Feel like GF shafted me, please advise if Im overreacting. (She going to Cuba wo me)

[DeadlyStriker]

Lol I would have straight up just said, "well it seems like we have different values and different views on things. This isn't going to work out. I'll let you out."

[Caeculus]

. She says that I should instead be happy for her cause she loves traveling and this is the only oppurtunity she gets to travel because shes about to be 26.

What does being 26 have to do with anything ? Is Cuba not going to be there when she's 27 ?

[YIAMSOMEBODY]

What does being 26 have to do with anything ? Is Cuba not going to be there when she's 27 ?

Lulzed pretty fockin' hard.

[MyBaddBrah]

[anonymous]

[Luc1fer]

Not gonna lie. I like a girl that can be thrifty and make it look good. I would of never guessed that to be 12-15 dollars. I guess its safe to say she isnt materialistic.

Completely agree, huge plus that she can buy on a budget.

[zeTruth]

she has no respeckt for u bro

[dannyg2127]

That makes no sense. If she used any reasonable logic on the situation she would have asked you to cancel the Boston trip and switched Vday gift to the Cuba trip which would have seemingly solved all the problems. You said you and her agreed she was being too spontaneous for these trips and her response to that is to suddenly cancel one trip and schedule another one.

I don't know your relationship but I know I would be pretty pissed off about that whole turn of events. I'm gonna assume if you pulled the same move on her it would have gone over horribly.

[Lifterbrah401k]

That makes no sense. If she used any reasonable logic on the situation she would have asked you to cancel the Boston trip and switched Vday gift to the Cuba trip which would have seemingly solved all the problems. You said you and her agreed she was being too spontaneous for these trips and her response to that is to suddenly cancel one trip and schedule another one.

I don't know your relationship but I know I would be pretty pissed off about that whole turn of events. I'm gonna assume if you pulled the same move on her it would have gone over horribly.

This

You were going to go to boston why can't you go to cuba if she cancelled it?

Like da fk

sounds like she doesn't care about you OP, just let her go before she crushes you when she meets someone else in the future and goes "I feel like I haven't lived my life, we got together so young" lmfao

[p7nk]

Opie it honestly sounds like your an accessory to her life. The fact she took back her vday gift and when you questioned her about it.. she basically insulted you... lol.. trust me opie some Ricardo is going to call her beautiful and dance with her.. and she's going to look at her sister with a "should i let him **** me" and her sister is going to look back with a "yeah girl, you wont be 26 forever"

/dead

Lol I would have straight up just said, "well it seems like we have different values and different views on things. This isn't going to work out. I'll let you out."

This why they call him DeadlyStriker

[ruskiMishka]

definitely seen that whooore on here before.

[bjjruinedmylife]

What does being 26 have to do with anything ? Is Cuba not going to be there when she's 27 ?

She's panicking cos her glow is running out

[Rustlemyleaves]

Yoel and Fidel gonna train on you girl sorry cuzzy

[Didlid]

Your girlfriend is talking **** I've been Cuba twice, once in Sept once in October and only seen rain 1 day out of the two 14 day holidays.

[jonnicola]

OP wanted to take gf to Cuba during its wet season and got salty when she called out his stupid idea

[mischman]

OP is frauding. I've seen that pic posted on the Misc before. Where are the detectives when you need them

[Shinka707]

Bruh, chicks that are always talking about traveling are sloots, especially in tinder bio's. Leave her bro and NC

[AlffaMail]

Lol I would have straight up just said, "well it seems like we have different values and different views on things. This isn't going to work out. I'll let you out."

Haha I have used this line on a few and it works wonders. Makes sloots panic hard and I got a few more dik sugging sessions out of them.

[CatFunt]

"told her I want to travel for her"

My advice is either redress the balance of the relationship by not being a lapdog or straight up just get out of it.

Changing the balance is a tricky thing, you don't want to manipulate somone and you want to remain your true self but if your true self is a doormat you need to look at why you don't value yourself as a human being.

You're important, you matter, you are 50% of this relationship and unless you act that way you'll get repeatedly shafted in this fashion and the more you take the more she will do it until she loses complete respect for you and goes elsewhere. You'll be left confused, wondering what you did wrong. You'll say to your friends "I don't understand I gave her the world, I did everything for her" never actually realising thats exactly the issue.

