Moving in with girlfriend....good or bad move?

[Prose Edda]

Living on your own sucks, it's boring as hell and if you live with friends good bye to a lot of your food and 'no one' knows where it has gone. You lose friends living with friends.

[JuiceBoxBrah]

I have lived on my own for 5+ years and my girlfriend has been living with me for about 5 months now while she waits till her place with her friends is ready in August. I can honestly say that I love living with her. We get along very well living together honestly and have had no major fights. We give each other plenty of space though and work pretty different hours so it all works out.

[Nattyliftinglol]

I have lived on my own for 5+ years and my girlfriend has been living with me for about 5 months now while she waits till her place with her friends is ready in August. I can honestly say that I love living with her. We get along very well living together honestly and have had no major fights. We give each other plenty of space though and work pretty different hours so it all works out.

This is what I wanna hear. I couldn't live by myself, if be so bored and prob get a gaming addiction because of this.

[Tbillionaire]

how long have you been dating her OP

[JuiceBoxBrah]

This is what I wanna hear. I couldn't live by myself, if be so bored and prob get a gaming addiction because of this.

For us it really opened up how much we actually like/enjoy eachothers company, and that its very hard for us to get sick of each other. She is my best friend and I couldn't ask for anything better in all honestly. I hope you have the same outcome brah.

[Nattyliftinglol]

how long have you been dating her OP

Coming upto a year. Not that long... But we house sitted a house for 7 weeks, been on trips together away ect if we didn't house sit I prob would delay it another year (srs)

[Kard]

OP I'm in a similar situation.

Been with my girl for a year and we're moving in together in July. She stayed at my place 3-4 times a week. I just figured instead of getting a roommate it'd be better if it was my gf.
She's clean, smart, loyal, etc... I'm the same way. We're both super clean.

If you're confident in yourself and you know you're a clean guy and you guys communicate all your problems...then I don't see why it'd be a problem.

[Nattyliftinglol]

UPDATE:

I have lasted 3 weeks......and I am out.

Should have listened. I became unhappy when we got a female housemate to share the bills and now I have no space. I knew this was going to happen but my GF didn't want to listen.

[JIGSAW]

pics of this whore for proper judgement

[muscle beast]

UPDATE:

I have lasted 3 weeks......and I am out.

Should have listened. I became unhappy when we got a female housemate to share the bills and now I have no space. I knew this was going to happen but my GF didn't want to listen.

And you didn't fuk her roommate because...?

[Nattyliftinglol]

And you didn't fuk her roommate because...?

Prob because im in love with my gf....

[MrBungle11]

Prob because im in love with my gf....

so you;re back home?

[Nattyliftinglol]

so you;re back home?

well thinking of moving back home, finding full time work cause I just graduated, then I want to move in together in october when her lease runs out. with no room mate and more space somewhere else.

cliffs are:

she wants me to move in.
I do
she pays my rent
had to get a housemate to pay the other half
I don't feel comfortable with the situation at all
only 1 car bay, so we have to share a car.
2 bed apartment in city, 1 living area.
ect ect

[Luc1fer]

UPDATE:

I have lasted 3 weeks......and I am out.

Should have listened. I became unhappy when we got a female housemate to share the bills and now I have no space. I knew this was going to happen but my GF didn't want to listen.

WTF, did you not know you'd have another housemate?

[Squall77]

I've been living with my girlfriend since 2012, been together since 2008 LOL, we moved in together when I was 20 and she was 19, chits all good, I'm never lonely or get bored, always someone to chill with but fck she's a bad cook lol, cooks the most basic things, like mash potatoes and sausages, I do all the legit cooking, cleaning is 25/75 with me being the lazy one, we sleep on the same bed, practically do it anytime, anywhere, have watched literally every movie worth watching so we struggle to find new movies to download, go gym 4-5 days per week and play soccer and tennis numerous times a week, I do miss the days when we didn't see each other 24-7, I would have maybe not wanted to live together at such a young age :/

[SoutheastBeast1]

She is paying 90% of the rent, she has a good job, I'm only paying paying my half of bills

LOL reverse cuckolding going on here. Good job m8

[ChiBearsfan]

UPDATE:

I have lasted 3 weeks......and I am out.

