Sloth Thread Part XIII: Looks get you matches, game gets you smashes

[HockeyBacon18]

Its fukken sickening especially when it says "Woman" in their profile
Then you look at the bio and its like "superqueer trans"
Smh i chose to match with WOMEN

someone needs to contact tinder, but they wont fix anything cause libs

[TheIronAsylum]

so new account is def ghost banned idk how i used all different schit unless its burner number or they save pics

cuz now i dont get matches even with boosting i got like 150 matches but now nothing but ugly girls

its weird because im swiping through hot girls but only matching ugly chicks when i use a boost also another weird thing which may be connected is the pos app is taking up close to 1 gig of space on my phone

[ballieveryday]

I'm at the age now where I keep matching with chicks who are single with kids. SMH.

[TheIronAsylum]

is tinder dead bros i recreated account get no matches anymore even with boosting i get like 3 matches now all just ugly af girls

completely different then last account that got banned which was up to 1k matches wtf do i just have to delete and recreate

[enzo818]

you know tinder is dead when I am having trouble getting matches.

[TSBrah]

you know tinder is dead when I am having trouble getting matches.

what do you look like?

[TheIronAsylum]

you know tinder is dead when I am having trouble getting matches.

where are all these whores at now? i know they are all selling themselves online via webcam snap ect but ****

[Nicklol]

does any1 even get laid off of this anymore?
what are womens standards nowadays? its crazy

unpredicted consequences of this app

[BRBMakingMoney]

what do you look like?

like a younger, more ripped version of Jensen Ackles.

where are all these whores at now? i know they are all selling themselves online via webcam snap ect but ****

Alot of them are getting hit up on Instagram, oftentimes it's with the offer of allowances (aka p4p). You'll find a bunch of them on seeking.com too. The older less attractive ones that can't whore anymore are on Bumble.

does any1 even get laid off of this anymore?
what are womens standards nowadays? its crazy

unpredicted consequences of this app

Depends on where you are. I ran a 10/10 MM profile in Sydney and couldn't get a single girl out for a date, just a bunch of flakes.

You can still get lucky sometimes, if you're paying for boosts and/or live in a decent city, but for most people the ROI just isn't there anymore.

Also depends on what your standards are too, I'm talking 7+/10 girls.

[TSBrah]

like a younger, more ripped version of Jensen Ackles.



Alot of them are getting hit up on Instagram, oftentimes it's with the offer of allowances (aka p4p). You'll find a bunch of them on seeking.com too. The older less attractive ones that can't whore anymore are on Bumble.


Depends on where you are. I ran a 10/10 MM profile in Sydney and couldn't get a single girl out for a date, just a bunch of flakes.

You can still get lucky sometimes, if you're paying for boosts and/or live in a decent city, but for most people the ROI just isn't there anymore.

Also depends on what your standards are too, I'm talking 7+/10 girls.

you can barely see his face, i highly doubt he looks anything like jensen ackles

[codefreeze]

ok yeah i can't be the only one frustrated w the amount of flakes and effortless/stalled convos.

asked one girl - who i matched with on *both* tinder and bumble! - how many matches she has vs. how many she's met up with. 3000 / 3 = 1/1000 chance of us meeting. of course, her personality disordered ass deleted me off snap when i didnt respond for 10 mins. smh.

so it's no surprise that meeting chicks in person is infinitely better for making a lasting impression, but online dating distributions are heavily skewed it's not even fun anymore.

[codefreeze]

this is anathema to the misc but i find reviving conversations in a quasi-clingy way to be actually beneficial now. women are swamped with guys that i don't past it put them if they forget you; just messaging them puts you at the top of their stack = they remember you = chance to make an impression and get in sugar walls again

[arabianvenom]

Anybody having an issue on Tinder where the people you swipe on keep reappearing in the stack for some reason?

One girl must have appeared like 10 times until we finally matched. This bug is number one bull****

[ballieveryday]

Whoa.. I'm sure that has been talked about already, but I just saw that they raised up the prices for users 30 and up. What's the deal with that?! Looks like my days with Tinder are comin to an end.

[tf19]

Anybody having an issue on Tinder where the people you swipe on keep reappearing in the stack for some reason?

