Shooting up opiates. I dont recommend it.
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03-05-2016, 11:16 AM #122
My grandfather and last remaining grandparent was in the hospital for a while and things were not looking too good, both physically and mentally. Went to visit him a few times and on the last visit he was genuinely scared about being left alone. 'Please don't leave, I don't want to be alone.' He seemed to be pretty well that day, all things considered, even the doctors were slightly hopeful, so we promised to just come back the next day. We got a call in the morning saying he had passed on during the night, alone after all.
Really glad I still saw him the day before, but afterwards those words of his cut like a knife.
I'm not usually very emotional but I cried like a bitch at his funeral. Being alone like that, the desperate feeling of abandonment, **** man.
You don't want to be a loner brahs srs
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03-05-2016, 11:32 AM #124
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Unrequited love in hs. Changed my interactions with women forever. The WK in me died.
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03-05-2016, 12:07 PM #126
Having a stroke when I was 16
got pretty depressed and FA, would sit in my basement and play wow, barely hang out with people
finally crawled out of that hole a bit now, but its still so easy to fall back into that depression from time to time
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03-05-2016, 12:15 PM #128
Was sent a razor 8 sample years ago, and took the whole pack like an idiot. Didn't know it was 2 servings. was around 1000mg of caffeine. Didn't go to the gym and sat in my room concentrating on not dying. It gave me a migraine and spent hours just focusing on my breathing. **** was scary af
But honestly it wasn't just one event, but being college athlete and putting in all this work to eventually lose passion in it. Made me realize that I should never let someone else dictate how to live my life or how my future will be. My coach messed me up big time, but oddly enough I have a great relationship off the field with him. He lives 2 min from my house too. But man all that hard work for him to screw me over all the time and take away what I loved to do really hit me hard. But he did teach me the value of never giving up and working hard every day.
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03-05-2016, 12:26 PM #132
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Was close to morbidly obese in middle school and highschool. Had no friends which caused me to eat more and become an even bigger FA. Would then eat more to make myself feel better. Was a horrible cycle and ended up becoming so fat.
Decided one day enough was enough after coming home crying from people making fun of me. Incredibly BETA but I was a fat estrogen filled teenager.
Ended up starving myself, losing like 100lbs over a year, then more and more weight until I became so unhealthy. Lost tons of muscle, still looked like shyt. Eventually passed out in the hallway of my school likely from just not eating enough, ended up busting my head open on the concrete floor....
Discovered the MISC. Started lifting. Honeslty everything changed my life. Now lift everyday, watch what I eat, have a ton of friends, and studying to enter healthcare...
Cant say it was one thing particularly but the entire experience really shaped who I was. Sometimes I wonder where Id be if I didnt come home that one day after being made fun of constantly and decide to change. I remember eating a bagel and crying, throwing the bagel across my yard and completely went NC with carbs for a while
I still LOL at my old fat pathetic self throwing a bagel. Always good motivation
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03-05-2016, 12:38 PM #133
Working 8 hour shifts at a physical night job 6 days a week for a summer at 17. The toll that took with me also going to the gym every day was too much. Before that, I didnt know how much I was willing to commit to becoming educated, but that set me straight very quickly. Fuk rotting away like that.
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03-06-2016, 07:12 PM #134
What realizations did surviving uncover?
I'm pleased you've found it enlightening.
So you realize life is about fitting stereotypes.
Scarred for life.
First, I'm glad you still have our sight, and second, will you use your knowledge to aid others? You should somehow.
Anhedonia? You can never foretell the future, there will always be a route for happiness.
This is a great story, and I see why it would irrevocably alter your life.
Sometimes life is unfair. But there is always the development of character through trial.
Very unique story, hidden genius.
How have you coped with so much death in your life?
You are strong because you kept fighting. Many I know with similar stories aren't as resilient.
It's hard to erase the lessons learned and then believed in from the past. But because something like that happened when you were vulnerable does not mean they ever happen again. Also, because you didn't die from it, this is proof you shouldn't still be afraid.
Def life changing. Thinking people have negative opinions of you, especially those you don't know can have a crippling effect. I'm glad you got passed it.
Very cool, did the results of the win make you happier?
Seeing humanity in such starkness has to shake you to the core. Thanks for playing.
This is remarkable, what happened if you don't mind sharing?
Why did they do this? And how did you respond?
Lot's of reality in this one. Real man problems.
Bro hug.
This is terrible, love does leave scars. And cocoa butter doesn't work on this kind.
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03-06-2016, 07:18 PM #136
Mirin?
Went from being called fugly by friends' older sisters and believing i'd be Asiacel by waves on waves of people until around this period of time that I started hanging around with a good crowd and I started to gain a sliver of hope that I would make it, realizing that I had been conditioned to believe all my life that I was a failure by people who were failures themselves trying to spread their toxicity.
No it did not single-handedly change my life but it was part of a series of events that each played a significant part of my character development.
