First time, couldn't get hard. Gonna try again with diff girl in a few days, wat do?

[Sherniee]

So this girl I seriously like, she comes over with Nando's and I get the condoms (condoms are expensive here, srs). We eat and watch a show, I eat her out but I could not get hard.

I like this girl a lot and she was like "your heart is beating super fast, calm down it's okay". Eventually we give up and she keeps telling me we'll try again soon.

So I tell a girl friend, she's like yea no big deal it's your first time, it happens. So after some back and forth I'm gonna fukk this friend in a couple days to get it over and done with so I don't freak out the next time I'm with the girl I like.

NOW, problem is, now I'm scared AF I won't be able to get hard for this one too. Seriously I don't get wtf is up, I jack off like at least once a day, and like 5-6 times if I have nothing to do all day, and I'm still getting random boners all the fukking time. Wtf do I do? Was thinking of going to the pharmacy and getting some pills or something, but I'm 19 and I just figured I'd save those for when I'm 35.

[bigdickcity]

Completely normal brah. Happened to me my first time too. Srs

[Lifterbrah401k]

"Seriously I don't get wtf is up, I jack off like at least once a day, and like 5-6 times if I have nothing to do all day"


That and performance anxiety

Also are you a virgin?

[Lpenny]

Perhaps you are gay

[dat]

Missing pics of said girl to get a bonrar over

[markduschane]

Pornography is not a gift no matter how much you love and worship it

[Sherniee]

Completely normal brah. Happened to me my first time too. Srs

So what happened the second time? No problems?

[bigdickcity]

So what happened the second time? No problems?

Nope. Smashed it.

[Clkflynn]

Try men

[Letthemcome]

u were nervous and its impossible to get hard when ur nervous. probs best to hangout with the girl more to get comfortable with her rather than rushing into sex (no beta)

[Benmben1]

You were probably thinking about everything & not just relaxing and enjoying it, just chill. You'll make it, if not eat that pussy until her legs are jellified

[Sherniee]

Update:

So the friend came over, we did it. Kept getting soft whenever she put the condom on, eventually managed to smash with it being like roughly 65-75% of my 1RM in terms of hardness.

Told the girl I like about it, she was just like yea lets do it without if it doesn't work. We bought a different brand of condoms but the ring was still like suffocating me, so I smashed without protection. PROBLEM IS, was still going semi-soft when I started getting more active.

Was like hard AF while getting head and while going slow, but I was only like half-way there basically when I tried to go faster and doing more physical activity. Also I'm 6'1 and she's 5'0, so positions are awkward AF.

I have 3 questions now:

1. How the fuk do you stay hard when you start fukking harder and getting all out of breath and ****?

2. When I'm fully hard I hit her cervix with like 2 inches left outside (no brag, she's a short girl). How do I push past it?

3. How reliable is a really early pull-out game, just temporary while I figure condoms out.

[EnglandPrevails]

Update:

So the friend came over, we did it. Kept getting soft whenever she put the condom on, eventually managed to smash with it being like roughly 65-75% of my 1RM in terms of hardness.

Told the girl I like about it, she was just like yea lets do it without if it doesn't work. We bought a different brand of condoms but the ring was still like suffocating me, so I smashed without protection. PROBLEM IS, was still going semi-soft when I started getting more active.

Was like hard AF while getting head and while going slow, but I was only like half-way there basically when I tried to go faster and doing more physical activity. Also I'm 6'1 and she's 5'0, so positions are awkward AF.

I have 3 questions now:

1. How the fuk do you stay hard when you start fukking harder and getting all out of breath and ****?

2. When I'm fully hard I hit her cervix with like 2 inches left outside (no brag, she's a short girl). How do I push past it.

3. How reliable is a really early pull-out game, just temporary while I figure condoms out.

You may need bigger condoms. Practice at home (by yourself!) and try out a few different brands. It's worth the time/money spent.

1. Relax

2. Keep doing it with her a few more times, you'll figure it out with practice.

3. Early pull-out is only 70% or so effective, so a quarter of the time, it will fail. You also have no protection from sexually transmitted diseases this way. While condoms are not 100% effective, the odds are far more in your favor if you use them consistently and correctly.

[TheSeriousOne92]

Yeah, happens to me unless I feel comfortable with a girl. Just spend more time together. You probably didn't stay hard because still anxious or nervous about the whole situation, don't think about getting hard because that makes it harder to get hard

[tank2003]

happened to me first time. just take it slow. spread the foreplay out. Most chicks like it better when you gently arouse them (making out, light over the clothes touching, neck kissing) then slowly move on under the clothes and then oral. I gues syou could always get a cock ring though

[Moloholo]

pics of girl and friend for assessment.

then pics of you to fap to

[Revain]

You jack off every day.. It's called PTSD dummy.

[FOSteven]

You jack off every day.. It's called PTSD dummy.

Lmao what

[CaptainBrah23]

1. Get hard while smashing sloots
2. You're a homosexual

Pick one

[BrofessorXavier]

Happened my first time. It's just nerves, try to focus on not thinking if that makes sense. Just enjoy the moment and the girl instead of letting your thoughts race.

[derkerkjerk]

chill out this happens to everyone... you start getting worried or just anxious? just smile and remember you're about to get laid and enjoy the ride. you've already been more successful trying things out with a friend, so there's nothing to fear... next time you'll be at 100% easy now that you've seen how simple it all is

the reason why you probably went soft when speeding up is because you were already partially soft, then speeding it up was moving so fast you didn't get as much sensation to keep you hard.

look up condom sizing to get one that fits because it's probably strangling your dick

[TSBrah]

pics

[nail clipper]

stop jacking off and you'll be fine. if you ignore what I just wrote, then you will continue to experience this. if you listen to what i just said, you'll be ok. the choice is yours young virile padawan

[caravanbrah]

How ****ing hard is it to post pics?

If you can't post pics I hope you can never get hard. Srs

[Sherniee]

stop jacking off and you'll be fine. if you ignore what I just wrote, then you will continue to experience this. if you listen to what i just said, you'll be ok. the choice is yours young virile padawan

Yea dude, since I failed the first day, I completely stopped jacking off. Pretty much had at least a semi all day even when out in public.

How ****ing hard is it to post pics?

If you can't post pics I hope you can never get hard. Srs

Edit: Y'all can neg me all you want, not posting pics. I actually really fukkin like this girl, she's chill AF and she lifts, which is a lot better than some red squares.

[y0jimbo]

Its ok man, not every1 is into chicks, go with what gets u hard, men.

[y0jimbo]

Yea dude, since I failed the first day, I completely stopped jacking off. Pretty much had at least a semi all day even when out in public, surrounded by men.

Fixed that for u brotha