Always couldn't talk to chicks. Even with the help of friends pushing me I could just never. But today my friends it was different finally. Took a lot out of me (Srs) to talk to her.
How it went :
Hey can I join you? (She was sitting alone at the table finally or she's always with her friend) *pulls chair and sits down before she even says anything*
Her: yeah I'm just working on some [i honestly don't FOKn know it was something super long] . *she seemed caught by surprise so it took her a while to say something*
Me : that's cool . What's your name ? *pulls out hand for handshake *
Her: it's kaitlyn
Me: oh ok. We're just working on a quiz over there(was with friends and a prof) I've seen you around on campus a lot . I guess it's hard not to. Not a lot of girls in this campus. (Our campus is trades so not many females at all)
Her: yeah * she def thought I was going to compliment her but she got got* <said some other crap I don't remember>
Me: so you must spend most of your time at the other campus because you're in that program?
Her: yeah ..blah blah blah . How about you?
Me: blah blah blah. So how do you like it here ? That campus is a lot better.
Her: it's not too bad really I had a lot of guys in the course I take so it feels pretty normal being one of the few girls here
Me: oh ok that's good. I just wanted to say hello because I've seen you around and didn't want to be weird or whatever.
*she smiles because I'm being an awkward ******* at this point and stressing about what to say and phuck up *
Her : { don't remember what she said }
Me: at least the weather is getting nicer
Her : yeah definitely it is
Me : ( was suppose to talk about if she saw the basketball tournament outside but under pressure phucked it up) ok I'll see you around then
Her: yeah you too
Me: *walk away feeling NOT beta but not alpha either because I finally took a step to talk to a girl*
Honestly I wasn't even trying to go for a number yet . Maybe it surprised her? In my head I just wanted to make some friendly conversation in order to get comfortable approaching chicks . And I think this def boosted my confidence . I know it might still seem beta AF to most people on here but progress is better than nothing right?
Will take suggestions on how to improve game , etc.
Thanks for your time
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04-10-2017, 01:09 PM #1
finally talked to a girl (no pics)
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Pretty , brown hair blonde streaks . Shorter than me. White . Nice figure?
Honestly I thought she was way prettier before I talked to her . Guess I was putting the poosy on the pedestal . And her voice was a turnoff lol . Don't wanna seem like a dink for a first time but it's true . She was super friendly though and asked questions back trying to hold the convo which is why it went better than I thought .
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Kudo's to taking the initiative but cot damn you need to brush up on your conversation skills. Just wanted to say hello? Just lol. You need to talk about the things you have in common "Have you taken this prof, your major, not a lot of women here, what brought you to the field" etc etc. bishes love to talk about themselves.
Learn from this. When the conversation is coming to a close and you haven't completely freaked her out end with "Well I have to get back to being an awkward fa loser (or studying whatever) would you like to grab lunch some time?"
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