Ex wife contacted me after 3 years being divorced
Back story for some context:
-Split with ex wife 3 and a bit years ago
-were together for 9 years in total dating+married
-she initiated the divorce but it wasn't nasty, my mindset was always if someone doesn't love you it's better to separate than stay in an unhappy marriage.
-didn't stay in contact but still were friends on ******** so I could see what she had been up to throughout the years
Fast forward to today I receive an email when I get to work from her. I hadn't had any direct contact for probably 3 full years as after our divorce she was in a new relationship quite quickly.
In her email she asked how I was, what was new in my life and she couldn't believe it had been so long since she had spoken to me. She said she had taken her kids away for the weekend to a place her and I used to go to and it reminded her of me which led to the email.
She finished the email saying she would love to catch up and that she would love me to meet her kids as the thinks I would find them fun?
Not quite sure how to play this one, I am unaware of her current relationship status but from what I could see on ******** the guy she was with after me seems to be out the picture.
Now I know what you will say but there is so much history between us (9 years) and maybe she is trying to relight an old candle? Should I entertain the idea or politely turn her down? To be honest part of me has wanted to catch up with her for a long time
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05-29-2016, 08:57 PM #1anonymousGuest
Ex wife contacted me after 3 years being divorced
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05-29-2016, 08:59 PM #2What It Takes
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she wants to bang right now
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05-29-2016, 09:02 PM #3Registered User
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She wants you to be her beta provider.
"Meet my kids"... just LOL.
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05-29-2016, 09:02 PM #4Registered User
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Man thats a tough situation, u dont wanna get fuked over again but at the same time im sure u wanna meet her badly, dunno mane. its crazy its been 3 years though.
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05-29-2016, 09:02 PM #5Registered User
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Try out some Leykis 101 on youtube. The short answer is no. Most likely she already had the past guy in mind before your relationship was even over. It sounds like her and the father are not together anymore and she is looking to introduce the kids to you so she can emotionally trap/guilt you into taking care of them for her. I would say just ignore her. She has a hidden agenda.
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05-29-2016, 09:03 PM #6The legendary miscer
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this tho srry brah
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05-29-2016, 09:03 PM #7Rep Power: 1104325
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tbh i would turn her down, i really see no point seeing her, as in i dont see how this would benefit u in any way.
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05-29-2016, 09:04 PM #8Registered User
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It's not a hidden agenda at all. She came right out with her true intentions in her very first email sent to the ******* OP in 3 years. That takes some big phucking balls on her part.Originally Posted by YogaBurn
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05-29-2016, 09:04 PM #9
She's had plural kid(s) in the last 3 years and isn't with the dad anymore?
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05-29-2016, 09:04 PM #10Registered User
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fuk no. she has kids now. no matter how you feel, stay away. and stay safe. she sounds like a siko bitch.
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05-29-2016, 09:04 PM #11Registered User
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Her kids? 9 years together? Youre either 50 years old or a cuck
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05-29-2016, 09:05 PM #12Registered User
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Meet my kids
Its over OPie
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05-29-2016, 09:05 PM #13PhD in miscing
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Either way ******* based on just reading your post we know you're gonna be like yeah let's meet up. Oh and where are the pics. You said you have her on fb
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05-29-2016, 09:06 PM #14Registered User
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Proceed with caution and be clear-headed srs
Do not let the past come back to haunt you
Personally, if one of my ex tried to talk to me again, I'd rather communicate through email than physically meet up in person
I don't know your whole story but separations usually happen for a good reason srs
Just say that you're too busy to meet up in person but communicate through email
Don't fall for the old "meet the kids" card
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05-29-2016, 09:06 PM #15jimmies rustled
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took 3 years off from you to try something new(black guys) ended up with a couple kids to different baby daddies and now she wants the responsible guy(you) to take care of them. Run op
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05-29-2016, 09:06 PM #16Registered User
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Politely decline.
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05-29-2016, 09:07 PM #17Works fine though
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email her back with a virus and tell her to go fuk a goat
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05-29-2016, 09:08 PM #18Registered User
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Well I'd rather call it greed and laziness instead of audacity.Originally Posted by ThePumpmaster
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05-29-2016, 09:08 PM #19somewhat srs
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05-29-2016, 09:08 PM #20Banned
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she has successfully bred with an alpha now she needs that beta male paycheck just lmao
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05-29-2016, 09:09 PM #21Banned
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Don't even message her back, dude.
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05-29-2016, 09:09 PM #22RH bro specialist
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Lvl 99 cuk if you even entertain conversation with your creature of an ex wife.
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05-29-2016, 09:09 PM #23Registered User
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Has to be a troll bread.
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05-29-2016, 09:10 PM #24Spot on. This fella knows his stuff.Originally Posted by YogaBurn
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05-29-2016, 09:10 PM #25Registered User
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Not sure if srs OP
fking this 100 timesOriginally Posted by KingRexxxy
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05-29-2016, 09:10 PM #26Registered User
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Sounds like she is trying to relight a candle. Is that a path you want to go down?
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05-29-2016, 09:11 PM #27Registered User
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The thing is women really don't even need that anymore because of the welfare state. Her kids won't want for anything because Big Daddy Government will provide for all of their needs.Originally Posted by godownfighting
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05-29-2016, 09:11 PM #28Registered User
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DONT EMAIL! Trust me, it'll add to the mystique of where you're at. Don't even entertain the idea by replying, if you must just turn her down brah. IMO I wouldn't respond at all.
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05-29-2016, 09:11 PM #29Registered User
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guys plz be srs and think it out completely before typing. this is a srs decision and me and OP will rep srs answers
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05-29-2016, 09:13 PM #30Registered User
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Sounds she's out of options ( guy wise ) tbh.
Idk, could be anything. Do whatever you want.
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