Wow just hopped back on online dating...worse than I remember

[KMadigan777]

I know otaku was talking how bad it was, recently remade a profile of okc, and wow what trash. The girls are fatter and bish-ier than I remember. So many more are in 'open relationships' where the bf wants to watch his wife/gf get fuked and so on. Degenerate.

Meanwhile pickups that used to work are only met with cold attitudes or silence from sub 8 girls. Doubt I'll be on this chit for long. I see how it hurts the ego unnecessarily too.

[FU3L]

Meet women in real life and you'll have more success.

[TheJizzler]

Online dating is one of those things you grow out of


I logged on to my old OKC the other day - there were a few decent girls at the top of the match pile (hidden amongst all the green haired cat ladies), but it was amazing how many familiar faces were still on there four years later. Strong thousand-cawk stares on a couple of them...

[elterrible987]

I know otaku was talking how bad it was, recently remade a profile of okc, and wow what trash. The girls are fatter and bish-ier than I remember. So many more are in 'open relationships' where the bf wants to watch his wife/gf get fuked and so on. Degenerate.

Meanwhile pickups that used to work are only met with cold attitudes or silence from sub 8 girls. Doubt I'll be on this chit for long. I see how it hurts the ego unnecessarily too.

ill let you fuk my boyfriend op, PM me. I will watch in a closet jerking off, it will be like Im not even there.

[Theanine]

I know otaku was talking how bad it was, recently remade a profile of okc, and wow what trash. The girls are fatter and bish-ier than I remember. So many more are in 'open relationships' where the bf wants to watch his wife/gf get fuked and so on. Degenerate.

Meanwhile pickups that used to work are only met with cold attitudes or silence from sub 8 girls. Doubt I'll be on this chit for long. I see how it hurts the ego unnecessarily too.

Waste of time and frustrating. It's difficult to put yourself out there constantly, but it's the only way to meet decent women IMO. What has worked for me:

- social circle
- co-ed sports
- work (check policies)
- volunteering
- classes/school
- travelling

Das about it mane. It takes effort but a lot better than the cesspool that is online "time wasting" in 2017. Don't forget, 80% of the world is still a man's world. I suggest travelling if you need a perspective change.

[AWillis]

on badoo i saw girls with over 40,000 ratings. makes you wonder how many times they have been hit on, and how many guys they have rejected. and there are no good men out there supposedly

[azakdan2682]

Lol. Yeah it is bad. Was talking with a chick on POF, recently fired from Walmart, lives w/ Aunt, alchy, has a few sugar daddy's and told me it's cool if she fuks whoever. Good god it's ridiculous. Meeting women IRL gets tough at a certain age. My career field is about 95% males. Meeting women at bars is no better than online. What do you have left when you are done with school and no women in career? Hitting up women at the grocery store?

[azakdan2682]

Waste of time and frustrating. It's difficult to put yourself out there constantly, but it's the only way to meet decent women IMO. What has worked for me:

- social circle
- co-ed sports
- work (check policies)
- volunteering
- classes/school
- travelling

Das about it mane. It takes effort but a lot better than the cesspool that is online "time wasting" in 2017. Don't forget, 80% of the world is still a man's world. I suggest travelling if you need a perspective change.

I will have to try volunteer and co-ed sports. I agree travel is great, I have thought about moving to Germany, but I don't know how bad it is there now with all the refugees, visiting in 2 weeks, so will see.

[AWillis]

Lol. Yeah it is bad. Was talking with a chick on POF, recently fired from Walmart, lives w/ Aunt, alchy, has a few sugar daddy's and told me it's cool if she fuks whoever. Good god it's ridiculous. Meeting women IRL gets tough at a certain age. My career field is about 95% males. Meeting women at bars is no better than online. What do you have left when you are done with school and no women in career? Hitting up women at the grocery store?

friends, friends of friends. if your boys have bishes themselves, they should have single friends to set you up with

[SirHollywood]

This is a jaded online dating thread that is actually accurate.

The women on all of the apps/sites are honestly going far downhill. I think at 30, it's time to LDAR.

