Serious question to men under 30: do any of you actually want kids?

[NurseGray]

It would be extremely selfish of me to raise a kid in a society that is rapidly moving towards complete ****.

That could be said in multiple periods of history.

[DeeezNuttz]

For some its money related. They have millions of dollars or a profitable business and no one to pass it on to when they die. Can't take it with you...

Also some families are really small. My sister and I are the only hope of our family line continuing, and it started back in the 1700's. Kinda don't want to be the one that killed it.

I got you. I shouldn't say I don't understand, I just don't have that feeling. My brother and I are the only ones left as well, and I can see where you're coming from and maybe farther along I'll feel that way too, but not so much right now.

[ScubaStevo]

Scanned through thread and saw numerous replies from sniveling betas afraid of life and who don't want to be "lonely".

Holy sh*(.

[PeteJonesHTX]

Of course I want kids srs.

Kids will give me a bigger purpose in life. Plus, having kids helps you fit into society better. No one wants to be the 45 year old at the office who doesn't have a family, just LMFAO.

[ScubaStevo]

Of course I want kids srs.

Kids will give me a bigger purpose in life. Plus, having kids helps you fit into society better. No one wants to be the 45 year old at the office who doesn't have a family, just LMFAO.

Another scared beta who can't find anything to do with his life and who is scared of what other people might think of him.

LMFAO

[VSVP99]

Scanned through thread and saw numerous replies from sniveling betas afraid of life and who don't want to be "lonely".

Holy sh*(.

Keep trying to justify your disconnected existence, OP. You're not fooling anyone but yourself with this "lonely" is normal BS.

That part of you crying out for connection isn't going away. Every time I see you post on here it's the same song. Get over yourself.

[TougeWarrior]

Don't be hating on people who don't share the same life goals as yourself mate. I got the snip last year so no kids for me, pretty happy with that.

Not saying there aren't benefits to having kids, but having them just so you don't feel lonely when you get old? Come on bro, do you realize how pathetic that sounds? If you aren't comfortable and happy with yourself now then having kids ain't going to change things, I hate to break it to ya.

This. lol @ thinking your children will remember when you are old, they will be busy asf with there own lifes. Nowadays generation cares only about themselves.

[Highwind7]

yep, it's still frowned upon here where I live if you divorce/sloot/cheat. and women are more or less still normal compared to western ones.

but if there's no quality female I'd rather adopt (as long as it's a male) if even possible for single males and teach him to be a person with integrity and spine.

[Lama94]

Too scared I'll be a failure of a dad

[Nosferatu187]

having kids helps you fit into society better. No one wants to be the 45 year old at the office who doesn't have a family, just LMFAO.

excellent motivation.

[rotatoo]

instant liver doner, means I can keep drinking home-brew vodka

[rjones416]

kids are a complete waste of time and money. if you're lonely then get a dog or something. dont pollute the world by spreading your low test, beta, balding genes.

[guest89]

Despite all the setbacks, having children means for better or for worse, that I have contributed something greater than myself to society.

and if your kids are degenerate sh!tbags??????

[Nosferatu187]

why was op banned you bunch of meanies.

[Fearlessbanana]

I don't think I could if I wanted to. Consequences of dat dere cell tech. I'd eventually like to settle down though.

[_zman]

I think there's some pretty good logic in this thread for not having kids. Like get a dog if you're lonely.

Having kids for me is completely contingent upon finding the right girl to have one with. And right now I just don't see either of those happening, but I'm not planning my life out like a lot of people do either.

Having kids usually ruins the marriage anyways. I've seen almost all of my friends get married now and it's obvious their relationships completely changed after having kids, dare I say the woman was in it for having kids the whole time? Yes, I think that would be accurate for the majority of those relationships. Like the husband no longer matters anymore to them. They don't even look at them the same. I'm just the type of person that notices everything. Things like body language, eye contact, it is simply is no longer a meaningful relationship, and some women are excellent actors.

[Fearlessbanana]

I think there's some pretty good logic in this thread for not having kids. Like get a dog if you're lonely.

Having kids for me is completely contingent upon finding the right girl to have one with. And right now I just don't see either of those happening, but I'm not planning my life out like a lot of people do either.