Should have listened. I became unhappy when we got a female housemate to share the bills and now I have no space. I knew this was going to happen but my GF didn't want to listen.

I have the solution to your problem.

If you get a job, and pay half the bills,
your girlfriend won't have to take in a roommate in order to support you.

[WhiteKnightBoss]

Bad move. Bad move. Why? Just don't. Stupid.

Pros:

Cons: OP is a *******

[Criollo]

Are you planning on marrying her in the next 6 months? If not, don't do it. 100% srs. This will be the worst thing for your relationship.

that's the dumbest **** I've ever heard. so your saying you should only move in with a woman if your going to marry her? what if you move in after the wedding and u hate how she lives. or you realize you cant spend that much time together without her pissing you off. moving in before marriage is the best way to test if it will work out.

op if your srs about the relationship go for it and see how it goes.

edit: lol and that's why you should test the waters. now you can move on to the next. time to move back home boyo

[x-trainer ben]

UPDATE:

I have lasted 3 weeks......and I am out.

Should have listened. I became unhappy when we got a female housemate to share the bills and now I have no space. I knew this was going to happen but my GF didn't want to listen.

So i just saw that this thread was from 6.16.16 and realized that op made up his mind already. I was going to say make sure that you have ground rules and an understanding or things will surface that will ruin the relationship.

fast forward to yesterday.

[muximus]

I have the solution to your problem.

If you get a job, and pay half the bills,
your girlfriend won't have to take in a roommate in order to support you.

Harsh truth but this. Get yourself a job and pay rent to have a legitimate voice on the roommate situation. Move back home, get a job save money and get your own place.

[litle_dan]

If she's supporting you then good, she wants to see you achieve your goals. If not she wants you to pay half her rent in exchange for a little poosey, in this case your making it easier for her to get laid. Which guy wouldn't jump at an opportunity to bang a chick who lives with her bf especially if the girl is saying she only wants to take it and never talk after

[CJOrion]

listen bra, you just graduated. you'll get a grad job and be around fresh sloots. don't do it fella

[zebraman12]

Wait, you moved into your GFs place, after knowing for months you were going to do so, and were unaware that she had a roommate, which you didn't approve? Unless I read something wrong, ****, don't only not marry her, go get yourself checked out for mental retardation.

[xtrabacon]

Bad move

[Nattyliftinglol]

I have the solution to your problem.

If you get a job, and pay half the bills,
your girlfriend won't have to take in a roommate in order to support you.

This is exactly what I want to do. The situation is a reverse cuckhold though. The apartment is expensive and she wants to be with me. So she pays my rent.

I explained several times to wait until i get my career going and then ill find a house and we can move in together...

The housemate. The previous one we were mutual friends with...but he moved to be with his girlfriend in UK. So now we got a female housemate, i moved in during the meantime so she wasnt by herself and she got attached and I ended up moving in.

That's the situation.

Im prob gonna go back home. I dont like a housemate...never had one. I want to start my career and save for a deposit on a house

[FruitOfEden]

Pooseeyyy

[litle_dan]

Bang both and live rent free? Profit? Why was this not the logical idea here

[Wilson4555]

What are the pros and cons?

I got it made at home, but I need to get my chit together.

how long have you been with her?

[ocill88]

A woman paying 90% of the rent should be emasculating to you as a man. She'll see that over time and when you get home from whatever you do, you'll be sitting in your Lay-Z boy chair drinking a cold beer when you're gal comes walking in the door with Tyron and Jamal and Charles and ... well, you get it.

This! Have fun when she makes up some bs argument to kick you out of the house then she invites over Jamal to smash her brains out for 5 hours. Then later that night she forgives you lol