Let`s share with each other: "What we are struggling with right now" !!

[bebja]

Let`s see what every miscer is struggling with right now and start giving advice and solution


Me:

-18 years old
-My future is based on my Scholarships , which depend on GPA.
-Parents work hard to support me(Moved from another country, sacrificing so much to support me through my education)
-Miss my close friends back home and i have to deal everyday with people arrogance and fakeness, which ususally ends up with me separating myself from them.
-the thing that i fear the most- being alone (gives me anxiety, sometimes)
-never had a girlfriend, had a lot of opportunities but i tend to push girls away ( i can`t really have a relationship with a girl i do not like or at least find attractive)
-feeling emotionless and empty inside

-dreaming big for a brighter future

[CestLaVida]

Finding real friends that are on the same level as me, who have ambition and goals and want something out of life and have the same mentality as me. Who have real hobbies instead of just wanting to go clubbing and get drunk on weekends.

Just cut most of them off recently and stopped answering their phone calls. They say you are who you surround yourself with.

[MetroBrah]

nice thread.

I'm past school age and into my career so everything in my life is top-notch except the women in my life are fukked. I want to get married soon, but every girl is acting weird or like a bich

[FiteMeIrlFgt]

for me it would probably be

-18 years old
-My future is based on my Scholarships , which depend on GPA.
-Parents work hard to support me(Moved from another country, sacrificing so much to support me through my education)
-Miss my close friends back home and i have to deal everyday with people arrogance and fakeness, which ususally ends up with me separating myself from them.
-the thing that i fear the most- being alone (gives me anxiety, sometimes)
-never had a girlfriend, had a lot of opportunities but i tend to push girls away ( i can`t really have a relationship with a girl i do not like or at least find attractive)
-feeling emotionless and empty inside

-dreaming big for a brighter future

[bebja]

Finding real friends that are on the same level as me, who have ambition and goals and want something out of life and have the same mentality as me. Who have real hobbies instead of just wanting to go clubbing and get drunk on weekends.

Just cut most of them off recently and stopped answering their phone calls. They say you are who you surround yourself with.

we are in the same boat man :/

nice thread.

I'm past school age and into my career so everything in my life is top-notch except the women in my life are fukked. I want to get married soon, but every girl is acting weird or like a bich

i wish you luck

[A0wner21]

Trying to get sloots

[IPlayRugby]

Life.

[87slosohc]

If flapjacko will ever lose weight. Got $3.50 on it that he gives up and passes his current highest weight.

[m1n2v5]

no friends in the city I live in (friends are all out of state after graduation)

I know what I need to be doing to get where I want to be, but keep putting it off to rot at my current job

[jesusxchrist]

-Cutting
-College
-Insomnia

[sklau96]

- GPA dipping, scholarship depends on it, probably won't get it next semester
- financial struggles
- can't relate to majority of people I meet, but at least I have a few good friends
- mental health probably not at its best, nervous, anxious, unfocused, feeling blue a lot lately
- feeling disillusioned with the day to day grind of school/study/gym/sleep, not done anything really new in a long time

still gotta stay positive doe, we gon make it

[BBLuder]

First World Problems:

-Girl I like who I'm currently on NC with.
-Need to do an oil change and a good detailing on car.
-Clean my room; get rid of clutter.
-Figure out what to do with my WRX. Work on it, sell it, keep it ... not sure wtf to do with it. Feels financially irresponsible having another car on the side like that in my situation but it's a hard sell this time of year. Before winter = everyone wants a [Hoonigan] car so the value of it will be higher at that time, but so will it's value to me as I'll also want a Hoonmobile. I have a decent chunk of change saved up, just would be nice to free up money just sitting there doing nothing.
-Pay a ticket I got for window tint, and renew vehicle registration. There goes nearly $200.

[LordPhenibut]

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[PathToSage]

staying motivated+ in school to keep a high gpa and fulfill my overall goal of one day having a PHD from a top program

[Doveformen]

Getting a better job to take of myself and help out my family.
Getting my license and my car asap, I've been slacking so much and it's time for change.
Last one sounds beta to some of y'all, but tryna win my girl back, was mistreating her for so many months emotionally cause I was mostly depressed, she says she loves me but doesn't know if she wants to be with me. Doing everything I can to improve myself for myself, mentally and physically, and life wise, doing anything I can to be with this girl, love her on levels I can't explain.

[neverquit2012]

-Been out of lifting for a year due to 3 football surgeries. Lost all muscle
-About to have a 4th surgery next week that will keep me out another 6 weeks

Depressed as fuk. Realized lifting is the only thing I enjoy doing. Need to find another hobby

[300BLK]

As of right now, health issues is really all that's stopping me.