Having kids usually ruins the marriage anyways. I've seen almost all of my friends get married now and it's obvious their relationships completely changed after having kids, dare I say the woman was in it for having kids the whole time? Yes, I think that would be accurate for the majority of those relationships. Like the husband no longer matters anymore to them. They don't even look at them the same. I'm just the type of person that notices everything. Things like body language, eye contact, it is simply is no longer a meaningful relationship, and some women are excellent actors.

Lol goes to EDC every year to try and re live his youth. Says marriage is a bad idea. Strong cope fgit.

[_zman]

Lol goes to EDC every year to try and re live his youth. Says marriage is a bad idea. Strong cope fgit.

Yeah. I enjoy music. Sue me. I travel the world too. Is there an age where you've decided to stop having fun, travel, or listen to music? I've created more meaningful relationships at concerts than anywhere else, just due to the fact that we enjoy the same music.

Judgemental much?

[VSVP99]

This. lol @ thinking your children will remember when you are old, they will be busy asf with there own lifes. Nowadays generation cares only about themselves.

Sorry to break it to you, this attitude started to take off in our parents generation (born mid 50s onward). Looking out for your own lifestyle first has become the American way. IMO.. This is where the heavy hand of media worked to subvert society. The masses bought the egoist lie hook, line and sinker.

It's a continuance factor. If your parent inherently cares more about their own development than yours, you will have the same inclination towards them. You will care more about your development than about them.

Where as proper parenting creates more love than would've existed in the first place.

Think about love as factor x. If I only love myself that's 1x. If I love myself and I love my child even more than that, we have 2.1x . To which the child will reciprocate and produce 2.1x in return. Now we are left with 4.2x instead of 1x and 1x.

Which is better... 2x at best case scenario (which imo is insanity to only love yourself) which grows by 1x every generation, or 4.2x which grows greatly with each additional input?

In case you guys haven't figured it out. Love is what will change the world because it's the opposite of hate. The world is testing the boundaries of egotism and hate.. we need to transcend the situation.

[Fearlessbanana]

Yeah. I enjoy music. Sue me. I travel the world too. Is there an age where you've decided to stop having fun, travel, or listen to music? I've created more meaningful relationships at concerts than anywhere else, just due to the fact that we enjoy the same music.

Judgemental much?

Yeah bro I am judging you lol. We humans are judgemental whether we want to believe it or not. Zero fcks given about being politically correct. There comes a time where you stop acting like a child and grow up. There is of course fun in life past 30... not raves and ecstasy.

[asmith474]

hell no.

I dont understand why some miscers get so mad at others miscers when they say they dont wanna get married or have kids. Can someone explain ?

[MiscDaddy]

It's unfortunate for western society that people are no longer having kids. Birth rates are below replacement levels and are some of the lowest ever. Just look at Japan to see how well that is working out. Everyone is going to be old as fuk, there will be no young working people, no tax base.

Just lol.

[MiscDaddy]

hell no.

I dont understand why some miscers get so mad at others miscers when they say they dont wanna get married or have kids. Can someone explain ?

Actually it's the no marriage/kids crew that is attacking us for being "beta providers" and contributing to global warming. This thread was an attack in itself..

[PeteJonesHTX]

excellent motivation.

Just being honest. Also, you left out the rest of my post, which is the main reason I want kids someday.

[Nosferatu187]

I dont understand why some miscers get so mad at others miscers when they say they dont wanna get married or have kids. Can someone explain ?

they are toxic as fukk that's why.

[Uxxas]

Yes at having kids (4 votos) and no to getting married.


Surrogacy crew

[DizzySmalls]

Yeah. Not going to happen though

[harmsxwhey]

Just found out today I'm having a boy. So **** yes.

Join the club, brah. Boyo or abortiono crew.

[WeedWizard420]

I don't, but I decided that long before I'd joined the misc.

[TougeWarrior]

hell no.

I dont understand why some miscers get so mad at others miscers when they say they dont wanna get married or have kids. Can someone explain ?

It's usually the one's that are unhappy due to their marriage/kids but try to brainwash themselves that marriage/kids actually makes them happy because that's the only way to cope with life and not feel like pathetic (although they can't change the fact they are unhappy no matter what.)

Not saying I won't marry or won't have kids, but at least in real life everyone who always tells how awesome being married are (and are married) or how awesome is it to have kids (and have kids) usually are the most depressed individuals.