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My dad lost his job during my freshman year of college, and my only shot at staying at the expensive college I was at was to apply to be an RA because that means free tuition. I had high school scholarships going into my freshman year so it saved my parents ~$15K. I did not get the RA position; I get extremely anxious during interviews and I joined a fraternity so I definitely gave off the douchebag vibe. You don't typically see "Frat bros" as RA's. It devastated me the night they broke the news to me over the summer that I would have to start looking at other schools. I still remember the date too, something bad always happens on that exact date every summer since then. I went to a party that night too, killed a 12 pack and was ripping bong hit after bong hit. Gave no fuks driving home, didn't care what would happen cause I literally felt like my life was thrown away that night.
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03-06-2016, 07:44 PM #142
Starting a non-profit and barely getting any thank yous.
Saw a guy day before Thanksgiving, digging in the dirt for cans with his cart. Gave him $40 bucks he shook my hand but obviously could not speak English.
Come back from my car he is waiting for me by the place I was eating at and says thank you in a very broken English.
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03-06-2016, 07:51 PM #143
moving halfway across the world right when i started HS
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03-06-2016, 07:51 PM #144
I feel with you brah. You know that going to the best school isn't what gives the opportunity to aid humanities development. Look at role models who have suffered similar fates to yours and use them as a source of power to move on despite the odds.
You are the first one to mentioned something like this. I also find unexpected appreciation or kindness to be extremely powerful.★ M0D Positivity Crew ★ № 1th ★ Α ★
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03-06-2016, 07:54 PM #145
Seeing the living conditions of many of the countries I had the opportunity to visit.
Helped me not take anything for granted in this country and also gave me a new perspective on how garbage the average American is with their entitled self-righteousness and those that choose to work the system.
Also, becoming a Marine. Best decision I ever made. I may not make as much money as some. But the values and the way I've created a structure for myself as a man has improved my life greatly.USMC 2008-Current 03OG
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03-06-2016, 08:05 PM #146
Seriously? Realizing girls like to bang as much as men is the one unaltering experience, lol only on the misc.
Work in the hospital. Always feel so bad for the people who have nobody visiting them. Its sad ****. They always have the longest recovery too. Having love around you helps you heal (yes corny).
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03-06-2016, 08:08 PM #147
The year after high school was the worst year of my life. Parents got divorced, leaving my mom almost going crazy because of all the stress. My relationship with my father was already bad, but that year any relationship whatsoever was completely gone. I also had a year off before going to uni, because I didn't know what to do and I had no guidance. Wanted to work but couldn't find a job so I was broke. Combine that with my depressed mother who I love the most in this world made me also very depressed. Because of this I lost all my friends (shows you how common fake friends are), was still a virgin, was unaesthetic and had social anxiety. In that year I also lost 2 family members. Basically everything was crumbling around me, I had no future, no money, no friends, no success with girls, bad situation at home. Basically did nothing but watch tv for 10 months. Tried to commit suicide, but didn't have the balls to do it. My mom found out and I will never remember here face crying.
That was the moment my life changed. I could never do something like that to my family. So everything I do now in life is all for me and for the good of my mother and my little brother, it basically turned me into a father type figure. I focused on improving myself everyday, because you are the one who you spend your time with. Got aesthetic, got confident, got money and invested it and got even more, went overseas to live in NYC (I'm European) and get more female attention than ever before. Basically get laid every weekend, while at first I couldn't even say hi to a girl. Also it's very likely I will be accepted into the top 31st business school in the world for a graduate program in finance.
The only bad part is I don't really trust people anymore, because of bad experiences in the past. It made me into a lone wolf basically (although not FA).
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03-06-2016, 08:27 PM #148Originally Posted by Ocheta
I agree with a lot of what you say. Once you know true poverty you are never the same again. Make that change.
I can only love the kind of person you are. Though the second half of your story sounds idealistic and doesn't mention real world struggles, I'm glad that your perseverance is of the kind that will help your mother, who you love so much. Just don't get hung up on the worldly success part of life only (the superficial), men are actually valued for their characters and who they are within. I'm here for you if you need an honest person to talk with. Not everyone is disgusting, I'm also in a lot of ways an individualist.★ M0D Positivity Crew ★ № 1th ★ Α ★
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03-06-2016, 08:30 PM #149
When I realized the exact moment I was in love with my EX. I was brought up in a household where having "feelings" wasn't an acceptable trait. To this day people tell me I'm not sympathetic, empathetic, and am devoid emotionally. But this was probably 8 years ago and I could tell you what it smelled like in the room I was in. I remember every vivid detail of that moment realizing that somewhere deep, deep, deep down on my emotionless existence that I was capable of loving something.
I woke up this morning still breathing. Might as well take advantage of it.
Working every day to be just a little stronger, healthier, or smarter than yesterday.
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03-06-2016, 08:34 PM #150
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