In general your odds will be better if they message first. Shows that they have immediate interest and takes less effort on your end.
Actually why I like Bumble more. I don't like putting in a lot of effort and I waste less time when they initiate.
And the success of sexual openers depends on your pics and bio. If you look like a "nice guy" in your pics, you'll come off poorly if you open like that.
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08-28-2018, 05:41 PM #4261
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08-30-2018, 02:36 PM #4262
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08-31-2018, 01:59 PM #4263
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09-03-2018, 12:47 PM #4264
I made a new account about a year ago for a fresh start and I used a new Apple ID, new ******** account and setup a burner phone for the SMS verification. Little extreme? Probably. Luckily my account hasn't been banned since then. I'm not sure how they track new accounts (phone numbers, appleID, IP address, IMEI #, etc.) so I can't be much help, but if I had to guess the easiest way would be by phone number. They can easily set limits for accounts that use the same phone number.
Example - Don't allow the same phone number to register a new account in ex amount of time. This can easily be programmed in their database or source code that runs Tinder. Do I have any proof of how they track and limit accounts? Nope. Just my .02
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09-03-2018, 01:01 PM #4265
It's usually the opposite for me. I message first and then go from there. My rule is if I don't get a message within 5 minutes then I send one first. Remember: Getting laid isn't meant to be easy (for the most part). You have to put time and effort in if you want the final prize. Wonder why so many guys complain about not getting laid? Is because A) they aren't putting in the time, B) they're lacking something - looks, convo skills, general game, attitude, etc. or C) a combo of A and B.
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09-03-2018, 11:34 PM #4266
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09-03-2018, 11:38 PM #4267
i hope they dont rmbr pics but yea i used burner number got banned within a week so it has to be apple id eventually once i sign in with it
like i got one warnign thign then error 40403 or whatever ****s really a joke
pretty sure im on diff ip address unless thats linked to my account
good new is my sub is up in like 10 days so wont renew and wil have to do new apple id i guess
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09-04-2018, 12:35 AM #4268
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09-04-2018, 02:21 AM #4269
think its because my apple id is flagged so i keep remaking and keep getting tagged i realize how feminazi the app is so the worst il do on the app is come over or something apparently thats bannable now
at this point i dont even care anymore having to keep remaking accnts is annoing af and when i have a good convo with one or a decent chick account gets banned and there that goes
the app sucks now a days anyways just a bunch of ugly chicks or attention whores tryna play games waste your time or chicks who want you to run circles around just to take them out on a date and act like they werent fukced by half a football team on the app previously
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09-05-2018, 12:06 PM #4271
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How are you guys going about leading a convo in a pure sexual manner?
I dont want to really have a long drawn out convo. Just set it up so me and a chick can hang and she clearly gets my intentions of anything sexual.
I get a bunch of matches but feel like i have boring buddy buddy convos. Im way better at this in person lolSan Diego Chargers and Minny Twolves all day baby!!
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09-05-2018, 12:10 PM #4272
I'm new to tinder. I'm getting around ~3 matches a day while being selective. Most of the girls I match with are down with going on dates (I'm getting a lot of numbers), but never want to meet up and phuck immediately. Whenever I try to make the conversation sexual, the girls back off. I think girls might be seeing me as boyfriend material instead of a fwb. My profile pics are a pic of me smiling, me going skydiving, dancing, hanging out with friends, and singing karaoke. I don't have any shirtless pics because I have a some flab (and I'm currently working on getting that 6 pack).
If I want to make things sexual asap, should I try to meet up with girls for drinks?
How much differently do women treat you if you have a nice body? Please give me that sweet motivation to continue my cut.
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09-05-2018, 10:23 PM #4273
so they could be
it seems as im fukced i tried making an account on a new apple id new fbook new number.... got error coded 40403 within 3 hours
so its seems they are either tracking phone or pics
ANYONE HAVE ANY INPUT on this any phone wizards?
i may have ****ed up and only switched my apple id in itunes store and didnt do the cloud but still how did they find it so fast unless they have certian pics flagged or something??
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09-06-2018, 08:58 PM #4274
Easy to work out through a process of elimination.
- Create an account with the same phone but random pics from some other guys Instagram (not famous). Does it get banned?