One girl must have appeared like 10 times until we finally matched. This bug is number one bull****

Yep, I know it used to happen to me all the time but I guess it still exists. The bug sucks because I had a girl match with me just to tell me she reported me. She kept seeing my profile so thought I was a bot or something. I almost think it's Tinder running some internal experiment to gather data. (Just a theory)

[tf19]

ok yeah i can't be the only one frustrated w the amount of flakes and effortless/stalled convos.

asked one girl - who i matched with on *both* tinder and bumble! - how many matches she has vs. how many she's met up with. 3000 / 3 = 1/1000 chance of us meeting. of course, her personality disordered ass deleted me off snap when i didnt respond for 10 mins. smh.

so it's no surprise that meeting chicks in person is infinitely better for making a lasting impression, but online dating distributions are heavily skewed it's not even fun anymore.

Yep, unfortunately its just how it is. I almost feel like its comes in waves for me...sometimes I have 2 different girls for the weekend then a few flakes next week. I've flaked on a decent amount of girls but I always give a huge notice ahead of time, like 4-6 hours. I do it less now because I have a weird feeling its karma biting me in the ass. (just one of those weird people that believe in karma).

I use like 4 or 5 apps to gather my options for the week. It's almost like a part-time job checking these apps but I find it fun as hell. Sometimes it can be frustrating but the payoff is oh so sweet.

My biggest piece of advice is to not give up or let the lack of success demotivate you. Shoot your shot and don't look back. I know sometimes it can be exhausting carrying the convo with these boring women, but I rather know I tried everything in the end.

[tf19]

Passing some intel along to you bros - hxxps://blog.gotinder. com/tinder-presents-the-year-in-swipe-r/

The link details what day and time is the best to swipe heavy, other interesting data as well. January is the most popular month. Interesting. Keep it in mind next time you plan on swiping.

EDIT: I can't post links yet so don't be pissed lol. Replace the hxxps with https and remove the extra space before the .com

Or just have someone that can post links repost the link.

[jimberee]

If you start seeing someone for a couple of dates is it reasonable to expect them to stop chatting to other dudes on tinder? Or would you need to girlfriend them up before you can expect that?

[arabianvenom]

Yep, I know it used to happen to me all the time but I guess it still exists. The bug sucks because I had a girl match with me just to tell me she reported me. She kept seeing my profile so thought I was a bot or something. I almost think it's Tinder running some internal experiment to gather data. (Just a theory)

It's pissing me off tbh lol. Same girls appearing over and over. Should I reset my profile?

[ballieveryday]

If you start seeing someone for a couple of dates is it reasonable to expect them to stop chatting to other dudes on tinder? Or would you need to girlfriend them up before you can expect that?

They're still probably going to talk to a back up or two just in case if things don't go well. I kind of lost a chance with this one girl because she's in a relationship now, but we still talk every once and while. Girls would rather hear that you want to be in a relationship with them though.

[liftyousay]

well doubt i will get any more lays this year, after a nearly 3 week dry spell. finishing tally for 2018 was 41, including a false accusation in January from a two-faced nutter staying at a sober living (steer clear, boys) - a ninja i took was likely what saved me, but not before coughing up $5 grand, going through sleepless night after sleepless night, and handing over my DNA, which i've yet to hear back on the results, some 7+ months later, something my lawyer couldn't believe and said is rather unheard of (no news is good news). all the best in 2019.

(that's right, the 4th lay of the year was a false accusation, and i still went on to sleep with 37 more girls, thereafter, with that looming over me, the entire time. pretty dumb of me, looking back at it, on how it would have only taken one more to lie, to really have done me in. suffice to say, none of those had a past alcohol problem/sober living history/abusive ex - okay maybe one had an alcohol problem, which i ended up getting her consent on audio , 'my name is___ and we are about to fk', before going at it)

[HomerJThompson]

well doubt i will get any more lays this year, after a nearly 3 week dry spell. finishing tally for 2018 was 41, including a false accusation in January from a two-faced nutter staying at a sober living (steer clear, boys) - a ninja i took was likely what saved me, but not before coughing up $5 grand, going through sleepless night after sleepless night, and handing over my DNA, which i've yet to hear back on the results, some 7+ months later, something my lawyer couldn't believe and said is rather unheard of (no news is good news). all the best in 2019.

