Are bishes as shallow as guys?

[mujie]

There will always be people attracted by easy money. And being rich brings a certain level of confidence but no it's not enough if the attraction isn't there too.

[Silencespeaks]

I am shallow af and I don't mind admitting it

Whats the point of having a bf if you can look at them without wants to rip all their clothes off?

But my girlfriends seem different to me. They say things like "I don't care about looks I just want them to take good care of me and be nice etc"

I can take care of myself so idk what gives

I've been thinking about this a lot lately. I'm older and divorced and would like to date someone new. It seems my standards are too high but I want someone I'm physically attracted to. I prefer being alone over dating someone I'm not attracted to.

[Sanguivorant]

Listen to a group of girls talk about height and you'll quickly figure out how shallow they are.

[Nicklol]

they are way more shallow, who are you kidding? lmao

[Nicklol]

I've been thinking about this a lot lately. I'm older and divorced and would like to date someone new. It seems my standards are too high but I want someone I'm physically attracted to. I prefer being alone over dating someone I'm not attracted to.

and there you have it

[Armord]

You have to evaluate where they stand on the wife zone chart

holy sht that was some real ass talk

[dumbstuckbrah]

more shallow than men when it comes to looks srs.

Some of the shyt I hear females say really affirms it for me,, especially over hearing their convos.

Sloot in front of me on campus with her friend has literally been creeping ******** for 2 hours discussing how perfect so and so girl is or how so and so girl lucked out because the guy's better looking etc. She just showed her friend some chick's ******** and was like: "that's what I lose out too? She looks like shyt. wtf?"

Strong everything. Strong personality. Strong judgement. Cause looks are all that matters I guess.

Why am I in school on a friday night? Midterm prep.

TBH that's just jealousy and when jeralousy hits we do the same, how did that beatiful oneitis hbb pick that guy? I more handsomer, ****** cawk etc but maybe it's his personality do you know him? No you dont so stfu ******* and blow some homeless dudes for rent money faark.

[imbored21]

Most men just need a 5/10 woman to be happy. Women need an 8/10. Women are more shallow by far. It's not even close. Make a tinder and keep both genders on. See who you get more matches with. The results are astounding. You will match with thousands of times more men than women. That is not even taking to account that there are way more straight women than gay men.

[Silencespeaks]

and there you have it

Yeah I've been thinking it over lately. What's the point if there is no attraction? Don't you want attraction too?

[krazy33]

I agree they are more judgmental with looks..

Makes sense because theyve got pregnancy risk

But theyre also more attracted by personality

[MBisonSon]

Most men just need a 5/10 woman to be happy. Women need an 8/10. Women are more shallow by far. It's not even close. Make a tinder and keep both genders on. See who you get more matches with. The results are astounding. You will match with thousands of times more men than women. That is not even taking to account that there are way more straight women than gay men.

Gay men are often times super desperate and creepy.

Not really a fair comparison.

[DKM89]

Women judge men on things they have no control over... Hair, height, dick size.
Men mostly just judge if a girl is fat or not. If she's not and doesn't have some really messed up face, men are good to go

[CodyZellery]

This, way more shallow till they want to settle down and realize that top tier arent sticking around, so they choose a guy that will stay. That or they eventually just buy a lot of cats.

The majority literally couldn't care less about you, your well being, or personality.

This.

I'm thankful to the misc and the internet for teaching me how women really are. Will likely never marry.

[krazy33]

I think men just want to spread their seed more. Men are hornier, so theyll dip into the 5-10 range, maybe a tad lower depending on how long its been.

If women were judging SOLELY on looks scale i think they wouldnt dip below 9/10, but theyre far more influenced by other factors

[CodyZellery]

I am shallow af and I don't mind admitting it

Whats the point of having a bf if you can look at them without wants to rip all their clothes off?

But my girlfriends seem different to me. They say things like "I don't care about looks I just want them to take good care of me and be nice etc"

I can take care of myself so idk what gives

And she's a 5/10 at best boyos.

[HoustonMiscer]

You don't have to actually have a whole lot of money, you just have to make it look like you have a whole lot of money. It's all about illusions and making ppl believe certain things about you enough to get that foot in the door srs

[leoslayer1]

Outside those dumb fukk me now apps and social media and teenagehood what women find attractive in men is so far away from what men find attractive in men it's funny.

Misc vibe on height and hair is probably right though, although height is just taller than her by a few inches and hair is not quite as vicious. You guys love your chad vibe but too handsome is not attractive either. Decent features and not a wimp you can control is often enough

That's bullchit. Too handsome is bad. Why is that?

