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07-27-2016, 09:45 AM #31
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07-27-2016, 09:46 AM #32
kinda retarded comment bro..
how about living with them and get to know who they really are before marrying them? you dont know the girl until u live with her, srs. the dynamic and everyday life changes dramatically.
also, at OP: been with her for two months, already want her to live with you? wtf bro, wait atleast 9 months or something. get to know her before making such dramatic choicesActual viking crew
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07-27-2016, 09:48 AM #33
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07-27-2016, 09:53 AM #34
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07-27-2016, 09:54 AM #35
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07-27-2016, 09:58 AM #36
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07-27-2016, 09:59 AM #37
Just to clarify, my comment was NOT in reply to OP; it was for fj123's comment that I quoted.
OP should definitely not be moving in with girls after two months.
I stand by my comment that if you plan on marriage, you should live together for a year or so beforehand.
Visiting for long weekends is not nearly the same thing.
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07-27-2016, 10:01 AM #38
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07-27-2016, 10:01 AM #39
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07-27-2016, 10:02 AM #40
Moving in with a broad after 2 months is a terrible idea. Also if you are now losing interest, then you would have anyways eventually.
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07-27-2016, 10:03 AM #41
Buy Carlos and the cats more goodies and dump.her (dead srs)
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07-27-2016, 10:06 AM #42
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07-27-2016, 10:07 AM #43
She doesn't want to live in a flat world with you. She wants to live in round sphere with Jamal and Tyrone.
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07-27-2016, 10:08 AM #44
Isn't this the lady who doesn't feel comfortable with you face timing with Carlos?
And who doesn't even know about your eleven cats?
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Don't do it.
She doesn't seem to appreciate your cats and they got the older rights.
Your cats do depend on you and they will be loyal at all times.
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07-27-2016, 10:11 AM #45
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07-27-2016, 10:11 AM #46
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07-27-2016, 10:12 AM #47
You losing interest is a cope so that you won't feel more hurt. Living 70 miles apart in la is like living 2 and a half hours apart one way. Round trip it a 4-5 hour drive
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07-27-2016, 10:13 AM #48
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07-27-2016, 10:14 AM #49
Honestly this. The whole thing with her bday seemed a bit sketch to begin with (regardless of whether she was being dishonest with you or not, there's clearly some trust issues there, and perhaps dishonesty too). Now you're having second thoughts etc.
It's only been 2 months. If any red flags show up before like the 6 month mark of a relationship, it's time to get your ass outta there. It'll only be harder later down the line.
Find a new girl and get your cats some goodies like dis guy said.
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07-27-2016, 10:18 AM #50
Dude you are a fukin desperate mess of a man.
- picked gf up naked in a parking lot
- gf goes to Vegas without him to "take kid to the aquarium"
- doesn't want to move in w you
-you're trying to move in w her after 2 months
- you were begging that crazy girl miscer to move in with you about 2 months ago
Wtf bro? Why are you so fukin weird and desperate? Strong cuckoldBald head scallywag
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07-27-2016, 10:25 AM #51
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07-27-2016, 10:28 AM #52
That's fair. I agree that OP shouldn't live with his GF just after 2 months. Even though i did the same thing.
I lived with my wife for years before getting married. It didn't work out. It was horrible and hell for both us. I am not a person that says "I would change or that in the past". It happened. I moved on and learned from my mistakes. We broke up, got back together.
The problem with divorces and marriages. Isn't that you didn't test drive your spouse for a year before hand. It's that the standard of marriage is destroyed. People don't take that marriage vow seriously anymore. I know of marriages that divorce even though they lived with each other past 3 years before getting married. And some that survive.
So that is why I don't recommend test driving the marriage. But build a strong and reinforced standard for marriage itself.Last edited by ppself; 07-27-2016 at 10:42 AM.
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07-27-2016, 10:29 AM #53
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07-27-2016, 10:36 AM #54
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07-27-2016, 10:36 AM #55
Obviously this circumstance is a bit different, since she's moving back with family. But have all you guys who say "don't move in before two years" taken cost into consideration?
Each pay 1200-1500/mo rent
Each pay $300-500/mo utilities
Cost of gas to visit each other all the time
vs splitting those costs and saving possibly $40k over the course of two years.
If you think the relationship has a good chance of being long term or leading to marriage, dragging out the decision to move in seems sort of silly480s / 370b / 495d / 235 x 2 SOHP
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07-27-2016, 10:45 AM #56
When deciding if you and a GF should move in together cost should NEVER be part of the equation.
Its about if you both are at a stage where you actually expect to be together for a LONG time, and 2 months is no where near enough time to know if you want that yet.
I dont care how much money it would save me, think about how much you would spend if you broke up in a month. Breaking the lease, moving again, finding a new place blah blah blah.
You loosing interest is your own self telling you she isnt worth keeping if it means you have to put in a decent effort to be with her. If she isnt worth you taking the time and money to see her over the distance why the hell would you want to move in with her?
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07-27-2016, 10:46 AM #57
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07-27-2016, 10:52 AM #58
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07-27-2016, 11:07 AM #59
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07-27-2016, 11:10 AM #60
is this a roll bread or is OP really this autistic ?
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