[Sicknotz]

- starting own business while working full time, need to make enough to make it worth while leaving the full time work
- car broke down again, its a fkn 2012 Jeep that has broken down 4 times.... current bill $3k to replace gear box
- purchasing off the plan apartment that is going to be complete by end of year.... have till end of year to save $20k more fuuuark

not rdy to LDAR

[Nicro327]

Trying to get into Stanford as a transfer srs. Got a 4.0 GPA and now I need to take long ass testing classes to get a near perfect score on the SAT. Hopefully I'll have a shot.

Also trying to get shredded, I wish I could see a preview of what I'll look like at 9% bodyfat to motivate me some more

[JamesAmbition]

-almost 20 years old
-pissed as fuk because I feel like I failed in my basketball career
-Pissed because I feel like if I played soccer instead, I would have become a pro (srs)
-I have a a crazy desire and ambitious to be rich and make something of myself in the near future

[neverquit2012]

-almost 20 years old
-pissed as fuk because I feel like I failed in my basketball career
-Pissed because I feel like if I played soccer instead, I would have become a pro (srs)
-I have a a crazy desire and ambitious to be rich and make something of myself in the near future

Can relate to the failed sports career. Dad and grandpa both played college/NFL ball. Senior year, I had coaches drooling over me. Thought I was gonna be a star. 7 injuries and 4 surgeries later(all in a 1.5 year frame), football is over.

We're gonna make it man. Sports ain't everything, although right now that's hard to imagine.

[imbored21]

social anxiety
-no gf
-no friends
-work is unbearable

[Jeeter]

-Been out of lifting for a year due to 3 football surgeries. Lost all muscle
-About to have a 4th surgery next week that will keep me out another 6 weeks

Depressed as fuk. Realized lifting is the only thing I enjoy doing. Need to find another hobby

Try reading books
Binge watch some new TV shows
Watch movies you've always wanted to see
Maybe learn an instrument?

Idk just throwing shyt out there to help with the boredom you're gonna encounter

[SlootFlute]

I just got a new job, so first things first I need to get my credit in order so I can move out by November..

I really wish I can make some friends, ever since I moved back I don't hang out with anyone but my gf...

[neverquit2012]

social anxiety
-no gf
-no friends
-work is unbearable

Get some Phenibut. Every time I get in a rut, I take some of that sh*t and life just gets better.

[neverquit2012]

Try reading books
Binge watch some new TV shows
Watch movies you've always wanted to see
Maybe learn an instrument?

Idk just throwing shyt out there to help with the boredom you're gonna encounter

Books is what I'm thinking. I love reading.

Already binged That 70s Show and Breaking Bad as well as every good documentary on Netflix so that's done lol.

[DGen94]

lost all my friends. just chill by myself
smash chicks but no gf material ones
like girl but see her snapchats with other dudes
working at chit job

[SoutheastBeast1]

This should be quite the list. Here we go:

1. Need to find a job to start in August
2. No true friends any more
3. Want to go to med school, need to finish OChem and BioChem, preferably by the end of fall or everything gets pushed back and can't apply next cycle probably (enrolled in OChem II this summer)
4. Need to take the MCAT and do really well
5. Need money to actually attend if I can get in (see the importance of post 1)
6. Need to shadow but also need to work full time but also need to take classes
7. Need a life but that ship sailed thanks to numbers 1-6.


Then there's more minor struggles, like passing my Genetics test tomorrow with an A or getting a GF (lol like there's time for that) that really don't even make the list

[Jeeter]

A girl I'm into is starting to see how do incredibly fukked I am. Its like I wanna just come out and explain all the baggage I have and why I'm this way, but I doubt she'll want to stick around. Instead I've just omitted every flaw and fukked up event in my life. She asked me about my parents two days ago. I never had a good childhood so I stray away from any questions about my mom and dad. I kept feeding her bullshyt cryptic answers and she kept grilling me cause she's smart and sees through everything. She knows something's wrong with me and she's gonna keep digging until she finds it. When she does, she ain't gonna see me the same way. That's the worst part.

Also, I'm pretty fukkin pissed about not having any booze or bud. Sobriety is such a bore

[neverquit2012]

This should be quite the list. Here we go:

1. Need to find a job to start in August
2. No true friends any more
3. Want to go to med school, need to finish OChem and BioChem, preferably by the end of fall or everything gets pushed back and can't apply next cycle probably (enrolled in OChem II this summer)
4. Need to take the MCAT and do really well
5. Need money to actually attend if I can get in (see the importance of post 1)
6. Need to shadow but also need to work full time but also need to take classes
7. Need a life but that ship sailed thanks to numbers 1-6.


Then there's more minor struggles, like passing my Genetics test tomorrow with an A or getting a GF (lol like there's time for that) that really don't even make the list

Not gonna lie, that sounds stressful as fuk. Good luck m8, can't imagine all that sh*t in my plate.