[azakdan2682]

This is a jaded online dating thread that is actually accurate.

The women on all of the apps/sites are honestly going far downhill. I think at 30, it's time to LDAR.

Only good thing is you can date younger, as long as you are attractive, stay in shape etc...but each year that passes the window gets smaller n smaller. I think you are right, if you haven't found a decent one by 30, likelihood of happening later is pretty slim.

[AWillis]

This is a jaded online dating thread that is actually accurate.

The women on all of the apps/sites are honestly going far downhill. I think at 30, it's time to LDAR.

it is shocking... one profile i read today on pof was. she is pregnant, already a mother of 2. is only interested in talking and nothing else, and apologies in advance for not answering all messages as she gets so many.

if a pregnant chick is getting flooded daily, guaranteed every other chick is. so sense of entitlement is through the roof

but we knew this already

[Theanine]

Only good thing is you can date younger, as long as you are attractive, stay in shape etc...but each year that passes the window gets smaller n smaller. I think you are right, if you haven't found a decent one by 30, likelihood of happening later is pretty slim.

Pretty much this. At my age though if you haven't found a decent woman or got out of a LTR you should have a backup plan and have applied yourself elsewhere. For myself, I make good money, have lots of savings and am intelligent, because I worked hard. Now I'm just not willing to give it away to some ratchet, after much growth and learning I've realized you just need to adapt and stay positive. Some of the happiest people are poor but have close family and community ties, something we've lost in the west.

Some men may never find the "one" but also realize that the world is still your oyster and there are tons of options, foreign living, adoption, start a business, learn a language, meet a foreign wife, quit a soul sucking job etc.

We live in a first world country, don't be afraid to step out into the unknown. Money and women won't make you happy, living the one life you have to the best of your ability is all you can do. The path is out there, find it and you'll find meaning and a purpose.

[DolphinPilot]

I'm not sure what possessed you to want to try online dating again, thinking anything has changed. The fact that any one of us can and does have better success in face-to-face interactions should be reason enough to leave it alone.

[azakdan2682]

Pretty much this. At my age though if you haven't found a decent woman or got out of a LTR you should have a backup plan and have applied yourself elsewhere. For myself, I make good money, have lots of savings and am intelligent, because I worked hard. Now I'm just not willing to give it away to some ratchet, after much growth and learning I've realized you just need to adapt and stay positive. Some of the happiest people are poor but have close family and community ties, something we've lost in the west.

Some men may never find the "one" but also realize that the world is still your oyster and there are tons of options, foreign living, adoption, start a business, learn a language, meet a foreign wife, quit a soul sucking job etc.

We live in a first world country, don't be afraid to step out into the unknown. Money and women won't make you happy, living the one life you have to the best of your ability is all you can do. The path is out there, find it and you'll find meaning and a purpose.

Agreed. I'm in that soul sucking job ATM. I like my career field, but it is very broad and the current assignment is not for me, plus I ha e had terrible leadership. Contemplating getting out of the military if I dont receive orders in the next year.

[Gosu14]

i only seem to be able to f**k girls from online. rarely am i having success with women i've met in person

[deadliftbrah19]

I hear from single women that online is awful now, too.

At least 3 have told me that their dates order 5+ drinks and get loud and obnoxious, one had a secret girlfriend in another city, and others just asked them to go to straight to his house. What 38 year old woman will just go to a stranger's house and risk getting beaten or killed?

These are women in their 30s and 40s, too, and going for men with similar ages.

That just sounds like a disaster to find a quality man or woman with this type of behavior.

[BZA85]

It's weird, I stopped online dating/Tinder/Bumble around last summer but at the time and prior to that I would at least get a few matches/dates fairly regularly, quality wasn't great and didn't lead to much, but at least there was something happening.

Tried again recently and the quality of women seems WAY down overall. There do seem to be some that are ok, but regardless can't get a match for the life of me. Same pics that used to get me matches, dunno what the deal is.

I'm sure part of it is I've become more picky, but that can't be the whole story.

