Has Anyone Crawled Out Of A Larger Hole Than Me?

[Mattryan035]

Where should I go outside of the US? WHat about my loans? You are th efirst one to say 60k in moans will be a nightmare for someone with my income potential to pay off and no one else in this thread has said that.

" 60k in moans" Damn, you are addicted to porn. You need to have your mom cut your internet service off. Wasting your life by watching Porn is completely ****ing you up. Get any job available, that will help with your porn addiction since part of he reason you watch so much porn is all the free time you have at your disposal.

[xslick]

You better act quick. Your mother is 61. If something happened to her what are you gonna do? If you're homeless, there's no food to eat and no pron to fap to. Also you're a piece of chit for not working so that your mom could retire and relax the rest of her days.

[IntroBrah]

I am addicted to porn and fapping and looking at women with glow on the misc. I fap 5 times a day and look at porn/porn gifs hours on end.


I am a virgin and never had a girlfriend. I have no friends and am a FA.

I am 5'9'' and weigh 275 pounds.

Here lies the biggest problem I saw itt, everything else is secondary. like others have said, fix your self issues first.

The debt, relationships and everything else will fall into place. if you dont want to help yourself though then stop bitching and go fuk off lol

[keithsweatshirt]

[JtotheIzzo]

Shut up you little fukwit. You just keep it down and follow the advice.

Pretty sure they have an alternate method to go by "BMI" or measurements or something. You can probably get in if you get down to like 230-240lbs.

Just guessing. Military bros chime in please?

No you can't you fukking idiot. I spoke to a recruiter and he told me I need to get my weight down to 180 lbs. Yeah you are just guessing because you are talking out of your ass and don't know **** about the military.

[PisseninMisc]

No you can't you fukking idiot. I spoke to a recruiter and he told me I need to get my weight down to 180 lbs. Yeah you are just guessing because you are talking out of your ass and don't know **** about the military.

Look you fat little bitch, I'm not the one here asking advice. Shut your mouth and humble yourself. If you've already spoken to a recruiter then why the fk are you still 275lbs? What do you have to say for yourself?

[JtotheIzzo]

Look you fat little bitch, I'm not the one here asking advice. Shut your mouth and humble yourself. If you've already spoken to a recruiter then why the fk are you still 275lbs? What do you have to say for yourself?

I spoke to a recruiter a week ago. It takes longer than a week to lose 95 pounds.

[PoundMobb]

60k? That's not even bad. AND your mommy is paying your bills....what a pussy you are.

[trufflepigg]

the only problem I can relate to is credit card debt, and the real issue with that was that I had a low paying job.

basically out of uni I racked up about 30k in debt from credit cards / Line of credit / taxes owing

Once I got a steady job and could budget myself, I did a debt consolidation of everything into one account, on a 5 year payment plan of $500 a month, and right now I have 2 years left and 20k in the bank in cash, I also bought a house this year and a truck 2 years ago. Have no idea how this even happened, I honestly thought I'd be in debt forever 3 years ago, and would never own anything of value lol

[JtotheIzzo]

60k? That's not even bad. AND your mommy is paying your bills....what a pussy you are.

60k is bad. Once I get a job she said I have to pay/help with bills.

[LexBrah]

you could make it, but you wont.

[gtg]

motivation for op

[UTSoccerbro]

Nikka I just paid off a $25k debt in the past 7 months alone working at a damn gym.

Last year at this time I was in in-patient hospitalization for depression/suicide/eating disorder (hence the 25k debt).

Total debts were over 50k, cut that the less than 20 now in under a year.

Moved across country and started a new life a month ago in NJ (yeah yeah I know I dun goofed with the location) because I wanted to be with my girlfriend and help her family out.

Get your chit together and take control of your life.

[JtotheIzzo]

motivation for op

how did he get a woman like that? srs

I look like this, could I attract her?

[gtg]

how did he get a woman like that? srs

I look like this, could I attract her?

fantasy feeder man



google lol

[GriecoR]

Hope this is a troll thread because you legit sound like a massive loser lol. How have you not worked before you lazy kunt? I'd be to embarrassed to be alive if I was in your situation. No hate but it sounds like this was all by choice.

[yoxnick]

pics of 61 year old mother?

still waiting op




anyways, you need to turn into a fvkn beast, get a job, and turn your chit around. Its all in your head. Fvk fate. Go beast mode and get everything in life that you deserve/want

[Ozzieturk]

Yes, this (Big) guy did OP:

[UnflappedAcorn]

I spoke to a recruiter a week ago. It takes longer than a week to lose 95 pounds.

If flapjacko can be a physician, you can turn your life around too brah

[DesiredUserphag]

If I do make it won't it be a testament to human greatness? I'm serious not trying to bullshyt, though I don't really believe in myself that I can.

If you think you won't make it then you won't. Change your mindset brah

[Xoer]

Hello man just realise that we are all here because of random events that happened in the universe

Just don't give a fuk, start training, focus on your career and eating right and ignore everyone else.

I quited so many things because of others' opinion, but this time I'd rather die than not achieve the vision that I have.

you ARE going to make it

and stop being a little fukin btch and telling us that you just fapped to p0rn or ate 20 pizzas. Looking for pitty is the most disgusting thing one can do, now gtfo your ass and do something

I was looking for pitty when I started aswell, and even though I'm not happy with my progress atleast im trying, you should do the same.

good luck

[shotgun85]

stop your porn addiction and fapping first. excessive fapping makes u weak and tired and sucks out all of your energy and motivation. true that.