[Nicklol]

Yeah I've been thinking it over lately. What's the point if there is no attraction? Don't you want attraction too?

speaking for myself...

all I want is a loyal,honest partner.. doesnt have to look like a model or anything.. what I want is the companionship.

[leoslayer1]

Handsome is objective, you can find people aesthetically pleasing, they can tick all the boxes and still not do it for you

Handsome =/= sexually attractive

Now you're talking chemistry which is a different discussion but yes chemistry is most important.

I've had a 9 walk up to me and ask for sex at a party but I wasn't attracted to her. I had zero desire to bang her.

[alphamind]

It depends on the chick, but generally even if you have the good looks, you need to have the masculinity to back it up.

[Silencespeaks]

speaking for myself...

all I want is a loyal,honest partner.. doesnt have to look like a model or anything.. what I want is the companionship.

Don't you have some minimum requirements for looks or attraction? Would you date someone that you're not attracted to?

[_zman]

I don't think women are any more shallow than men.

Women are choosy more so than ever because the supply and access to men is at an all-time high. Just follow the misc. and you'll see how thirsty guys are as well.

Look at the positive aspects that men can possess: strength, charisma, finances, height, looks, status, personality, style, power, family wealth.

Now pick out the rarest positive traits: family wealth, power, height would be on the list, naturally this is what a woman is going to want. They aren't any more shallow than men. If men could be just as choosy they would.

I can date just about any girl I want, but now I date women with status and power and personality and looks because I know I can be choosy and so do most women.

[zizzfanatica]

has to do with how you where raised more than with gender, you can find good and bad people in both genders

[PeteJonesHTX]

Outside those dumb fukk me now apps and social media and teenagehood what women find attractive in men is so far away from what men find attractive in men it's funny.

Misc vibe on height and hair is probably right though, although height is just taller than her by a few inches and hair is not quite as vicious. You guys love your chad vibe but too handsome is not attractive either. Decent features and not a wimp you can control is often enough

What in the fck does this even mean...?

[iifymbro]

I don't think women are any more shallow than men.

Women are choosy more so than ever because the supply and access to men is at an all-time high. Just follow the misc. and you'll see how thirsty guys are as well.

Look at the positive aspects that men can possess: strength, charisma, finances, height, looks, status, personality, style, power, family wealth.

Now pick out the rarest positive traits: family wealth, power, height would be on the list, naturally this is what a woman is going to want. They aren't any more shallow than men. If men could be just as choosy they would.

I can date just about any girl I want, but now I date women with status and power and personality and looks because I know I can be choosy and so do most women.

Yeah but when you've got family wealth you don't tell sloots about it because then you'll never know if they are with you for love or just for the payoff.

[leoslayer1]

and there you have it

There you have nothing. She's supposed to date someone she's not attracted to?

[SwimLiftRunGrl]

A woman basically just has to take care of her appearance and have somewhat the ability to hold an interesting conversation - and for many men they don't even need that. But on the flipside women are way more shallow/fussy about a guys appearance, status, income etc. However these standards ease up as they age, but a young semi attractive+ female is the most shallow creature on Earth; but feminism will try persuade you it's the opposite.

Oh really? Last guy I dated is 5'9, bald, single father, A/R specialist and no degree. This was our first conversation:

Him: I am looking for a smart woman.
Him: what do you do?
Me: I'm a software engineer.

Ding, ding... I made his checklist and we were together for a year.

That is usually the first question I get asked by men. So... I guess men do need more than looks.

[leoslayer1]

speaking for myself...

all I want is a loyal,honest partner.. doesnt have to look like a model or anything.. what I want is the companionship.

That won't last boyo.

[1outof10beta]

Women are really shallow.

They also factor social dynamics in far more than men do.

For example men will ask a forum (like here) if they should bang a girl and post a pic of her but 9/10 if everyone said no they would anyway.

Women on the other hand will only date good looking men not only for their own shallow wants and desires but also to be the "it girl" who is dating "that guy". They do the same with money too.

Social media is making it worse because you can literally compare your date / bf / husband to chad right there on your screen infront of you. Not to mention people hardly interact anymore, I went to a shop today and had a 30 second wait at the front of the queue for the till because the cashier was too busy on her phone to serve me, I had to be rude to get her attention and ofcourse I got a foul look. Probably took a pic of me, I can see it now "This ugly **** expects me to serve him over looking at chads on pof.com *insert pic*. eugh

[MBisonSon]

The most common thing I see here is loser ass dudes trying to base reality on how online dating works.

Why am I not surprised?

Women like men with balls and yet we have bunch of guys here afraid to talk to women IRL using how picky women are online as a cope.

The underlying theme is GROW SOME BALLS.