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    Originally Posted by ugottabjoshinme View Post
    Holy fuk. How does it feel being a 35 year old dude picking up a 20 year old from her parents house?

    I can't even imagine how you can be close to the same level mentally to have a real relationship. Her hiding a kid from you makes sense because she hasn't even matured into an adult yet.
    Looking at your stats, I'm assuming you're not a bitter older woman that lost her glow. Why the hate, bruh?
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    Originally Posted by ugottabjoshinme View Post
    Holy fuk. How does it feel being a 35 year old dude picking up a 20 year old from her parents house?

    I can't even imagine how you can be close to the same level mentally to have a real relationship. Her hiding a kid from you makes sense because she hasn't even matured into an adult yet.
    Strong brainwashing bro.
    Much older guy & younger girl is the natural order of things. The feminists got to you.

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    Holy fuk OP has issues lol. Trying to date a damn 20 yr old that would hide a child? Jesus some people on this forum are hopeless. She hasn't even hit the prime sloot it up years...and will certainly be hiding that from you.

    Feels after 3 mos? Yet claims to slay all this young py.

    No hate at all, smashed a 21 yr community college soccer player...body was fresh. However, I would never ever imagine dating. Like said above, they are dumb, broke and priorities are nowhere near where a grown mans should be.
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    Oh wait. Are you the guy with the hair transplant?

    If so, it all makes sense now. Carry on.
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    Originally Posted by SF49ers View Post
    Oh wait. Are you the guy with the hair transplant?

    If so, it all makes sense now. Carry on.
    Yeah I didn't think it was relevant to the discussion, but that is the case. I went from looking like a **** to looking like a handsome ****.


    Well I just texted her saying I discovered on FB that she has a kid. Again, this whole situation is mind boggling - we've been virtually inseparable for two months, and no mention of a kid at home.

    Just waiting to see what her response is, then it'll be time to block and move on
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    do they keep the child in the basement or attic?
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    Originally Posted by LurkoLantern View Post
    Yeah I didn't think it was relevant to the discussion, but that is the case. I went from looking like a **** to looking like a handsome ****.


    Well I just texted her saying I discovered on FB that she has a kid. Again, this whole situation is mind boggling - we've been virtually inseparable for two months, and no mention of a kid at home.

    Just waiting to see what her response is, then it'll be time to block and move on

    I anticipate her putting you in your place and reminding you that you didn't 'discover' anything since it is plastered all over her social media. You keep acting like she is posting up that she has a kid on some secretive board meant to be hidden from you like some big secret. It's fukkin ******** you dinosaur. She probably never would have thought that you were such an inept luddite that you hadn't looked at her social media.
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    dating chicks 19-22 is immensely enjoyable.
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    Originally Posted by ragingcrayon View Post
    35 y/o male who likes 19-27 female crew
    Congrats,

    you're still a normal, healthy man.

    Lol at cucks thinking you need to marry a female your age.
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    Originally Posted by alphafreak View Post
    Why am I not shocked that a manlet cuck would try to give dumb advice, if your girlfriend has a kid never once mentioned it and dump it on her family why would you give her time she already had all the time in the world to come clean.
    Hey chit head, you do understand this dude is a complete stranger and has no real relevancy to your life, whatsoever?? Not everything needs to be taken personally and until a few hours ago, the OP never clarified how it all went down. Jezuz. Some of you need to chill the fuk out and remind yourself there's bigger chit in the world than this dudes issues, he created himself.
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    Originally Posted by MrAWatts View Post
    I anticipate her putting you in your place and reminding you that you didn't 'discover' anything since it is plastered all over her social media. You keep acting like she is posting up that she has a kid on some secretive board meant to be hidden from you like some big secret. It's fukkin ******** you dinosaur. She probably never would have thought that you were such an inept luddite that you hadn't looked at her social media.
    I completely agree with what you're saying, but if you're dating a chick who has a kid for 3 months and she NEVER once mentions the kid or anything, that's odd. The fact that it's plastered on ******** tells me she would be just as open about it in her real life, especially towards someone she (presumably) has feelings for and wants to be in a relationship with.

    Regardless though, you're right. OP didn't just discover some deep dark secret the world had never known. Anyone with fingers could have found her ******** and known.






