Lost all my friends because

[SavageBrah84]

I don't smoke. Never touched anything and they decided since I don't do it they won't hang out with me. This is like 20+ people and my entire town does it basically. Dudes I've been friends with for 5-8 years.

That's life I guess. They'll message me to see whats up and say they want to hang out, the second I try to make plans they go NC then later will hit me up, tired of this ****, going NC completely.

Hopefully I get processed into the Military soon brahs

Edit: Not talking about cigarettes and cigars

[trapper08]

Seems like a good reason

[hornyman23]

I don't smoke. Never touched anything and they decided since I don't do it they won't hang out with me. This is like 20+ people and my entire town does it basically. Dudes I've been friends with for 5-8 years.

That's life I guess. They'll message me to see whats up and say they want to hang out, the second I try to make plans they go NC then later will hit me up, tired of this ****, going NC completely.

Hopefully I get processed into the Military soon brahs

ive lost a lot of friends too but not from not smoking. honestly dont really care at this point.
im wondering should i bother with my current friends? how will i know they wont bail out on me at any time?

[ApG]

op will get shunned in the military also. they love to smoke.

[-Lucifer]

Good riddance. You shouldn't feel bad about that. Make new friends at the gym. People are less likely to be drunks/drug addicts there.

[albeezy512]

Dont worry about them brah. It's always good to weed the chit people out of your life

[gunshow101]

its hip to be a square.

[SavageBrah84]

Good riddance. You shouldn't feel bad about that. Make new friends at the gym. People are less likely to be drunks/drug addicts there.

I'm trying, I got a physique, just not sure how to start stuff up, maybe ask for a spot would work? I wouldn't BS talk, just need to get myself more talkative, most of the brahs there are all chill, I just wear my headphones lol.

Dont worry about them brah. It's always good to weed the chit people out of your life

Lol @ that pun if it was intended, thanks brah it feels good that I'm not wasting my time anymore thou

op will get shunned in the military also. they love to smoke.

Talking about illegal stuff here boyo

[TommyRO]

they did you a service now find genuine friends

[SavageBrah84]

they did you a service now find genuine friends

that's true, just hard to find some atm

[-Lucifer]

I'm trying, I got a physique, just not sure how to start stuff up, maybe ask for a spot would work? I wouldn't BS talk, just need to get myself more talkative, most of the brahs there are all chill, I just wear my headphones lol.

A simple smile can do a lot. Talk to people near the water fountain and you won't feel pressured since you see those same people almost everyday. You can also ask for a spot; most people won't refuse.

You can read up on body language (check Youtube) to help decipher what's really going on in people's minds and if they're okay with being approached or not. All the best.

P.S. I was the only one from my group who didn't smoke or do drugs. I went NC on all of them and never regretted that decision.

[RocknRollMuscle]

it's not cuz u don't smoke OP

[SavageBrah84]

it's not cuz u don't smoke OP

"We'd ask you to hang out, but you don't smoke" was exactly what I was told by them.

I lost all mine due to an opiate addiction I refused to stop until it was too late. If being friends with someone requires you to have to do drugs fuk them, you're on the right track OP.

Thanks brah, we all gon make it

A simple smile can do a lot. Talk to people near the water fountain and you won't feel pressured since you see those same people almost everyday. You can also ask for a spot; most people won't refuse.

You can read up on body language (check Youtube) to help decipher what's really going on in people's minds and if they're okay with being approached or not. All the best.

P.S. I was the only one from my group who didn't smoke or do drugs. I went NC on all of them and never regretted that decision.

Thanks for the advice brah, it's little nice to know I aint alone brah. I'll try some of the stuff you told me as well

[bickb]

Well, smoking is a social thing. So it's understandable in way, but still; good riddance!

[SavageBrah84]

Well, smoking is a social thing. So it's understandable in way, but still; good riddance!

Thanks brah

[hoganrulz]

drugs should be a private thing anyway, who wants to get yucky and pass out and wake up with a carrot in your ass, shaving cream on your balls and pictures of you having nuts resting on various places on your face


























asking for a friend

[SavageBrah84]

drugs should be a private thing anyway, who wants to get yucky and pass out and wake up with a carrot in your ass, shaving cream on your balls and pictures of you having nuts resting on various places on your face


























asking for a friend

not too sure brah, you should know thou

[hoganrulz]

not too sure brah, you should know thou

asking for a friend bro. hes called dave. nice guy. you dont know him......ummmmm change the subject please

[WesleyEngDOTcom]

Hope you didn't choose Infantry or you're gonna get picked on.

[p7nk]

I'm sure your personality has nothing to do with it.

