"Three years in University and you haven't had a girlfriend yet. Why?"

[Sanguivorant]

Cliffs:

-Met a friend that I haven't seen since highschool.
-We talk and talk for a while.
-He tells me how he went to Florida in the time, got a gf there and then now he's back here to start Uni (we're the same age).
-He then starts asking me about the girls I've talked to, opening with, "Dude you're looking pretty jacked (lmao) and you've got a nice face, how many girls have you smashed so far?"
-Should have said I smashed a ton but actually told him that I haven't smashed any.
-He then asks me if I have a girlfriend.
-I say no.
-Then he tells me, "Dude three years in this place and you haven't at the very least gotten a girlfriend, what's wrong with you?"
-Didn't know what to say, so I told him, "I'd just rather focus on my studies."

-Then he asks if I'm ghey to which I say no, then I try really hard to switch the topic.


Feelsbadman. I hate when people interrogate that part of my life.

Also feel bad that I missed out on literally the best time to find girls to casually date.

Idk brahs feeling pretty down today help me out.

[cashinout]

here's a tip: always lie

everyone else does

[SystemTrend]

I would just lie to be honest (lol). It's none of his damn business anyways.

Whenever people are being nosey and ask intrusive questions I don't mind lying to them.

[askem]

Tell him that manlets can't have gf

[quadfecta]

Thats why most people major in easy chit that requires 0 studying so they can party all week and get laid when pussy is the most abundant and available as it will ever be. Business/economics, psychology, foreign language, music/arts, etc.

[trapper08]

Should have smashed him right then and there

[WishIWasJawBrah]

So why don't you have a gf?

[Wewak]

I don't smash for religious purposes. If somebody asks that or about drinking i just tell them i don't do those things and they get it. Nobody assumes I'm ghey lol but my Sister jokes about it lol.

[Sanguivorant]

So why don't you have a gf?

Because I don't flirt with girls, pretty simple.

[CptClean]

Because I don't flirt with girls, pretty simple.

It's a lot deeper than that

[Raxx]

It's a lot deeper than that

This just sobered OP up

[WishIWasJawBrah]

Because I don't flirt with girls, pretty simple.

You don't hit on arab girls? Or do you only go after white girls?

[Sanguivorant]

It's a lot deeper than that

Inb4 I start listing all the real reasons.

You don't hit on arab girls? Or do you only go after white girls?

I don't hit on any girls period broski.

[Tornach]

Have you tried smashing sloots?
Why not find a nice Afghan girl?

[imbored21]

have you ever been on a date? I haven't.

[Tornach]

Inb4 I start listing all the real reasons.



I don't hit on any girls period broski.

Why not?
Find one you're comfortable around and go from there.
The issues will only get worse if you avoid them.
You'll wake up one day and be a 30 year FA






EDIT: Guys only do this to neg you mate.
He is an insecure douche if he knows of your situation and still brings up this topic.
A decent mate would act as a wingman

[papi89]

Dude three years in this place and you haven't at the very least gotten a girlfriend, what's wrong with you?

[esp]

Go deeper and find out why?

Have you been looking or trying, if not, why not?

If you have, what have you been doing? Where have you been failing (initiating, getting #s, dates, ) etc

This like any part of your life (education, job fitness) is fixable. The longer you leave it, the harder it gets.

[butwhowasgains]

I have been 1.5 and no gf hehehehehe

Have hometown luck doe

[Sanguivorant]

Why not?
Find one you're comfortable around and go from there.
The issues will only get worse if you avoid them.
You'll wake up one day and be a 30 year FA






EDIT: Guys only do this to neg you mate.
He is an insecure douche if he knows of your situation and still brings up this topic.
A decent mate would act as a wingman

I should probably start soon before I become a 40 year old virgin ya.

[HoustonMiscer]

What is the real reason you don't have a gf? You are a nice looking fella, no homo. It has to be deeper than "I just don't flirt with girls." Also, I am almost 28 years old and I haven't had a single gf, haven't had sex, hell I haven't even been alone with a girl at night before.

[JD135]

I've been at university for 4.5 years now I had no girlfriends during this period.

[DoctorKazama]

Why don't you just join the asian student union and get a cute asian gf? Srs.

[jakobi78]

Because I don't flirt with girls, pretty simple.

r u gay?

[jakobi78]

What is the real reason you don't have a gf? You are a nice looking fella, no homo. It has to be deeper than "I just don't flirt with girls." Also, I am almost 28 years old and I haven't had a single gf, haven't had sex, hell I haven't even been alone with a girl at night before.

jesus...time to LDAR

[Amp30]

Never had a gf crew. I've hooked up with a good amount of girls though, but the older I get the harder it gets considering I'm not in college and don't have a big social circle.

Same reason as you, I just don't really hit on/flirt with girls unless I'm out at the bars. Part of it is me being lazy, part of it is confidence I think. I don't use any apps like Tinder and I don't go out as much as I used to. I'm also a manlet, but still considered pretty good looking, so people are always surprised.

You're at a University though and surrounded by women.. you have a much bigger advantage than me for meeting girls.

[HoustonMiscer]

jesus...time to LDAR

lol I refuse to ldar

[Dbowens]

Going to your deepest level I'd say the reason you don't have a girlfriend is because you're insecure.

You fear rejection so you don't put in effort because you feel its a lost cause. It isn't.


Einstein failed thousands of times before succeeding.. Keep at it and you'll find your way. srs.


same goes for houston miscer although his problems lie in more than insecurity, but rather laziness (if he was shredded and worked on his aesthetics he'd be pulling far more)

[MrPerkin]

Me neither, but i'm learning that you have to get out of your little comfort bubble and actually act. None of this shiet even matters, why not make the best of it. No fears, be confident as a mofo.
It's pretty sad shiet, but if you wanna break the LDAR cycle which we all can, maintain a positive mentality, baby steps and progress towards something.

[Codyisback]

Lol at girlfriends. True alphas hit and quit.