so that you don't become devastated and fall apart when the relationship ends.
I just got off the phone with a friend who did engineering for 2 years after graduating, one year each at 2 places. Then last year he got a supervisor position at a new place paying 95k, and he had no experience in this sector of engineering. I'm making 60k. And he's being told he's being groomed for VP. To top it off, he looks like a model, has a model tier wife, new beautiful baby, and is extremely athletic.
My HR rep told me "sure, once your a senior engineer you can look for supervisor positions". Senior engineer is 15 years experience.
Right now the plan is to try to get into a good full time MBA program in another 3 years. I think that's my best hope to do something lucrative. I will do whatever it takes to get ahead but I feel stuck since I'm being trained as the sole structural engineer at my company once my mentor retires in a year.
I just need to vent a little. Still terrified I won't get into a good full time MBA and I'll stay behind my former classmates and other men when it comes to getting women. Honestly, a large part of this is about social status, money, women, standing in the dominance hierarchy.
I spend most nights staying home drinking or watching porn or Netflix. I'm trying to cut those out. I got involved in a couple meetups that should be fun and hopefully make some friends. I wish I had a better personality, and better looking. ****. I know I'm just bitching. Flight school set me back so far. If I just did engineering after school I'd already be applying to mba's, but now I need good experience here first. I wish I lived life as a Chad. And I'm saving all my money to improve my looks (already got a hair transplant), but if I was already making more, it'd only take like 3 years,🎥
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11-08-2017, 05:18 PM #754
god my job is depressing me so much because of the supervisors and managers. like the actual job is very simple and coworkers are really cool. but the bosses are ****ing incompetent...
it's such a hard decision to make to leave though. job i like, but bosses are idiots. i dont' even have time to think about beyond this chit warehousing job because i only have 3 hours to spend at home because of the chit commute.
i want to ****ing cry. wish i had gone to school so ****in bad. still dont know what to take though. ****in life is so ****in hard. all i can think about is that i'm gonna be working in a warehouse my entire life... which i don't mean to offend people who do but it's just so hard to get into a good career, if ur chit at school.
so stressed. gonna be ****in 30 with no real job i know itLast edited by 2RDEYE; 11-08-2017 at 05:41 PM.
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11-08-2017, 05:53 PM #755
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That's not unique -- all bosses are. That's not true, I've had great bosses more than once.
it's such a hard decision to make to leave though. job i like, but bosses are idiots. i dont' even have time to think about beyond this chit warehousing job because i only have 3 hours to spend at home because of the chit commute.
i want to ****ing cry. wish i had gone to school so ****in bad. [quote]What's stopping your?still dont know what to take though. ****in life is so ****in hard. all i can think about is that i'm gonna be working in a warehouse my entire life... which i don't mean to offend people who do but it's just so hard to get into a good career, if ur chit at school.
so stressed. gonna be ****in 30 with no real job i know it🎥
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11-08-2017, 06:02 PM #756
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11-08-2017, 06:08 PM #757
[QUOTE=KRANE;1533978211]That's not unique -- all bosses are. That's not true, I've had great bosses more than once.
On one hand it's killing you to stay; but on the other, it's difficulty to leave the job security. All I can say is that if I could do it over, I would have left a lot sooner...a whole lot sooner.[quote]
i want to ****ing cry. wish i had gone to school so ****in bad.What's stopping your?Take a test to see what you're good at. Then you at least have a list of things to choose from.
the job security is definitely a factor in me staying too. because i am already comfortable with whats going on.
it's all i can think of that i can do, and am good at. i'm not good at jobs like customer service, or dealing with phones. i can't handle those. and i don't like trade jobs...
so ****in stressed....... i feel like im gonna lose my chit. i lost my chit like 2 days ago in the gym. im so ****in tired of this ****in old asian chithead putting his water bottle and towel on equipment he doesn't use. i ****in threw his water bottle away. he didn't say chit, but i could tell he was like wtf?? i already told that ******* not to do that couple months ago. he does it all the ****in time and doesn't even use that equipment. he puts his chit on the cable row bench to be specific. im using it tomorrow, lets see if this ****ing kunt says anything. the guy has no ****in consideration for other peopleLast edited by 2RDEYE; 11-08-2017 at 07:04 PM.