(that's right, the 4th lay of the year was a false accusation, and i still went on to sleep with 37 more girls, thereafter, with that looming over me, the entire time. pretty dumb of me, looking back at it, on how it would have only taken one more to lie, to really have done me in. suffice to say, none of those had a past alcohol problem/sober living history/abusive ex - okay maybe one had an alcohol problem, which i ended up getting her consent on audio , 'my name is___ and we are about to fk', before going at it)

Lol dude you are really dedicated. Mind ranking the 41, any 9/10s. Also do none of these girls become clingers.

[liftyousay]

Lol dude you are really dedicated. Mind ranking the 41, any 9/10s. Also do none of these girls become clingers.

frankly too many to rank them all. just fuzzy faces , now. predominantly in the 4-6.5 range, as you must scoop down to, online, when going for numbers. did rematch a couple that i'd slept with in the past, though, who reminded me that we'd slept together before, and others who i remembered we had, wanting to meet up again acting like we'd never met, prior. best one, was arguably a 20 year old 5'10 8/10, last month. guarantee everyone on this forum would gladly have bedded and white knighted.

[HomerJThompson]

frankly too many to rank them all. just fuzzy faces , now. predominantly in the 4-6.5 range, as you must scoop down to, online, when going for numbers. did rematch a couple that i'd slept with in the past, though, who reminded me that we'd slept together before, and others who i remembered we had, wanting to meet up again acting like we'd never met, prior. best one, was arguably a 20 year old 5'10 8/10, last month. guarantee everyone on this forum would gladly have bedded and white knighted.

Pics of 8/10? Gjdm , please be safe man, settle with the 8/10. If you dont remember girls that you phucked before, you are phucking too many chicks.

[Meralus]

well doubt i will get any more lays this year, after a nearly 3 week dry spell. finishing tally for 2018 was 41, including a false accusation in January from a two-faced nutter staying at a sober living (steer clear, boys) - a ninja i took was likely what saved me, but not before coughing up $5 grand, going through sleepless night after sleepless night, and handing over my DNA, which i've yet to hear back on the results, some 7+ months later, something my lawyer couldn't believe and said is rather unheard of (no news is good news). all the best in 2019.

(that's right, the 4th lay of the year was a false accusation, and i still went on to sleep with 37 more girls, thereafter, with that looming over me, the entire time. pretty dumb of me, looking back at it, on how it would have only taken one more to lie, to really have done me in. suffice to say, none of those had a past alcohol problem/sober living history/abusive ex - okay maybe one had an alcohol problem, which i ended up getting her consent on audio , 'my name is___ and we are about to fk', before going at it)

41 is a great number, brah. Good job. Glad to see it worked out for you. My dry spell is approaching a few months (I won't be specific) and holy hell, it sucks. Most it is due to my own accord, with some bad luck intertwined into it.

I'm tossing up the idea of getting Tinder/Bumble back, but I've always struggled with the bio and decent pics.

[Slyrz]

well doubt i will get any more lays this year, after a nearly 3 week dry spell. finishing tally for 2018 was 41, including a false accusation in January from a two-faced nutter staying at a sober living (steer clear, boys) - a ninja i took was likely what saved me, but not before coughing up $5 grand, going through sleepless night after sleepless night, and handing over my DNA, which i've yet to hear back on the results, some 7+ months later, something my lawyer couldn't believe and said is rather unheard of (no news is good news). all the best in 2019.

(that's right, the 4th lay of the year was a false accusation, and i still went on to sleep with 37 more girls, thereafter, with that looming over me, the entire time. pretty dumb of me, looking back at it, on how it would have only taken one more to lie, to really have done me in. suffice to say, none of those had a past alcohol problem/sober living history/abusive ex - okay maybe one had an alcohol problem, which i ended up getting her consent on audio , 'my name is___ and we are about to fk', before going at it)

GJDM. 22 for me.

2019 could be interesting...

