Dating guy for 5 months, he's concerned about my #

[iloveus]

That sucks But oh well, for however long this lasts, I can handle it, as I said, he makes up for it in other ways. That will just have to be something he deals with in his future relationships too.

You're going to break up with him?

[MHannibal]

He's bothered by how many guys you've been with and isn't playing with your clit/vag, the guy sounds like a virgin or has some serious problems he needs to overcome. But really when i lost my virginity at a late age I obviously had a bit of catching up to do so went full tarzan on the girl I lost it to for about 6 months. So I'm going with serious mental problems, talk to him about it some more maybe something will come out from his upbringing. Honestly if you are really into each other there's no reason you can't get through this together and if you do I imagine the sex will greatly improve ... you need to be more and more honest/open with each other.

[xvicknumber7x]

I feel like it's insecurity on his part.

[FU3L]

Sounds like a miscer, what's his username?

[iloveus]

sounds like a miscer, what's his username?

fu3l

[Autopilot]

Find someone who isn't so immature and insecure. Was he a FA kissless virgin before he met you?

[BurialGround]

He must be a *******. I can't find girls several years younger than you with "only 6" partners. I'd be thrilled smh.

[sowilson]

tie him down, straddle his face and direct him on how to eat you.

[RRiddlemethis]

I'd bet on insecurity and faulty thought patterns regarding woman as a whole.

[meenman83]

He doesn't know what to do. Just sit him down and explain what you want, finger insertion while tongue stimulation etc. as each female is different unless you're gifted with that there Patrice O'Neal finger poppin ability.

[rawdawgg]

Comes to a forum about relationship help, asks why the current guy I'm seeing hardly goes down on me, gets negged, why exactly thebunz?

Don't worry, you'll be getting plenty of WK reps soon to come. SMH.

[toneekay]

Not sure if this is mentioned but...


If it smells, no go. Some guys are just groced at the smell that imagining eating it would be worse.

If it looks bad, no go. If it's too hairy, guys don't want to deal with the bush all in their face. If it's too dark, it does not look appealing. If it looks beat up, then yes, that could put him in position to believe that its been beat up by previous dudes and make him not want to go near it.

[-Lucifer]

fu3l

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^ Sounds like you are him, son.

[Aaronza]

this chit is better than the actual misc

[pondus_levo]

18 guys is only slightly above average

[goodcupcakes]

So you say you've been with 7 guys so we have to multiply that by 3 to get the real number but wait you live in down undah and Australia is an island full of criminals so really we have to multiply it by 10 to get the true number. 70. So you've been ruthlessly banged and creampied by at least 70 guys. I can see why he thinks you're a sloot. Because you're a sloot.

[Konrai]

I am really not so sure why people are even mentioning insecurity. I am actually more led top believe he just doesn't like oral all that much and is using your past as leverage to get out of it. Granted he may have a valid reason for not wanting to do it, it just seems odd to me he has no problem putting his tip in there and not much else.

Either way he may never get over this so it's a tough call you have to make....I mean at least it's not like the last guy you had with the furry fetish and butt plugs.

[All-Star11]

Of course not. But her obvious ignoring of my posts are a telling sign....

roger that

[PTzFree]

Look at this poosy! I mean just look at it!

[Nedo]

would not share the same drink bottle with me, and if he had to, he would pour it into his mouth from afar 0.0

Prude germaphobe confirmed. The only time I do this is to joke around with the girl because I tell her she has coodies lol. Find someone who likes to muff dive and know that he won't ever change but only get worse. End of thread.

[Kiedis24]

He's bothered by how many guys you've been with and isn't playing with your clit/vag, the guy sounds like a virgin or has some serious problems he needs to overcome. But really when i lost my virginity at a late age I obviously had a bit of catching up to do so went full tarzan on the girl I lost it to for about 6 months. So I'm going with serious mental problems, talk to him about it some more maybe something will come out from his upbringing. Honestly if you are really into each other there's no reason you can't get through this together and if you do I imagine the sex will greatly improve ... you need to be more and more honest/open with each other.

Thanks for your reasonable advice. I feel like we have been pretty open/communicative with each other, and agree how important that is yeah.

As for the all the people wondering if he was a virgin before me, no he wasn't, but he insists that he was only with one woman before me, and that they lost their virginity to one another. So maybe that's also a factor.