- Create an account with your usual pics but on a different phone/network etc. Does it get banned?
If the second one gets banned it still might be girls in your area flagging you as soon as they see you (they don't need to match you to flag you). So you'll also have to try:
- Create an account with your usual pics but on a different phone/network etc. and spoof it to another city entirely where no one knows you and you haven't spoofed before. Does it get banned?
Once you have gone through those steps you'll have your answer.
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09-07-2018, 10:42 AM #4275
Aye I've learned a few things thus far from tindering for a while.
Never use lines, it's awkward if it's not your normal personality. I used alot of the misc lines but some brahs pointed out it came across awkwardly lol.
Also most chicks will ghost you for any xyz reasons so don't get butthurt about it. It made me mad at first but now idc.Ever tried, ever failed..
No Matter fail again... fail better.
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09-08-2018, 12:48 AM #4276
create new FB, then on a fresh IP create a tinder account via www.tinder.com
use a new mobile number to verify the account and just tinder via your browser?
Although lately i've noticed my new FB accounts gets blocked within days.
or yeah, maybe some of these girls are reporting you lol
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09-08-2018, 04:28 AM #4277
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09-08-2018, 07:04 AM #4278
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I did nothing different, just waited longer between resets, over a month. I only use phone number. I don't have a 'real' ******** and the one I created for swiping apps was deleted in the recent fake account roundup
When you delete your bumble account they warn you that if you're just going to remake the account, you won't be shown to their "best bees" (I guess that's their nice way of saying that you will only be shown to whales). So, you have to wait an undetermined period of time for it to forget you, I guess.
interesting, I have never experienced that.
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09-08-2018, 10:13 AM #4279
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09-09-2018, 01:26 AM #4280
yea bros idk wtf i had it re made and working with new apple id ******** deleted ******** and messenger app worked for like 2 days and error coded again idk wtf it is???
iv been using google voice numbers could that be it?
does it need to be new phone
just dumb fat kunts reporting me constantly and tinder hired a new zeolot feminazi to ban men now or what
i guess only thing i can think of is new phone and new pics completely i still used the same couple pcis on this accnt too so i dont get itLast edited by TheIronAsylum; 09-09-2018 at 01:41 AM.
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09-09-2018, 02:08 AM #4281
If i've learned anything in the last couple of weeks its that if a girl kisses you at the end of the date it doesn't mean she has high interest. Had it happen 3 times. Twice the girl actually kissed me, 3rd she went for a cheek kiss but I took it further. Havnt seen any since.
First I wasnt that keen on so never texted (she hasnt contacted me either), second it was her bday the next day so i said happy bday and that we should catch up again, no response. 3rd took 5 days to reply to my message and said she was busy but would contact me when she was free and hasn't since.
It's like getting phone numbers, if you get a girls number its not even an accomplishment anymore as they just give them out to pretty much anyone.Tinder crew
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09-09-2018, 04:53 AM #4282
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09-09-2018, 11:55 AM #4283
I've had this happen to me too. The accomplishment these days is getting a second hook up with a tinder chick. I have two girls come back to me like every time they break up with some guy they date for like 3-5 months though so it is possible for those girls to comeback. I always wonder how much easier it would have been keeping some of these girls if I had my own place. I'm lucky enough to find one or two that would invite me over to their place. I feel like tinder girls aren't down with the hotel idea anymore.
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09-09-2018, 10:04 PM #4284
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09-10-2018, 07:44 AM #4285
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09-10-2018, 09:06 AM #4286
Just regarding the topic of sex talk: I'm chatting with a match about sex in general after getting her SC. exploring her tolerance on rough stuff and her do's and dont's. What are the chances she'll go sloot mode on me when this is discussed, and how would I escalate it on me? Also she's in an open relationship and not into ONS.
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09-10-2018, 09:26 AM #4287
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09-10-2018, 09:34 AM #4288
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09-10-2018, 06:25 PM #4289
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Brahs, just finished utilizing this boost got 2 matches from it and the 1 must have realized she goofed, because she's gone.... Feels bad man.
lmao, both jumped ship.
Testing homer mode, i quick swipe, so don't even see pictures and 11 gays in 3 minute matched. Ones a Chad. Should I pepper my angus?Last edited by woofburger; 09-10-2018 at 08:36 PM.
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