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    Originally Posted by LurkoLantern View Post
    Yeah I didn't think it was relevant to the discussion, but that is the case. I went from looking like a **** to looking like a handsome ****.


    Well I just texted her saying I discovered on FB that she has a kid. Again, this whole situation is mind boggling - we've been virtually inseparable for two months, and no mention of a kid at home.

    Just waiting to see what her response is, then it'll be time to block and move on
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    OP, you realize that you are around the same age as her parents right? If she had a kid at 16, then it's likely HER mom had her around the same age.

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    Cucks gone cucks?

    Sounds like this saying is true. What some sl00t posted on FB, and OP is proving that point. lol

    LOL, not true. There are tons on women out there that focused on their careers and are in the 24-32 yo range that don't have kids.

    Originally Posted by LurkoLantern View Post
    Yeah I didn't think it was relevant to the discussion, but that is the case. I went from looking like a **** to looking like a handsome ****.
    WTF, how old are you OP?

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    Originally Posted by Cuchulainn View Post
    Saw your post. Had an ex GF do something similar.

    After 6 months of dating she drops the following on me:
    1. She has been divorced before.
    2. She has a child, but not from the marriage.
    3. She has given full custody of the child to her parents. She wants custody back but her parents renged on their agreement and won't give him back, so they basically control her. They have their own Church and interpret the Bible in a way that only suits them. They don't send her son to school or let him have friends because 'friends are bad influences'.

    About 6 months into the relationship she dropped that she has herpes but didn't want to tell me because she was embarrassed. We had been hooking up regularly up until that point.

    Bombshells.

    I went NC and moved 5 states away. Never had a herpes outbreak and have had two blood tests done by my doctor. No STDs here.

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    Henceforth you will be known as HerpesBrah
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    I anticipate her putting you in your place and reminding you that you didn't 'discover' anything since it is plastered all over her social media. You keep acting like she is posting up that she has a kid on some secretive board meant to be hidden from you like some big secret. It's fukkin ******** you dinosaur. She probably never would have thought that you were such an inept luddite that you hadn't looked at her social media.
    I could see this happening but at the same time she never once mentioned the child, which should have been done on her part. You don't ONLY talk about your child on social media unless it's just a front meaning she's ashamed or something over having a child. I know a woman who's my age with a child, and she sent the child to live with her parents in Texas (she lives in PA!!!!!!) after signing over custody. she was 25 and just never grew up and started acting like a parent... There are some girls/boys (I call them this because they don't choose to grow up and be a parent) who don't ever have that click inside their head that they are responsible for another human being and fail to grow up. Perhaps this GF of the op's is the same, and if that's the case just walk the hell away.
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    Yeah I didn't think it was relevant to the discussion, but that is the case. I went from looking like a **** to looking like a handsome ****.


    Well I just texted her saying I discovered on FB that she has a kid. Again, this whole situation is mind boggling - we've been virtually inseparable for two months, and no mention of a kid at home.

    Just waiting to see what her response is, then it'll be time to block and move on
    I was referring to maybe you're reliving your youth sort of.

    Brother...just f them. You shouldn't say anything younger than 24, srs. I can only see headaches. Enjoy the physical with anything younger.
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    Originally Posted by motilynn View Post
    Idk... idk. I agree with you, but there's an element there we don't know. Did the Op say he confirmed with her she has this daughter living with her parents? (I also agree that's a red flag)

    But, there are circumstances where she maybe didn't want the child, but the parents are the kind that forbid abortion and adoption, and only gave her the choice for them to raise her... maybe... I mean 16?? You're still young as hell.
    I usually don't black night, but you seem delusional..she his a huge thing..her daughter..GTFO
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    Originally Posted by motilynn View Post
    I agreed that she should could have at least mentioned it, and held off to meet. I really just wanted to know more details. The Op never responded, but I was more curious as to how he knows for certain it is her daughter. . And not a niece of a sibling or something else.
    No, but you said:

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    I know. But I'm being honest. Sometimes, you have to get to know someone before revealing a big part of your life. Kids being the biggest. Maybe for her? She really needed to know he was someone that could be trusted with that. There's so much we still don't know...
    Sure, you want to trust someone before you reveal your cards. But if you're dating someone for 3 months, that's time enough to develop feelings. So someone gets dragged along thinking there's a future with this person without knowing some serious details about their life such as...oh I don't know...already having a kid.