He doesn't know what to do. Just sit him down and explain what you want, finger insertion while tongue stimulation etc. as each female is different unless you're gifted with that there Patrice O'Neal finger poppin ability.

i do agree that we all need to address these things and express our own desires in the bedroom with our partner. And I have brought this a couple times with him, I even noticed he stopped clipping his fingernails, so he definitely has something going on with avoiding that area.

There is nlthing wrong with my p*ssy, looks or otherwise. Like I've said, I'm a reasonable person and would chalk it down to it being from that if there was something up with mine lol.

Anyway, after all this, I actually don't even want him to go down on me now, it makes me feel uncomfortable and turned-off at the thought of my partner doing something that he isn't turned on by just to please me.

[Kiedis24]

Prude germaphobe confirmed. The only time I do this is to joke around with the girl because I tell her she has coodies lol. Find someone who likes to muff dive and know that he won't ever change but only get worse. End of thread.

Hmm yeah, I think that could be a good reason too, germaphobe thing going on perhaps.

Anyway, thanks to all the serious replies. Good to get some male opinions and feels like I have a better idea now. Peace.

[melkthecet]

6 at 27? RELATIVELY under average, but still a slut. I would never go out with a girl who's count was more than 5. It is literally impossible for a woman to be satisfied with any 1 guy after she reached around 5... she will ALWAYS be fantasizing about at least 1 of those 5. This is backed up by SCIENCE. Go look it up if you don't believe me, it does not let me post links. Women who have more than a few sex partners are shooting themselves in the foot: they will end up unhappy, because at one age they will want to hop off the cock carousel, but they will never be satisfied with that good guy that they finally met. So they will be in limbo for life. And they only have themselves to blame. No matter how good your technique is, how big your cock is, etc.. you will never be able to be 100% in all departments, so you will always be lacking compared to 10+ guys all combined, so you can never satisfy her after she has been with so many guys and experienced so many different flavours.

I would f.uck a b.itch who had a count of up to 15, but only with a condom, and HELL no I ain't eating her nasty p.ussy. I would never, EVER marry or have kids with a girl who had a count of more than 5 before me. Anyone who does this is a total beta c.uck who's is willingly making his baby daughter's forehead touch chads' c.ocks first thing upon entering this world. Only a beta c.uck will settled for disgusting, filthy cumdumpsters like this.

Also, it is not just about the literal count.. a high count indicates lack of IQ (because smart women know that quality>quantity is better for them) and low will power, both of which are detrimental for LTRs. Not to mention exponentially higher chance of STDs.. because we all know that girl's are totally stupid when it comes to protection and will let chads rawdog them... f.ucking disgusting.

LOL at beta c.ucks who say "average is 13000 bro... so I'm totally cool with it." Yea.. the "average" in an abnormal, degenerate society does not equate to "regular" human behaviour. You f.ucking cucks are the ones enabling this.

[FlexLex]

Patiently awaiting pics of alleged big boobs and trimmed vajayjay....

Need more mods like this, the MISC might actually make a come back.

But srs, need pics to assess. 6 at 27 is very low, but that in itself raises red flags. Either you are extremely picky or not the most attractive, thats the facts. Post some pics so we can give you pure unadulterated truth regarding if he doesnt wanna touch you cause he aint attracted

[thatsnarf]

And for my own preference, I haven't been used to guys with foreskin,

phuking gross. lol

[JohanMing]

7 at 27 is fine.

im somewhat concerned about my girlfriend being at 16 at 22. It's for sure made me skeptical of her.

And that not including all the blow and hand jobs lmfao.

Oh man, why ?

[JohanMing]

Hahahahahah!

[BlackScorpio91]

6 guys is not bad for your age if you're telling the truth. He's possibly retarded or super religious or has less partners than you if he has a problem with it.

[SWORN]

before I provide you with my expert advice, I would need to see pics of yourself.


10ku

[Thebunz]

Comes to a forum about relationship help, asks why the current guy I'm seeing hardly goes down on me, gets negged, why exactly thebunz?

You want a real answer? 6 people @ 27 is marriage potential in my books. He is a low test beta male that would father unfavorably weak offspring, he's gay and/or you're ugly.

Any way it goes, I'd bring up how it's a dealbreaker and if he doesn't start sucking your clit then you'll find someone who isn't such a *******.