[Flapjacko]

I ran away from my debt by going to med school.

[JtotheIzzo]

I ran away from my debt by going to med school.

How can I do what you do considering my situation? How can I go to medical school?

[JtotheIzzo]

Ballr4Life

Why did you delete your post you made in this thread? You have a habit of deleting posts you make in my threads. Yeah you want to give advice and jut back trap and delete it. Nothing but a passive agrressive stance you're taking. I really don't want any fukking advice from you at this point and would neg your post if it was still here. You think I'm a loser deep down and don't care if I succeed or not, at least you're honest about it.

Here is your post you decided to delete for no fukkking reason:

You realize you've made this thread many times right?

Are you looking for someone to finally tell you that you "CAN'T" make it?

And in one of these threads before, I've told you about smaller "wins" you can do to make it. Myself, and I'm sure MANY other miscers have PM'd you to tell you how to turn your life around. When you look at the big picture instantly, yeah it seems insurmountable "FOR YOU". I don't think it's as big of a hole you think it is at all. I've actually even PM'd you before, MULTIPLE FUKING TIMES, and you ignored.

So it's real simple. And I want to make this as simple as possible for you, because clearly you're way too concerned reading about greatness by looking at Richard Nixon, Arnie, etc, etc. It's great that you're passionate, but you need to realize 2 key things:

1. You either start TOMORROW
2. You're fuked. Your whole life will be a complete failure


So once you've picked whichever option you want, here's what you do. You start with small wins. Why? Becuase for the past 2 decades you've probably had ZERO wins at all. So lets get some wins under your belt, get a little bit of progress, get some legitimate progress.


These are very simple:

1. Eat right, lose your weight
2. Stop watching porn. This means zero porn. This will be hard for you. It should be
3. Wake up at 6am every day, 11pm bed every night


Do this for a week before worrying about anything else. Then slowly build. You've shown you can't even DO THIS. You can, but you don't want to. And you don't want to because you simply don't realize you only have TWO FUKING CHOICES. Don't fuking PM me, don't fuking PM others, until you can do this for 7 fuking days. Do this for 7 days and then come back and re-evaluate what you want in life. This is bare bones minimum stuff here, and you can easily do it. You just have to want to do it, and then ACTUALLY FUKING DO IT.

Once again, look at your two choices. Then pick which one you want. At that point what you have to do is very simple. It won't be easy, but it's simple



EDIT:

At the end of the day, what you really want is a short cut. You know deep down what to do, you probably even know how to do it. But you don't want to do the work, hence your mental masturbation, your biography reading, your laziness, your victim complex, your desperation for a short cut.

You have to do the work. That's really all it comes down to

[WestAfrica]

I spoke to a recruiter a week ago. It takes longer than a week to lose 95 pounds.

Lol

[DcupBrah]

never thought i'd say this but


you need god.

[xvicknumber7x]

we are harsh with you because you're a troll. you've been here for 8 years and been posting the same stuff for 8 years. you aren't going to make it, it's that simple.

[sword_]

Man you've been here for years and have not made ANY attempts to change your life and your situation. You've had the same physique, same problems, same woes since I've known you on here. We can give you all the positive affirmation you want and more, but you ultimately have to take the initiative.

As far as career dude, in 2009 I was working at a job paying me $37,500 a year. It was not in my field. It was just tech support but prior to that I was a sales engineer for a start up and using my linux skills, but the company lost significant funding so I had to find a job elsewhere.

So at this small job in Atlanta I HATED it. I wasn't even there for a year. Something was up when they asked me "did you use your vacation time" more than once. Well 10 months later I lost my job and was deemed "not the right fit". It pissed me off.

I was out of a job for 14 months until I decided to move to Texas for a job out here. I LITERALLY packed my car and drive 1000 miles to start my new life BY MYSELF. Started at $45K but I could get a 5K profit sharing bonus that year and they gave me 4K for a relocation fee.

I was seeing this girl in Atlanta and admist all of this transition in my life I got her pregnant. I lost over 20 pounds being depressed, frustrated about it. I moved. She didn't have the kid, we broke up. We had a long distance relationship until a year later when she broke my heart.

Anyway I used all that negative energy, the fact that I was alone in a place I hated, that I felt I wasn't making what I deserved and channeled that into my career. Even around late 2012 I got passed up for a promotion which pissed me off but I later redeemed myself and got a 10K raise.

I kept improving myself and my career. I had debt like anyone else. I bought a car and my aunt helped me finance it. I had college loans that defaulted. Bad credit. I improved that to now a 760 - 780 score.

I was lifting, I got into martial arts. I didn't feel sorry for myself and I was HUNGRY.

Dude I'm 32 now soon to be 33 and I took a job in February that I make $120,000 a year. I pretty much succeeded some of my mentors and peers at my last company. I'm always going to stay hungry. I remember when I was depressed in my mid 20s I was frustrated because I failed the expectations of myself and my parents. I was angry and sad. I transformed that in order to be a better person. You have that power too.

[IanPhelps]

wow thanks for making me feel good about myself