Ex wife contacted me after 3 years being divorced

[HeroesFall]

Mystery story, good stuff.

If this was real, tell her to go fuk herself and take her kids to daycare.

Who in their right mind would downgrade to some **** who left you to find other dik? Bye bye now, enjoy your fail decision with worse results.

[CHARBACK]

Tyrone and Jamal thank you for taking care of their kids

[jizzfarmer]

Shut the fuk up, so what if he has ****ty relationship issues, dont need to go and insult OP.


Keep bitching and you will get negged. I already talked to the mod ITT and he has agreed to neg you if you step out of the line again bitch.



OP: Meet with her, get to know her kids. Provide for them if you like them, no shame on that.

Ken what happened to your thread about having a 9" dick? cant believe you posted proof.

[Bruvs]

negged

[icedonkey3]

Buy shovel online, buy a cuban cigar, rent a convertible, buy toy gun that looks real, drive her to the desert, ask her to start digging, when she done digging the grave drive off without her into the sunset in your convertible while smoking a cigar and laughing like a maniac

[wickedman]

Listen mane,

I went down this road with my ex of 5 years after her new guy left her. I was stupid enough to meet up with her - it was literally one of the dumbest things I have ever done in my life. Send her a nice e-mail and shut it out of your mind. DO NOT MEET HER.

[Kaybee93]

Listen mane,

I went down this road with my ex of 5 years after her new guy left her. I was stupid enough to meet up with her - it was literally one of the dumbest things I have ever done in my life. Send her a nice e-mail and shut it out of your mind. DO NOT MEET HER.

How did that end?

[StatutoryApe213]

don't meet her you cuck

[Chezdon]

Listen mane,

I went down this road with my ex of 5 years after her new guy left her. I was stupid enough to meet up with her - it was literally one of the dumbest things I have ever done in my life. Send her a nice e-mail and shut it out of your mind. DO NOT MEET HER.

Go on...

[mindware]

Bro meet up with her and just see what happens, no expectations.

Sometimes the 2nd round is much better.

But how did you not meet her kids before, or they really young?

[Fang2]

^^^ lmao

[anonymous]

You are all


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[PossumBotherer]

She finished the email saying she would love to catch up and that she would love me to meet her kids as the thinks I would find them fun?

Just smash if she's still hot then go NC. Her tour was over 3 kids ago.

[GreenArrow89]

She's had plural kid(s) in the last 3 years and isn't with the dad anymore?

[Rojoh]

Fuark, I didn't read it all.

9 years you two never had kids then she pumps out multiple in 3 years?

I'vemadeahugemistake .gif

[Krochna]

[HateyouOP]

OP do not reply. And then in 18 years when her kids are finished college send a message saying "sorry was in the shower, yeah that sounds amazing, just pick a date" and post it to the other thread.

[Starred]

she got banged by a chad, had kids, and then he up and left

now she wants you back to care for them

[ScubaStevo]

[Rdubbb]

While it might seem intriguing to meet her again, maybe even go out for a drink, before you know it you'll both have regressed into what you were when you were together before. That is a reality.

By all means be cordial over email but leave the past the past, it doesn't mean it was a waste, it was just a small part of your life and it doesn't have to end up defining you.

Move forward brah and good luck.

[Fairplay]

"Meet my kids".... i cringed.

Her slooty cycle is over (for now) so is looking for a provider.

[Broflex81]

Translation: baby daddy ran out on her and she needs a new man to provide.

[drbaig]

LOL, gtfo OP. Trolling knobber.

[Water_American]

I would maybe go and catch up with her, but I'd make it clear that you have no interest in getting back together with her. I'm not one of these negative forever alones who hate all women (because they can't get laid, ever) and even I can see this as a sort of trap. I wouldn't go there calling her out on setting up a trap for you but I would just go and catch up and make it clear that you have moved on if the conversation comes up. If after you catch up with her,she tries to initiates more "dates", at that point I would be extra firm with her and let her know that you are no interested in seeing her again romantically. They're not your kids and don't make a rash decision because you're blinded by puppy love. You have your own kid maker in your pants, just go find yourself a good woman, inject your seed and be much happier with your biological children.

