For conversation sake, pretend your girl of at least 5 years (maybe a kid or two) got hammered and slept with a dude. She confesses and immediately begs for forgiveness. Is there ANY case to take her back or is it 100% out the door no matter what?
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08-09-2017, 04:31 PM #1CEO of the Unified Fund
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Could you/Would you EVER take back a cheater?
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08-09-2017, 04:31 PM #2Banned
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I've done it before. Won't do it again. Ever.
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08-09-2017, 04:33 PM #3CEO of the Unified Fund
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Did she do it again?Originally Posted by mukeofdanlets
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08-09-2017, 04:35 PM #4Registered User
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Yes
Guys who won't just don't have the confidence to get past it and move on
When I was courting my wife she "slipped up" and slept with her ex once but I forgave her and now it's all good
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08-09-2017, 04:35 PM #5anti-miscer
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It's not that there wouldn't be a chance for forgiveness, but I just wouldn't ever trust her again. Once you lose trust, the relationship is over.
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08-09-2017, 04:36 PM #6Registered User
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Cheaters are hibitual liars. If she cheated once, she will cheat again.Originally Posted by ErnieMccracken
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08-09-2017, 04:36 PM #7Always keeping it Real
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doesn't she sleep up with the trainer weekly too?Originally Posted by GMiscer
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08-09-2017, 04:36 PM #8Registered User
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I don't see how men can. Wouldn't it be considered beta?
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08-09-2017, 04:36 PM #9CEO of the Unified Fund
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Go chum the waters somewhere elseOriginally Posted by GMiscer
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08-09-2017, 04:36 PM #10Registered User
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Before I reply to this guy, is this dude notorious for posting troll sh!t?Originally Posted by GMiscer
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08-09-2017, 04:36 PM #11TUNA
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Once...LOLOriginally Posted by GMiscer
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08-09-2017, 04:36 PM #12domo arigato
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Are you and she married?
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08-09-2017, 04:37 PM #13Banned
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of courseOriginally Posted by ErnieMccracken
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08-09-2017, 04:38 PM #14Five Star Man
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Am her ex, can confirm.Originally Posted by GMiscer
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08-09-2017, 04:39 PM #15Registered User
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Was she your first relationship? I can understand some people who have never gotten into a relationship before doing something like this because they don't know how to deal with such a bizarre and confusing situation.Originally Posted by mukeofdanlets
To answer the op's question, haven't done it before and won't ever do such a thing. Relationships are special for a reason and this pretty much destroys any trust and worth a relationship has in the first place.
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08-09-2017, 04:40 PM #16CEO of the Unified Fund
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Yes, but it's complicated when you think about your quality of life. Is your life really better if you move to a shoebox apartment in financial ruin? Do people ever move on from that? I dunno I think there's more to it when you're talking about a wife vs. some sloot you've been dating for a few months.Originally Posted by Deathstroke
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08-09-2017, 04:40 PM #17Banned
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no.. it was an odd situation though. in a phd program, it was her supervisor and they had a weird power relationship (obviously against uni rules). Her funding was contingent on keeping him happy. She was a punk after all the chances I gave her though.Originally Posted by Mparserz
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08-09-2017, 04:41 PM #18Registered User
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Not reallyOriginally Posted by TimeTravelerBro
A moment of indiscretion doesn't automatically mean she will repeat it
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08-09-2017, 04:42 PM #19Registered User
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A woman can take a man back sure, if he truly is repentant and has mended his ways. I don't see how a guy can be willing to take a woman back if she had an affair. I knew a man who's wife was screwing around with another guy for a priod of 2 weeks maybe 3. He found out and she apparently ended it with the man who cheated with, and he forgave her.
For me, cheating was always the only thing I'd ever consider getting violent with an SO over. For conversation sake btw.
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Was there signs before it happened? How did you find out?Originally Posted by mukeofdanlets
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08-09-2017, 04:44 PM #21Banned
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crazy signs all the time. I'm a pretty open guy, have been in open relationships, etc., I'd ask her about him, she'd deny it fervently. one day it all just came to a head though. it became super obvious. she literally left the phd program because of it... **** got messy.Originally Posted by billclintonnn
edit: they had been ****ing since she was an undergrad. he was always very hostile towards me (same program, mad awkward). I figured from the start something was up. she finally admitted to it after a few times dating on and off.
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Dude, that is just stupid sh!t. I am not a politically correct guy, but fuk cheaters, men or women.Originally Posted by Deathstroke
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I respect that n you for telling it like it is to meOriginally Posted by Mparserz
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08-09-2017, 04:46 PM #24🇷🇺🇧🇾🇵🇸
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If she kissed someone, I would smash someone to even it out. If she smashed, I would walk.
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08-09-2017, 04:48 PM #25Registered User
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NopeOriginally Posted by TommyRO
Just a rumor that some miscers like to keep repeating
She had a male personal trainer for a while and now she has a female trainer
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08-09-2017, 04:49 PM #26Starting weight: 118lbs
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I wouldn't. Finding out someone is cheating on you is detrimental enough for the relationship fall apart. As several people have stated above, it would for people surely break the trust and the cheater won't ever be trusted again.
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08-09-2017, 04:53 PM #27CEO of the Unified Fund
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I think the trust thing is blown out of proportion. Can you ever really trust someone 100%? If the right guy in the right situation comes along, 99.9% of women will put out. Human nature (slooting) beats social conditioning (monogamy) every time.Originally Posted by 0rders
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08-09-2017, 04:53 PM #28my job title is douchebag
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Nope, LOL @ even thinking about it.
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08-09-2017, 04:57 PM #29CEO of the Unified Fund
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You're still a young dipchit. I'm talking about a spouse who can ruin you and basically start your life over from 0.Originally Posted by Iukas
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08-09-2017, 05:06 PM #30Registered User
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Nope lol
Not even a kiss.
The one situation where I would take her back is if she's rich and I'm tryna divorce her and take half her stuff
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