I fluctuate between going on just looking for a quick smash, in which case I will swipe yes on sloots, and other times filtering them out because I am naively hoping for something more worthwhile - it's usually a pendulum swing from one to the other out of sheer despair at the lack of availability either way. Can't get laid. Can't get in relationship.

Either way, nothing.

TLR: dating apps ain't good fo chit

[reinsdorfsucks]

i only seem to be able to f**k girls from online. rarely am i having success with women i've met in person

If all you're looking to do is f**k girls then yeah the trash online should suit you just fine; but I don't think that's what this thread is about.

[Shizneen]

Waste of time and frustrating. It's difficult to put yourself out there constantly, but it's the only way to meet decent women IMO. What has worked for me:

- social circle
- co-ed sports
- work (check policies)
- volunteering
- classes/school
- travelling

Das about it mane. It takes effort but a lot better than the cesspool that is online "time wasting" in 2017. Don't forget, 80% of the world is still a man's world. I suggest travelling if you need a perspective change.

Social circle doesn't work when all of your male friends are single, except one and he's married to a sub-par women(fat as ****). College is good for sluts, but that's it. None are wife material.

[SwiftRick]

Tinder still works for me but I deleted it. Girls I meet on there cute but absolute trash. If I can get in their pants after meeting right away, I get them naked then I leave. SRS. Happened 4 times already.

At this point I've given up on finding anything meaningful. I have a fwb on call that I'll use when I need to nut. Other than that I am going to just do whatever.

My life might be too busy for a serious relationship anyways and I doubt it will slow down anytime soon.

[jotenko]

I hear from single women that online is awful now, too.

At least 3 have told me that their dates order 5+ drinks and get loud and obnoxious, one had a secret girlfriend in another city, and others just asked them to go to straight to his house. What 38 year old woman will just go to a stranger's house and risk getting beaten or killed?

These are women in their 30s and 40s, too, and going for men with similar ages.

That just sounds like a disaster to find a quality man or woman with this type of behavior.

I LOLd, woman. I LOLd.

[anonymous]

[deadliftbrah19]

I LOLd, woman. I LOLd.

I think both men and women agree that online dating is a nightmare, but once you are out of college, it's tough to meet people IRL.

[anonymous]

[JuicyJeff]

Online dating is horse chit. You have all these 4/10's thinking they should be dating Chads and won't give average to above average looking dudes a chance in hell

[KMadigan777]

Das about it mane. It takes effort but a lot better than the cesspool that is online "time wasting" in 2017. Don't forget, 80% of the world is still a man's world. I suggest travelling if you need a perspective change.

Ive heard that, it is really that insane in other countries?

Online dating is horse chit. You have all these 4/10's thinking they should be dating Chads and won't give average to above average looking dudes a chance in hell

The myspace angles are insane. Girls will have a cute face but then the rest of the pics are hambeasts pushing 200lbs.
'Curvy'

[CrimsonSteel]

I used to get laid with minimal, passive effort. Now it's just dried up entirely. Too much time investment is now required to make anything happen.

[KMadigan777]

It had been going downhill for years. But man in 6 months it is crazy. I could pull girls with simple copy pastes but now just pure silence or snarky responses. These are trashy girls in general too, like 4-6 and they think they are elite 9s.

[US_Ranger]

It had been going downhill for years. But man in 6 months it is crazy. I could pull girls with simple copy pastes but now just pure silence or snarky responses. These are trashy girls in general too, like 4-6 and they think they are elite 9s.

In 2014-2015, I used to meet some awesome women from online dating. I met a woman who I dated in 2016 as well and that was the last of anything even remotely decent. Since early 2016 I've not met one single decent woman and I probably went on 30-40 dates from online sources, and that's when I could even land a response.

Meanwhile, 30+ year old women who have 3 kids are telling me I'm not worth their time. Thirsty dudes are to blame. As I've said a million times, ask any chick who's a 4/10 or higher and she's getting hit up non-stop by dudes BEGGING for their time. It's disgusting. Absolutely disgusting.