[TheIronAsylum]

well doubt i will get any more lays this year, after a nearly 3 week dry spell. finishing tally for 2018 was 41, including a false accusation in January from a two-faced nutter staying at a sober living (steer clear, boys) - a ninja i took was likely what saved me, but not before coughing up $5 grand, going through sleepless night after sleepless night, and handing over my DNA, which i've yet to hear back on the results, some 7+ months later, something my lawyer couldn't believe and said is rather unheard of (no news is good news). all the best in 2019.

(that's right, the 4th lay of the year was a false accusation, and i still went on to sleep with 37 more girls, thereafter, with that looming over me, the entire time. pretty dumb of me, looking back at it, on how it would have only taken one more to lie, to really have done me in. suffice to say, none of those had a past alcohol problem/sober living history/abusive ex - okay maybe one had an alcohol problem, which i ended up getting her consent on audio , 'my name is___ and we are about to fk', before going at it)

why even bother with chicks anymore for real

my tinder dead absolute went and boosted a bunch of new account got literally nog ood looking chicks 300 matches all not even worth messaging what in the actual ****

where did all the hot girls go i see all these hot chicks out wth derpy guys but none on tinder anymore im just over it all together

[HomerJThompson]

check PM

ha. you act like we, as men, have a choice (especially when they get up in that attractiveness). she ghosted me after. prob already had a man (or two), looking for some side action, for the night.
and yeah, probably, but these were from last year, too, or two years ago when i went on a 70+ 'rampage' for the year.

as far as clingers, yes, a few this year, one insisting she was going to get something for my bday, which i told her she didn't need to, getting the hint etc.

Gjdm , yeah she was 8/10 indeed, surprised she would ghost so fast, sloots gonna sloot I guess.

[liftyousay]

Pics of 8/10? Gjdm , please be safe man, settle with the 8/10. If you dont remember girls that you phucked before, you are phucking too many chicks.

ha. you act like we, as men, have a choice (especially when they get up in that attractiveness). she ghosted me after. prob already had a man (or two), looking for some side action, for the night.
and yeah, probably, but these were from last year, too, or two years ago when i went on a 70+ 'rampage' for the year.

as far as clingers, yes, a few this year, one insisting she was going to get me something for my bday, which i told her she didn't need to, getting the hint etc.

41 is a great number, brah. Good job. Glad to see it worked out for you. My dry spell is approaching a few months (I won't be specific) and holy hell, it sucks. Most it is due to my own accord, with some bad luck intertwined into it.

I'm tossing up the idea of getting Tinder/Bumble back, but I've always struggled with the bio and decent pics.

yeah, have met a few, during my dry spell, the past few weeks, out and about, but have not been able to close, and i pretty much only give them one chance (and vice versa?)

GJDM. 22 for me.

2019 could be interesting...

really did not seem to be that many, until i tallied them up quickly, somewhat surprising myself. 22 ain't bad, given these apps have really slowed down for us all, the last 1-2 years, and A LOT less straight up dtf girls + more trolls/feminists/weirdos/degenerates.

why even bother with chicks anymore for real

my tinder dead absolute went and boosted a bunch of new account got literally nog ood looking chicks 300 matches all not even worth messaging what in the actual ****

where did all the hot girls go i see all these hot chicks out wth derpy guys but none on tinder anymore im just over it all together

yeah, i mean i could have easily had that mentality after what i went through, but i decided to get back on the saddle and regain some positive reinforcement, as it could have been VERY easy to have thought that ALL women are like that, from then on. but yeah, these days, overall, i'm a lot better at going weeks without getting any and focusing on other things etc. , and sometimes i've even done the flaking.

i still don't pay a cent to these apps, so every match/meetup/lay is just a bonus, is how i see it.

Gjdm , yeah she was 8/10 indeed, surprised she would ghost so fast, sloots gonna sloot I guess.

same, was rather surprised, as she complimented me on how i was in bed, before dropping her off. just think women do not take ONS men seriously, as many men do not take those types of women seriously, either. rolled off her ghosting me, quite well, if i do say so myself, when only a couple years ago i'd have scoured the web for an answer as to why, a girl i liked, would do that. i simply do not care anymore (or, the amount of time I do, has drastically decreased), as it is a waste of time/energy, given women, as a whole, do not know what they want.

[4North1Side2]

Having a decent profile makes a world of difference