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11-09-2017, 01:48 AM #758
[QUOTE=2RDEYE;1533979471][QUOTE=KRANE;1533978211]That's not unique -- all bosses are. That's not true, I've had great bosses more than once.
On one hand it's killing you to stay; but on the other, it's difficulty to leave the job security. All I can say is that if I could do it over, I would have left a lot sooner...a whole lot sooner.
i want to ****ing cry. wish i had gone to school so ****in bad.
yeah i've had very few good bosses and supervisors, but the good ones make a huge difference, like i actually respect and would work very hard for them... after knowing good supervisors like that it's so easy to tell apart the chit and the good ones.
the job security is definitely a factor in me staying too. because i am already comfortable with whats going on.
it's all i can think of that i can do, and am good at. i'm not good at jobs like customer service, or dealing with phones. i can't handle those. and i don't like trade jobs...
so ****in stressed....... i feel like im gonna lose my chit. i lost my chit like 2 days ago in the gym. im so ****in tired of this ****in old asian chithead putting his water bottle and towel on equipment he doesn't use. i ****in threw his water bottle away. he didn't say chit, but i could tell he was like wtf?? i already told that ******* not to do that couple months ago. he does it all the ****in time and doesn't even use that equipment. he puts his chit on the cable row bench to be specific. im using it tomorrow, lets see if this ****ing kunt says anything. the guy has no ****in consideration for other peoplePC specs
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Metal crew
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If you aren't getting stronger you aren't getting bigger crew
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11-09-2017, 01:51 PM #759
Thanks for your reply.
Well I'm getting my basic needs met for sure. I think a lot of it has to do with men's natural competitive drive. Gaining power, influence, etc. And I think we have that innate drive in order to attract a mate and be able to pass on our genes. I realize i need to stop comparing myself to others.... but I feel like that's the best way to measure how I'm doing. Like in a race, we know the person in first did well by comparing him to the other racers.
My career is so important to me because of the above, and it's finally a chance to be "cool". I was very nice growing up and picked on even though I was nice. I was "cool" to an extent at my military college.... but i think I still yearn for male and female approval, admiration..... I think about going back to highschool in another ten years and doing better than all the popular kids. I got along with many of them, but I was never "one of them". They got the girls, the attention, etc. Also, the more money I make the quicker I can change my appearance for the better... fix my recessed jaws, get my hairline lower, get my crooked nose straigher.... maybe even do the height surgery or something for a bigger dick if its safe and works.
I definitely do have many insecurities I need to work out. Height (even though I'm 5'11'', dick size, how attracted women are to me, how attractive my face is, my balding, my voice, how much money I make, my athleticism..... literally everything you could possibly think of. But I also think those things are real, and I'm just coping if I'm okay with them.
I don't see why they would want to be like me. My little brother has been way more successful than me and that stings. Plus he's taller, and has a bigger frame. I just sometimes wish I could go back in time and do things better...and change my genes.
My Plan B if I dont get into a good fulltime MBA is to get a good part time MBA and then try to move to a F500 company and work my way up. It will just be much tougher and unlikely to do that way. I think that's the most likely way to have a lucrative career and make great money.
It seems although I'm very low in "conscientiousness" in the big 5 personality traits. Right now I'm trying to improve that..... I think my plan will be attainable if I can actually stay organized, committed to a task, stop procrastinating, spend less time messing on my ipad and spend more time on my career. Higher conscientiousness would have helped my college gpa, helped me in flight school, etc.
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11-09-2017, 04:58 PM #760
i got fired from my job out of the blue...... it's like a feeling of relief but at the same time... what the **** do i do now. gonna have to job hunt like crazy before i become insanely socially anxious again. cause the only place i can communicate with people is in a workplace.
i'm actually very depressed about itLast edited by 2RDEYE; 11-09-2017 at 05:08 PM.
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11-09-2017, 05:08 PM #761
Yeah same here. I have to actually work with people to get to know them. All of my friends i've ever made were made from work. I have no idea how to just initiate a decent conversation with people in passing, it just seems so weird to me.
