Am I doing the right thing?

[victoria92maj]

I met this guy a couple of weeks ago when I was out. We hit it off. He wasn't too flirty, and kind of made me wanting more. He would randomly look at me and stop talking and kind of giggle and smile so much and look on the ground. Then look at me again and say something else. We were takin about a male bartender because he was douchy and I was looking at the guy. He got a tiny bit jealous and said to stop looking at him. I He's not much of a texter, so I don't bother him. i understand because I suck at texting. Sometimes he'll take hours or days to reply or always randomly text me saying something totally random. I get busy too, so sometimes I can't reply right away. I also will admit, I play with his game and sometimes ignore him. He texted me earlier this morning and I ignored it because I was busy at work. Then he texted me like a couple of hours ago and I ignored it, and 20 mins later he called me. I ignored that, and he called again right after. I picked up and we talked for like 5 mins and he was being extremely talkative. I was tired so I was quiet. He was talking and I then I told him I was tired and was going to sleep. So then he changed his tone a voice and seemed upset, but just said okay. I kind of want him to chase me a LITTLE, so I can make him know I'm worth it. He lives 40 mins away and he wants to chill with me this Friday. I told him maybe. He reminds me of my ex. My ex use to do the same things he would do in the beginning. But then my ex started being more "emotional attached" and wanted more contact.

I do like him but I want him to know I'm not easy and he needs to work for me


Cliffs:
-Met guy couple of weeks ago
-flirted, but not to much
-although he had one jealous moment
-We text, but we take Awhile to get back to each other. Mostly me.
-he told me last week he's bad with texting and more social in person. Which he was a lot more talkative
-didn't reply to his text from yesterday or today, and he calls me. I ignore. Calls again and we talk for 5 mins and he is extremely talkative. I tell him I'm tired, and he sounds upset.

[defnotjeremy]

I met a guy that I sorta was into as well
Almost exact same situation, except I didn't purposely ignore/stall texts, I just rlly am a dry texter and my attention span is low when it comes to texting/phone related things (it's a lot easier to talk/chill in person to me)
He continued trying for a few days then I guess he gave up cause he hasn't hmu since, despite messaging regularly to try to meet up again soon
point is, don't play this game brah, they get bored of being too hard to get too

[victoria92maj]

I met a guy that I sorta was into as well
Almost exact same situation, except I didn't purposely ignore/stall texts, I just rlly am a dry texter and my attention span is low when it comes to texting/phone related things (it's a lot easier to talk/chill in person to me)
He continued trying for a few days then I guess he gave up cause he hasn't hmu since, despite messaging regularly to try to meet up again soon
point is, don't play this game brah, they get bored of being too hard to get too

Thank you girl
I won't play too hard, I just like him
I'm scared

[defnotjeremy]

Thank you girl
I won't play too hard, I just like him
I'm scared

Well he clearly is into you, don't overthink it, don't play games when you're already in
but it is still kinda fun to sometimes

[Fozzy13]

you obviously dont liek him enough to want to talk to him.

Just stfu...ur a grown ass woman..quit playing games like this is HS you retard

[ocill88]

op your lucky the guy even hung around for a couple of weeks.

[DolphinPilot]

you obviously dont liek him enough to want to talk to him.

Just stfu...ur a grown ass woman..quit playing games like this is HS you retard

All of this.

checking out another guy while talking to a guy.
purposely ignoring his calls and texts.
being dismissive towards him when you do talk to him.
BRB I want him to chase me!

Give him something worth chasing, you stupid.

[sickh11]

Go NC

[gtg]

[Hoop_Dreams]

"Am I doing the right thing?"

If a chick ignored my texts/phone call, I'd assume she's not interested/talking to other guys and move on.

So you can continue this playing hard to get bullshyt, but a quality guy with options isn't going to chase after you.

[limitlessky]

My ADHD got 10x worse after trying to make sense of what you are saying .

[zinkhan99]

Female logic and unnecessary games at its finest.

[MISCDASIT]

That chasing **** doesn't work with any modern man with self respect. If he's a possessive or beta orbiter then play hard to get all you want, good luck with that.

If some chick gives me mixed signals acting like she deserves for me to go out of my way for a mutual relationship then it's on to the next... Get some confidence and keep it natural, no BS. If he's compatible in personality and in goals it will work. If he isn't then you can't force him to believe that "you're worth it" by playing games.

[AndroMuscle]

Maybe you could wear something super sexy next time you meet him....what do you think you would wear?

[Daz206]

you stupid idiot if you're interested show some fukking interest instead of your stupid illogical mind games and negged

[Tune5k]

he calls me. I ignore. Calls again and we talk for 5 mins and he is

didn't read anything really much except scanned thread and saw this.

please do yourself favor and tell this poor sap you're not interested

or if you are, tell him. playing games is for children. i would go straight NC on your ass for life if I knew you ignored my call, dead srs.