[WillNotBreak]

Better let shred know about this temptation.

[TLTrooper]

Try out some Leykis 101 on youtube. The short answer is no. Most likely she already had the past guy in mind before your relationship was even over. It sounds like her and the father are not together anymore and she is looking to introduce the kids to you so she can emotionally trap/guilt you into taking care of them for her. I would say just ignore her. She has a hidden agenda.

If you don't have kids with her and if the only thing linking you two was the marriage and you're feeling emotionally stable, hang out with her but remember what this brah is saying.

It doesn't necessarily have to be an intentionally hidden agenda and it could just be her pheels. Anyway, whether or not you hang out with her, just remember that being separated had its purpose.


Edit: just saw I'm posting in a mysterylifter thread. Troll as fuk.

Edit 2: lmao @ 3 kids and no daddy. Shes collecting a paycheck from him and is now looking for a physically present papi to her ninos. I changed my mind, don't do it.

[dave.mc]

Shutting this down.

The extreme negativity, mysogany, hate, and pure idiocy a lot of you "men" post here daily truly makes me cringe Irl.

The reality here is: OP found a woman he loves and wanted to marry. Did it in an unconventional venue, and was a success. Good for him! Don't be such a negative ******* for the sake of beig a dick...

The insane amount of comments degrading women also has to stop. I'll begin mass banning for those comments when I see them. So knock it off.

OP has more life experience than the vast majority of the misc, with the average age being around 22, and knows his relationship better than anyone here. Who the fuk are you to tear him down? Get a life. Truly.


OP. I wish you the best of luck. It sounds like you've found a winner.

[Hoofman]

OP please don't take this the wrong way. I know you probably have feels for her. But...

She left you, and then found another guy. I'm assuming she had kids with the new guy, and not you? Now she is single. She's probably find out how hard it is to raise kids alone. She's probably looking for a new guy, but no one will get involved because of the kids. Guys do not want to raise another guys kids. So she is contacting you now in the hopes that she can touch your feels, and maybe get you on the hook to help foot the bill for the kids. Basically be a cuck. It's up to you brah, but I wouldn't. Why did she go off and have kids with someone else and not you? Think about it. She left you once, so she will again when she doesn't need you.

I had a similar situation at my work. Attractive girl at work kept flirting with me hard, but I never would take the bait. Then I found out later on she was separated, and had a kid. I also found out she was having a hard time surviving financially. She found out I was about to buy a house, and then she was all talking about how we could be roommates. I just thought to myself "oh hell naw!" Needless to say, I never was going to get involved with that. But over the past year I've watched her go through 3 guys. What I've leanred, and verified through observation, is that women only care about men for what they can provide; resources. Be that a place to stay or money.

Do what you want OP. Maybe follow your feels if you want. Despite all of what I just said, there is one woman I would give everything up for. She's married with kids now, but I love her. I've loved her for 25 years. I can understand your feels if you have them.

[FAH_Q]

I'm in the minority, but i'd meet up with her. Its hard to say because we don't know what yalls relationship was like or what frame of mind you are in. If you have clearly moved on and you are not desperately missing her then I see no problem with it. But if you've been doing nothing with yourself the past 3 years (no serious gf etc) then that leads me to believe you will catch feels pretty quickly because y'all have a strong history together and she will know the right things to say to draw you in.

I am saying this under the assumption that she is NOT just trying to get you back just because she doesn't want to be alone. She very well could be doing that for all i know.

I'd do it, but proceed with caution would be my advice.

[RC2008]

why does the Misc want to see what a woman with 3 kids out of a 9 year relationship and a 3 year marriage looks like? Here I will provide pics: