Cliffs:
-Been dating 2 months
-Both of our leases are up next month
-Things are going great, I asked if she wants to get a place together
-Right now we live 70 miles apart, I wanted to split the difference. Would have added 30 minutes to my commute, 15 to hers
-She decided to move back in with her family to save money for down payment on a house instead
I get it... We haven't been dating that long, and she's being responsible. But that means we're still gonna be living an hour and a half away from each other. Long term, there is no fuarking way that works. And now I need to decide between getting a place close to my job, or somewhat more her direction.
Das not it mane. Sort of feel "meh" about it now.
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07-27-2016, 09:04 AM #1Catbrah
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Sort of losing interest after GF decided she doesn't want to move in yet.
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07-27-2016, 09:06 AM #2Unregistered User
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brah you're trying to move in with your GF of 2 months? Das not it maneOriginally Posted by LinuxJon
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07-27-2016, 09:06 AM #3Banned
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whats wrong brah? having second thoughts on all your marriage BS you were posting in the other thread?
lol remember brah the only loyal puzzyz u ever will have are those cats you live with because these hoes aint loyal bro...perfect example here she doesnt wanna move in an commit to you because she has c0ck shes riding in her city she cant let go
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07-27-2016, 09:07 AM #4DONTRAY
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An hour and a half away. Cot damn..
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07-27-2016, 09:07 AM #5Registered User
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move on OP
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07-27-2016, 09:07 AM #6down to 2 bellies
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Would not be hauling all my **** in the opposite direction to my job for a chick I've been banging for 8 weeks.
8 months perhaps.
What's the shortest you can renew your lease for? Renew for 6 months then reassess?
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07-27-2016, 09:08 AM #7Baby Boyz
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didnt she have a birthday party with tyrone and jamal and completely go NC on you for like a day? Why are you still with this bish?
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07-27-2016, 09:08 AM #8Registered User
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Is this the same "GF" you picked up naked at a parking lot? Catbrah plz...
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07-27-2016, 09:08 AM #9Suh dude aha
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go NC, shes not that crazy about being with you (srs) else she would've jumped at the chance.
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07-27-2016, 09:08 AM #10Certified jawstethics
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2 months, bro. Don't even think about moving in. And don't even think about moving closer to her.
Get some sense into your head.
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07-27-2016, 09:08 AM #11Registered Miscer
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I don't blame her. I wouldn't want to live with 350 cats either.
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07-27-2016, 09:09 AM #121 Mile 2 Mile 3 Mile FOUR
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07-27-2016, 09:09 AM #13Registered User
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07-27-2016, 09:09 AM #14Ego-driven Masochist
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this... too soon, man. regardless of current distance.Originally Posted by jlick
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07-27-2016, 09:10 AM #15Registered Sex Offender
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07-27-2016, 09:14 AM #16worst poster on the misc
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07-27-2016, 09:15 AM #17Registered User
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Why the **** are you considering moving in with a girl you consider "meh?"
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07-27-2016, 09:16 AM #18Registered User
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Well first of all you should've confirmed whether she believed in dinosaurs or China. If she does, then you wouldn't want to be living with a retard anywayOriginally Posted by LinuxJon
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07-27-2016, 09:19 AM #19Preston pls
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70 miles apart....?
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07-27-2016, 09:20 AM #20Trance Brah
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No fukking thanks. She's right in this case.
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07-27-2016, 09:20 AM #21
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07-27-2016, 09:25 AM #22Registered Abuser
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How long have you guys been dating?
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07-27-2016, 09:27 AM #23Registered User
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Lol @ moving in w/ a girl after 2 months.
She prob doesn't want to live in a apt covered in cat piss and hair. Like every other sane person on the planet.
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07-27-2016, 09:28 AM #24drink more water
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why would anyone want to live with you and 500 cats jon?
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07-27-2016, 09:34 AM #25R[̲̅ə̲̅٨̲̅٥̲̅٦̲̅]ution
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I agree and disagree with this.Originally Posted by Brian0602
I lived with my wife for years before getting married. It was hell for both of us. Relationships are different when you are just dating and living together. Because you are trying to act married and act like dating BF & GF couples. Which the rules and standards are different for both relationships. Big time. It makes it worse when you both are not on the same page.
I really recommend just being with your GF as much as possible to see if you work out. Maybe spend weekends staying with each other, or a week vacation periodically.
I've watched plenty of Judge Judy to know that moving in with your GF after 2 months of dating is a bad idea. Even though I did the same and me and my wife still stuck together through it all."Don't be envious when the grass is greener on the other side because you don't know how much crap it took to fertilize that ground.�
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07-27-2016, 09:37 AM #26this thoOriginally Posted by EnforcerOTF
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07-27-2016, 09:38 AM #27Banned
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I'd never live with a woman I wasn't married too. No way I'm dealing with their drama before I have too. People need their own space OP. Slow down on moving in together. Maybe you can do it in a year instead.
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07-27-2016, 09:40 AM #28Biomed Brah
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07-27-2016, 09:42 AM #29Registered User
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She made the smart decision, you know nothing about a person after 2 months. She probably just doesn't wanna deal with the smell of cat chit constantly
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07-27-2016, 09:42 AM #30No Pain No Gain
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Your so insecure about this girl, and could barely trust her at a party. 2 months is way too soon to move in with someone.
Maybe 2+ years and I would understand this post
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