[Flapjacko]

OP id fuk the sht out of you so hard your pussy juice will turn to concrete.

[sickh11]

[DoubleLifts]

This must be troll.

lul I

[Boerdeur]

but are you worth it though op?

if you like the guy fkkin tell him or make it obvious. it doesnt make you "easy" unless you show it by sucking his cawk.

[phaggotron5000]

Das not it mane.

[ancientslayers]

You're busy trying to play stupid mind games with him.

Meanwhile, he doesn't even notice or care, and is mass texting and calling girls to try to add to his rotation of sloots.

[SirFapsAIot]

I met this guy a couple of weeks ago when I was out. We hit it off. He wasn't too flirty, and kind of made me wanting more. He would randomly look at me and stop talking and kind of giggle and smile so much and look on the ground. Then look at me again and say something else. We were takin about a male bartender because he was douchy and I was looking at the guy. He got a tiny bit jealous and said to stop looking at him. I He's not much of a texter, so I don't bother him. i understand because I suck at texting. Sometimes he'll take hours or days to reply or always randomly text me saying something totally random. I get busy too, so sometimes I can't reply right away. I also will admit, I play with his game and sometimes ignore him. He texted me earlier this morning and I ignored it because I was busy at work. Then he texted me like a couple of hours ago and I ignored it, and 20 mins later he called me. I ignored that, and he called again right after. I picked up and we talked for like 5 mins and he was being extremely talkative. I was tired so I was quiet. He was talking and I then I told him I was tired and was going to sleep. So then he changed his tone a voice and seemed upset, but just said okay. I kind of want him to chase me a LITTLE, so I can make him know I'm worth it. He lives 40 mins away and he wants to chill with me this Friday. I told him maybe. He reminds me of my ex. My ex use to do the same things he would do in the beginning. But then my ex started being more "emotional attached" and wanted more contact.

I do like him but I want him to know I'm not easy and he needs to work for me


Cliffs:
-Met guy couple of weeks ago
-flirted, but not to much
-although he had one jealous moment
-We text, but we take Awhile to get back to each other. Mostly me.
-he told me last week he's bad with texting and more social in person. Which he was a lot more talkative
-didn't reply to his text from yesterday or today, and he calls me. I ignore. Calls again and we talk for 5 mins and he is extremely talkative. I tell him I'm tired, and he sounds upset.

[Land_Down_Under]

Wtf with the games. Like others have said I would go nc n move on. Ain't got time for u ignoring my calls.

[mischman]

I met this guy a couple of weeks ago when I was out. We hit it off. He wasn't too flirty, and kind of made me wanting more. He would randomly look at me and stop talking and kind of giggle and smile so much and look on the ground. Then look at me again and say something else. We were takin about a male bartender because he was douchy and I was looking at the guy. He got a tiny bit jealous and said to stop looking at him. I He's not much of a texter, so I don't bother him. i understand because I suck at texting. Sometimes he'll take hours or days to reply or always randomly text me saying something totally random. I get busy too, so sometimes I can't reply right away. I also will admit, I play with his game and sometimes ignore him. He texted me earlier this morning and I ignored it because I was busy at work. Then he texted me like a couple of hours ago and I ignored it, and 20 mins later he called me. I ignored that, and he called again right after. I picked up and we talked for like 5 mins and he was being extremely talkative. I was tired so I was quiet. He was talking and I then I told him I was tired and was going to sleep. So then he changed his tone a voice and seemed upset, but just said okay. I kind of want him to chase me a LITTLE, so I can make him know I'm worth it. He lives 40 mins away and he wants to chill with me this Friday. I told him maybe. He reminds me of my ex. My ex use to do the same things he would do in the beginning. But then my ex started being more "emotional attached" and wanted more contact.

I do like him but I want him to know I'm not easy and he needs to work for me


Cliffs:
-Met guy couple of weeks ago
-flirted, but not to much
-although he had one jealous moment
-We text, but we take Awhile to get back to each other. Mostly me.
-he told me last week he's bad with texting and more social in person. Which he was a lot more talkative
-didn't reply to his text from yesterday or today, and he calls me. I ignore. Calls again and we talk for 5 mins and he is extremely talkative. I tell him I'm tired, and he sounds upset.

No self-respecting man will take you seriously with your childish games. You want a chance with this guy but your best method of making it work is..."I IGNORE HIM"

He'll soon get the picture that you're not really interested and move on to someone more worth his time and effort.....if he knows what's good for him.

[Kurial]

Just wait for him to go NC

[Highwind7]

tub o' lard pics

it's his thyroid

[JUGGERNAUT1333]

I would have been NC on you awhile ago. I don't play those childish games.

You're lucky he's still sticking around.

[Tongyo]

Kinda hope he never tries to contact you again tbh

[Deezenutz]

you obviously dont liek him enough to want to talk to him.

Just stfu...ur a grown ass woman..quit playing games like this is HS you retard

This. U sound like a kunt op.