Also i got fired from Scholastic 3 years ago for having a DWI lol. That place was horrible. I left work early some nights because it was such a ****ty jobPC specs
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OLED Master Race crew
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If you aren't getting stronger you aren't getting bigger crew
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11-09-2017, 05:12 PM #762
yeah all the communication i had with people outside my family for like the past 8 years has been from work. i wish i had close friends outside of work.
the thing that always happens whenever i quit or am fired is that i ALWAYS become insanely socially anxious and lazy. i ****in hate it. like my social skills becomes zero because of lack of practice, every time... gonna try to find a job right away but i know it probably wont happen. i'll probably go through a chit ton of job hopping... hard to find a job that i can stand
fuk me not even motivated to job hunt fuk... i'll do it tmr ...just got off work.Last edited by 2RDEYE; 11-09-2017 at 05:21 PM.
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11-09-2017, 05:25 PM #763
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11-09-2017, 05:52 PM #765
Yeah, it's easy to relate to coworkers because you can always talk about work lol. Then you can talk about whatever else if they have any of the same interests. You have to get to know them eventually. Sucks because i don't have any coworkers either. I need to quit my job but i would be giving up the best insurance and job security
PC specs
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OLED Master Race crew
1440p 120+ fps only crew
6'2 master race crew
Audiophile crew
Metal crew
Introvert/INTJ crew
German crew
If you aren't getting stronger you aren't getting bigger crew
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11-09-2017, 06:54 PM #766
Going to the gym at 430 am tomorrow again. I go almost every day. But nobody really talks there. The only people that are social are the weird older guys. Even if people did talk i don't know how i could ever make friends with any of them in that environment. It's just such a weird feeling trying to make friends with other guys at my age. There's just no way i care enough to socialize with people unless i really connect with them through similar hobbies/passions. It's like finding a needle in a haystack these days i swear.
PC specs
i9 9900k/AMD RX 6800 16 GB/16 GB RAM/LG BX 65'' OLED/Gigabyte GS27QC 27''
OLED Master Race crew
1440p 120+ fps only crew
6'2 master race crew
Audiophile crew
Metal crew
Introvert/INTJ crew
German crew
If you aren't getting stronger you aren't getting bigger crew
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11-10-2017, 08:02 AM #772
That's why i go early in the morning after coffee. Fuk man there is literally nothing to do. It's going to be cold as fuk for the next 4 months. Without friends there is nowhere to go in this town. The misc isn't even that active anymore until the evening so its hard to even find good threads to post on here these days. Fuuuuuk
PC specs
i9 9900k/AMD RX 6800 16 GB/16 GB RAM/LG BX 65'' OLED/Gigabyte GS27QC 27''
OLED Master Race crew
1440p 120+ fps only crew
6'2 master race crew
Audiophile crew
Metal crew
Introvert/INTJ crew
German crew
If you aren't getting stronger you aren't getting bigger crew
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11-10-2017, 09:34 AM #774
I'm like a deer in the headlights when it comes to talking these days. Too depressed. Plus i don't know anyone so every convo is weird and superficial. I'm definitely on the spectrum these days
I'm just really sad and it oozes out of me. I just wish someone would understand my life these daysPC specs
i9 9900k/AMD RX 6800 16 GB/16 GB RAM/LG BX 65'' OLED/Gigabyte GS27QC 27''
OLED Master Race crew
1440p 120+ fps only crew
6'2 master race crew
Audiophile crew
Metal crew
Introvert/INTJ crew
German crew
If you aren't getting stronger you aren't getting bigger crew
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11-10-2017, 02:59 PM #775
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11-10-2017, 05:52 PM #777
Man i love just sitting around at home all winter every year
PC specs
i9 9900k/AMD RX 6800 16 GB/16 GB RAM/LG BX 65'' OLED/Gigabyte GS27QC 27''
OLED Master Race crew
1440p 120+ fps only crew
6'2 master race crew
Audiophile crew
Metal crew
Introvert/INTJ crew
German crew
If you aren't getting stronger you aren't getting bigger crew
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11-10-2017, 06:21 PM #778
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11-10-2017, 06:46 PM #779
i just played video games 12 hours straight. ****in hate it. like i actually think going out and getting high and doing whatever outside, even by myself, would be a better lifestyle.
tomorrow is my uncle's 70'th birthday. we are having a huge party somewhere. gonna ****in suck seeing cousins my age group with their girlfriends and chit. i'm just gonna order like 2 bottles of wine and get pissed drunk. maybe i'll go ****in high. and then fall asleep.Last edited by 2RDEYE; 11-10-2017 at 06:51 PM.
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