[WesleyEngDOTcom]

i'm sure your personality has nothing to do with it.

lol!

[Jasonw1178]

Where do you live OP? People who use vices often reject people who don't. Joke is on them in the long run. I've been quite straight lace my whole life. Women are my only real problem. Besides that, at age 38, I look at my life and realize that I'm much better off. Just people who get high alot, just like people who get drunk a lot, it causes problems and adds to kaos. Don't really bring that up, they will argue that there are only benefits and no negatives to smoking weed, so just sit back and watch.

It's like this, either way, it's a financial burden to smoke weed, and unless you are growing your own, you are dealing with a drug dealer. That's a shady business, no matter how you justify it. Just possessing it is illegal, and there are potential problems that can come from that. Paranoia is a problem with weed smokers. There are links that show anxiety and depression, as well as bi-polar/manic issues are much higher among pot smokers but that is kind of a chicken and egg thing. There is evidence that marjuana can help people with these disorders but when someone uses that doesn't need it, the opposite can be true. What I have noticed about 98% of pot smokers I've met is a serious lack of drive/motivation.

[MajesticBeat]

You lost nothing of value OP if they can disregard you that easily simply cuz you don't smoke. Find yourself better friends. Those more in line with yourself.

[EoR]

People who don't get out of the binge drinking/drug phase are not worth it. Find a better group of people, but still it would suck especially if you have known them for a long time.

[AmGodBrah]

Maybe you're just a fcking loser

I doubt it has anything to do with smoking tbh

[SavageBrah84]

Where do you live OP? People who use vices often reject people who don't. Joke is on them in the long run. I've been quite straight lace my whole life. Women are my only real problem. Besides that, at age 38, I look at my life and realize that I'm much better off. Just people who get high alot, just like people who get drunk a lot, it causes problems and adds to kaos. Don't really bring that up, they will argue that there are only benefits and no negatives to smoking weed, so just sit back and watch.

It's like this, either way, it's a financial burden to smoke weed, and unless you are growing your own, you are dealing with a drug dealer. That's a shady business, no matter how you justify it. Just possessing it is illegal, and there are potential problems that can come from that. Paranoia is a problem with weed smokers. There are links that show anxiety and depression, as well as bi-polar/manic issues are much higher among pot smokers but that is kind of a chicken and egg thing. There is evidence that marjuana can help people with these disorders but when someone uses that doesn't need it, the opposite can be true. What I have noticed about 98% of pot smokers I've met is a serious lack of drive/motivation.

Same man, just sucks that's the way it is, some of these dudes I've known for 5-8 years, played sports with etc. I guess it is what it is

Will hit you on r/c

Hope you didn't choose Infantry or you're gonna get picked on.

Again talking about illegal **** here

asking for a friend bro. hes called dave. nice guy. you dont know him......ummmmm change the subject please

lmao I'm ****ing done srs hahaha

[SavageBrah84]

lol!

I'm sure your personality has nothing to do with it.

Lmao you fat puck

on a srs note it doesn't brah, they've legit told me it's only bc I don't smoke. I hang out with maybe a few occasionally from the main group, but they told me that's the reason why

[SavageBrah84]

Maybe you're just a fcking loser

I doubt it has anything to do with smoking tbh

Lol no I was told exactly why and that's the only reason, they use to invite me out all the time.

Other thing is it might be because I gained muscle and am now more confident and they think I have some ego thing? I got good looking facials as well so idk

[Biscophan]

Where do you live OP? People who use vices often reject people who don't. Joke is on them in the long run. I've been quite straight lace my whole life. Women are my only real problem. Besides that, at age 38, I look at my life and realize that I'm much better off. Just people who get high alot, just like people who get drunk a lot, it causes problems and adds to kaos. Don't really bring that up, they will argue that there are only benefits and no negatives to smoking weed, so just sit back and watch.

It's like this, either way, it's a financial burden to smoke weed, and unless you are growing your own, you are dealing with a drug dealer. That's a shady business, no matter how you justify it. Just possessing it is illegal, and there are potential problems that can come from that. Paranoia is a problem with weed smokers. There are links that show anxiety and depression, as well as bi-polar/manic issues are much higher among pot smokers but that is kind of a chicken and egg thing. There is evidence that marjuana can help people with these disorders but when someone uses that doesn't need it, the opposite can be true. What I have noticed about 98% of pot smokers I've met is a serious lack of drive/motivation.

This. I smoked a leaf last night and woke up with reefer madness.

Stay safe.

[DabthenDeadlift]

lmao @ "dealing with a drug dealer is a shady business" hahaha only on the misc