At least thats my best guess from the short OP, I could be completely wrong.

[JizzShooter]

I don't understand how any guy can EVER think it's going to turn out fine when their girlfriend goes overseas without them.

No matter how good the relationship is and how much trust has been built up to that point.

It's a palm through my face and out the back of my skull every, f(cking, time.

My best mates younger brother had been in a relationship for nearly 4 years with his girlfriend. They had planned a Contiki trip to Europe and then to London for a month.

He bought an engagement ring to propose on the trip ( a few months beforehand of them departing )

He ended up being offered a real good job at one of the huge construction sites in Sydney right now (he managed to save up for a deposit on a house by himself in under 14 months with this job... which is why he ended up taking it because it was good money)

So he told his girlfriend of nearly 4 years he can't go on the trip anymore because of this awesome opportunity, but he still wants her to go on Contiki and spend a month in London before coming back.

That's what was agreed.

Brb the third week into Contiki she called him crying (we were all at his brothers/my mates place for a birthday get together) and he opened up the laptop on the couch next to us and knew immediately something was wrong. Went to the other room. Lots of yelling. And swearing. And a smashed laptop at the conclusion.

She f*cked one of the guys in her Contiki group.

Oh and she's now on her sixth month in England and guys are constantly blowing up her ******** wall and she's draped around a new one every weekend out at the nightclubs.

It's lulzworthy how predictable this sh*t is.

If a girl ever suggests to me she wants to travel without me she only has three options:

1) Pack her things and get the f*ck out immediately
2) Argue with me and get backhanded, then pack her things
3) Get the roughest and most degrading s*x she's ever had in the hopes of making me forget about it, then told to pack her things.

[Chezdon]

Your only option really is to start acting nonchalant and aloof. Start moving on mentally, cos this ship is about to sail. I'm not suggesting jumping on Tinder right away, but think about how you're gonna set that profile up and start taking some delicious selfies.

[BrotherAndy]

Your girlfriend is talking **** I've been Cuba twice, once in Sept once in October and only seen rain 1 day out of the two 14 day holidays.

No matter when she goes it's gon be wet season for OP's gf nomsayin

[FU3L]

None of her arguments make sense. She's going to cuba without you so she can get railed by other dudes.

[Deadpulse]

If a girl ever suggests to me she wants to travel without me she only has three options:

1) Pack her things and get the f*ck out immediately
2) Argue with me and get backhanded, then pack her things
3) Get the roughest and most degrading s*x she's ever had in the hopes of making me forget about it, then told to pack her things.

One of my ex's of two years a few years ago told me she was planning a contiki in Europe without me, lold at her and never spoke to her again srs. Fark being disrespected like that.

[Didlid]

No matter when she goes it's gon be wet season for OP's gf nomsayin

Too true brah

[KBurn]

das it mayne, she sucking on pedro's dingus now, then giving you big sloppy tongue kisses.

[joshewwah]

Fidel Castro hitting up them walls right now

[Phesper]

Sounds ****ty OP, what did you decide to do?

Reminds me of when my GF of 3.5 years went on a ski trip over new years with 2 girl friends and 8 dudes lmao and I wasn't invited. We broke up then.

We decided to go in August. She didnt even have enough pto to go in may, like I said, she was spontaneous and didnt even plan it out right. Were goong in august cause thats whenshell have enough pto, and I will already have nore than enough by then. Guess it worked out on its own





Edit: for the guys thinking Im frauding cause you e seen that pic before. Ive used it before on the misc, its the default pic I use when I talk about my gf. Pics are mandatory so I just use this since I have the imgur page saved. Check this thread for another comment which I used it in

[Elllissss]

Opie it honestly sounds like your an accessory to her life. The fact she took back her vday gift and when you questioned her about it.. she basically insulted you... lol.. trust me opie some Ricardo is going to call her beautiful and dance with her.. and she's going to look at her sister with a "should i let him **** me" and her sister is going to look back with a "yeah girl, you wont be 26 forever"

/dead

This is the most accurate thing I've ever seen

[squatsbrah]

26 and rent free? living at home or with u op?