    Don't twist logic around just because you have secrets you might be hiding. If you think of yourself as damaged goods, so be it. It's not fair to the other person (dating means there's another person involved) by screwing him over and not telling him these things. If you make choices in life, deal with that and accept it for what it is while finding someone else who will do the same. Don't drag someone along, have him develop feelings and then drop a bomb on him so he's emotionally wrecked by not knowing what to do. Jesus christ that's shady.
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    NC, omitting something that big is as bad as lying.

    Also if you've banged her, I'm surprised you couldn't tell by looking at her nasty stretched out clam
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    Originally Posted by US_Ranger View Post
    No, but you said:



    Sure, you want to trust someone before you reveal your cards. But if you're dating someone for 3 months, that's time enough to develop feelings. So someone gets dragged along thinking there's a future with this person without knowing some serious details about their life such as...oh I don't know...already having a kid.

    Don't twist logic around just because you have secrets you might be hiding. If you think of yourself as damaged goods, so be it. It's not fair to the other person (dating means there's another person involved) by screwing him over and not telling him these things. If you make choices in life, deal with that and accept it for what it is while finding someone else who will do the same. Don't drag someone along, have him develop feelings and then drop a bomb on him so he's emotionally wrecked by not knowing what to do. Jesus christ that's shady.



    While I agree with you in this situation in particular, this is something he could have quickly found within the first day of knowing her. What she did was wrong. But on another hand, you have a 20 yr. old girl that got knocked up at 16 and living with her parents. Then you got a brain dead 35 yr. old with peter pan syndrome that can’t pull his head out of his azz long enough to maybe realize there’s a reason she’s keeping him from her family. To the point where it took 3 fuking months to start looking at her social media. Then he comes on here with the victim syndrome “Mannnn I don’t understand why this 20 yr. old girl living with her parents, (who I could never meet) isn’t upfront with me” I mean for fuks sake! Why he’s running around trying to play house with a 20 yr. old is a issue in itself, but then to sit their like a idiot wanting sympathy for a situation that could have easily been avoidable is just insanity. I judge the OP more than the girl. She’s 20 years old and dumb enough to get knocked up at 16. This mentality is expected. The OP’s just trying to fulfil a post hair transplant fantasy he never got 15 years ago, and now suffering the consequences of that.
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    Originally Posted by LurkoLantern View Post
    I made the original post and then went to bed (slept pretty badly - I was all torn up). I think I may not have explained the situation very well (again, I just found out).

    - She's 20, and I'm 35. I'm firmly in the "once women go past 26/lose their glow, they're no longer marriage material" camp. So this isn't unusual for me - my last few girlfriends have been 21-25.
    - She also lives at home with her family. Sorry I didn't explain that one well beforehand. I would always pick her up in front of her house, but she never wanted me to go inside. But she and her daughter live in the same house as the rest of her family, so she didn't abandon her kid.
    - She would talk about her family in the context of her parents & two brothers. Zero mention of anyone else.
    - Again, I'm 35 - ******** and social media in general came along AFTER I graduated from college. It was never a big deal to me, and I'd log onto FB only once in a great while. So last night was the first time it popped into my head to "Hey, lets have a look at the gf's ******** page."
    - On her fb page she describes herself as a single mother, lots of pics of her with her kid (who she identifies in the captions as her kid).


    Y'know, I've actually dated a few single moms before. It's not desirable by any means. But the main issue was that she never revealed she had a kid to me (her supposed bf). We met on Tinder. No mention of kid in profile (or photos). First date, second date, fifteenth date, still no mention of having a 4 year old daughter.

    For the past 3 months this girl has been my perfect sexual outlet, to the point where I've actually had to tell her some weekends, "no, no we're having too much sex. My dik needs to recharge/rest". Now I'm wondering if she was just trying to rope me in. I knew it was all to good to be true.



    Sigh...a lie by omission is still a lie. I suppose I should be glad I found out sooner rather than later. I'm going to ask her what's up, why didn't she mention such an important detail on the first date. But the inescapable reality is: if she kept this from me, what else is she capable of hiding?



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    No offense bro but you don't seem very smart. I hope you don't take that as just an insult and move on without registering what I'm saying. Seriously, you need to use some common sense. I'm around the same age as you so I get that social media wasn't a big thing. But you need to use common sense tools in front of you to save yourself time and heartache. It's basic **** that takes about 30 seconds to do.

    Also, I like dating younger women. Still, a 20 year old you have to pick up from mom's house? Dude. That's reserved for smashing only. No way at 35 years old you should be actually dating someone who you have to pick up from mom's house unless it's some sort of crazy event that made her move back home while she figures it out. Granted, she had that (a kid) but you didn't know and you didn't bother asking BASIC (very basic) questions that would lead her to either say it or not.

    I can't imagine the **** you guys talk about as I'm very familiar with the younger crowd and the lack of common interests but you should still have deeper conversations that would lead to this type of thing being explained ahead of time.
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    Originally Posted by motilynn View Post
    While I agree with you in this situation in particular, this is something he could have quickly found within the first day of knowing her. What she did was wrong. But on another hand, you have a 20 yr. old girl that got knocked up at 16 and living with her parents. Then you got a brain dead 35 yr. old with peter pan syndrome that can’t pull his head out of his azz long enough to maybe realize there’s a reason she’s keeping him from her family. To the point where it took 3 fuking months to start looking at her social media. Then he comes on here with the victim syndrome “Mannnn I don’t understand why this 20 yr. old girl living with her parents, (who I could never meet) isn’t upfront with me” I mean for fuks sake! Why he’s running around trying to play house with a 20 yr. old is a issue in itself, but then to sit their like a idiot wanting sympathy for a situation that could have easily been avoidable is just insanity. I judge the OP more than the girl. She’s 20 years old and dumb enough to get knocked up at 16. This mentality is expected. The OP’s just trying to fulfil a post hair transplant fantasy he never got 15 years ago, and now suffering the consequences of that.
    No one is arguing with this statement you're making here. Plenty of people are ragging on the OP too, myself included. What you're doing now is moving the goal posts and changing the target. This is standard with plenty of women I've dated too and it's frustrating.

    1) OP is dumb.

    2) OP should have checked social media

    3) The girl fcked up when she was 16


    ^---Those things everyone agrees with. The problem is that you've moving the rest of it.

    a) You've hid stuff in your past before and you're guilty about it so you don't find this as a big deal

    b) You don't want to fully admit that hiding something from someone is a bad thing because that means you have to accept that you've done shady things before


    ^-----Those are the issues you need to deal with. If you're guilty of the same thing, so be it. Just don't come here and twist logic around to justify your actions. Accept you did it, move on, be better in the future. All of us have fcked up before. All of us. I still feel guilty about things I've done. Guess what, I don't do those things anymore because of that guilt. Maybe try that approach instead of justifying someone's actions because you feel bad about doing the same thing before.
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    Originally Posted by US_Ranger View Post
    No, but you said:



    Sure, you want to trust someone before you reveal your cards. But if you're dating someone for 3 months, that's time enough to develop feelings. So someone gets dragged along thinking there's a future with this person without knowing some serious details about their life such as...oh I don't know...already having a kid.

    Don't twist logic around just because you have secrets you might be hiding. If you think of yourself as damaged goods, so be it. It's not fair to the other person (dating means there's another person involved) by screwing him over and not telling him these things. If you make choices in life, deal with that and accept it for what it is while finding someone else who will do the same. Don't drag someone along, have him develop feelings and then drop a bomb on him so he's emotionally wrecked by not knowing what to do. Jesus christ that's shady.
    This guy gets it ^^

    In any case, she texted me back saying "I thought you knew I had a daughter." (That's pure nonsense)

    So I texted back "Why have you never mentioned her? We've been on tons of dates and this is the first I'm hearing."


    Some of you guys are in full potato mode. Just because some info is available on ******** doesn't remove the obligation to tell the person you're dating. I mean how far does this logic extend? "Derrr I'm not going to tell my boss I finished the quarterly report because I posted a mention of it on ********." I'd end up having to find a new job, just like this girl now has to find a new boyfriend
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