How do people even have time to get laid or have a gf?

[SoutheastBeast1]

Im being dead serious. Between work, school and gym I'm working constantly. I might get an hour after I shower and go to bed during the week, maybe, and I'm drained by then anyway

Weekends are then spent preparing for the week and catching up on any work. Laundry, grocery shopping, cooking food, hitting the gym, cleaning the apt up a bit, etc

If I happen to get a pocket of a few free hours even on the weekend I just want to sleep.

And the thing is I'm poor as f*ck, not even banking in some wealthy important job or anything.

Not sure I'm cut out for this whole life thing......



Don't even get me started on kids. How exactly do people have time for all this sh*t?

Haven't had fun in years it feels like crew.

Too tired for life crew

[SoutheastBeast1]

This thread is mainly geared toward those of you in the real world, not the 18-22 year olds who go to class for 2 hours out of the day and don't have sh*t to do until a few tests roll around

Obviously you *******s have time to do stuff

[MusicProducer]

Time management. Most people spend WAY too much time doing the most simple tasks.

[SoutheastBeast1]

All the days are basically a blur, Saturday and Sunday included

[TheMinimalist]

im in the same boat OP.

you just have to make time to balance things out. find time.

[Jattz]

I'd say you're blessed tbh. Miring lifestyle.

May have to go out of your way to increase flow of meeting people to get a hit. Probably will have to do stuff deliberately out of the ordinary everyday and keep it different everyday.

[Nattyliftinglol]

Im being dead serious. Between work, school and gym I'm working constantly. I might get an hour after I shower and go to bed during the week, maybe, and I'm drained by then anyway

Weekends are then spent preparing for the week and catching up on any work. Laundry, grocery shopping, cooking food, hitting the gym, cleaning the apt up a bit, etc

If I happen to get a pocket of a few free hours even on the weekend I just want to sleep.

And the thing is I'm poor as f*ck, not even banking in some wealthy important job or anything.

Not sure I'm cut out for this whole life thing......



Don't even get me started on kids. How exactly do people have time for all this sh*t?

Haven't had fun in years it feels like crew.

Too tired for life crew

Its simple.....your gf takes care of that, so you have more free time

also when you meet the right girl.....it doesn't take effort brah.

[ViagraOverdose]

Time for some tough love broseph, you are starting to sound like a fat woman who would say "I don't even have time to work out".

I work full time, I lift 4-5 times a week, I have a GF, I have a Social Circle of high school m8's.
Still find time to visit my parents.

You can find a GF at the gym or at work, so your excuse's doesn't make sense.

[Train57]

Im being dead serious. Between work, school and gym I'm working constantly. I might get an hour after I shower and go to bed during the week, maybe, and I'm drained by then anyway

Weekends are then spent preparing for the week and catching up on any work. Laundry, grocery shopping, cooking food, hitting the gym, cleaning the apt up a bit, etc

If I happen to get a pocket of a few free hours even on the weekend I just want to sleep.

And the thing is I'm poor as f*ck, not even banking in some wealthy important job or anything.

Not sure I'm cut out for this whole life thing......



Don't even get me started on kids. How exactly do people have time for all this sh*t?

Haven't had fun in years it feels like crew.

Too tired for life crew

once you graduate you would free up hours for other things

wish I had a job or went to school instead of staying home and ldar all day

[EmanuelKant]

work full time job (office) - 37.5 hours a week
second part time job (nightclub) - 12 to 16 hours a week
gym at least 5 times a week
two gfs
1 dog
and different social circles of m8s that I catch up wif
the life of a nightclub bouncer in Calcutta ya dig?

you honestly sound like a cuck

[SoutheastBeast1]

How many hours a week do you work OP?

What do you do for work?

How many hours you in school? (still in school at 29, what program?)

30 hours at work a week, research stuff

Grad school PhD program, finish in the summer

Also taking 2 undergrad courses cause thinking of med school.

Lol I'm not even full time working and my days are legit jam packed. It's not a time management issue on my end. I go from one thing to the other.

For example Monday
8 am lecture
9 am lecture
10-5 go to work if you include the driving
Back at 5 grab something to eat
5:30 head to gym
7:30 back from gym
By the time I shower and pack up stuff for the next day and do dishes it's 8:30
This is where I might get that hour of free time between 8:30- 9:30 it depends what's going on.

In bed by 10 usually, wake up at 545

This is pretty standard. Saturday and Sunday is slightly less rigid but hardly enough to have significant chunks of time where I have an entire evening blocked off

[Changedmalife]

How do people even get laid without paying $509 to an escort or get a gf srs

[gottalooksharp]

Well you're wasting your time on the misc, so...

[Nastradoomus]

work full time job (office) - 37.5 hours a week
second part time job (nightclub) - 12 to 16 hours a week
gym at least 5 times a week
two gfs
1 dog
and different social circles of m8s that I catch up wif
the life of a nightclub bouncer in Calcutta ya dig?

you honestly sound like a cuck

[hawkshade]

Just keep pushing man. Currently in the same position as you. I don't have time either and when I get invited to places, it sucks that I can't enjoy my time with friends but **** it bro. Just don't end up depressed. Although it does suck when you're used to having a girlfriend and then you don't now.

[SoutheastBeast1]

Well you're wasting your time on the misc, so...

Misc from phone so not really. Miscing is basically nothing more than multi tasking.

I could not misc and it would change nothing about where I need to be when I need to be there each day

[Changedmalife]

Misc from phone so not really. Miscing is basically nothing more than multi tasking.

I could not misc and it would change nothing about where I need to be when I need to be there each day

Strong crews

*Work, school, gym, sleep, repeat Crew*

You a virgin too(non escort?) feels

[SoutheastBeast1]

Strong crews

*Work, school, gym, sleep, repeat Crew*

You a virgin too(non escort?) feels

No I'm 29. What kind of pathetic loser doesn't get laid between 18-22 when life isn't even hard and pussy is handed to you for free?

I'm talking about life as an adult being impossible to have a life boyos

[PisseninMisc]

30 hours at work a week, research stuff

Grad school PhD program, finish in the summer

Also taking 2 undergrad courses cause thinking of med school.

Lol I'm not even full time working and my days are legit jam packed. It's not a time management issue on my end. I go from one thing to the other.

For example Monday
8 am lecture
9 am lecture
10-5 go to work if you include the driving
Back at 5 grab something to eat
5:30 head to gym
7:30 back from gym
By the time I shower and pack up stuff for the next day and do dishes it's 8:30
This is where I might get that hour of free time between 8:30- 9:30 it depends what's going on.

In bed by 10 usually, wake up at 545

This is pretty standard. Saturday and Sunday is slightly less rigid but hardly enough to have significant chunks of time where I have an entire evening blocked off

You do realize most people work a 8 to 5 job and have time to get laid and get a GF?

[SoutheastBeast1]

You do realize most people work a 8 to 5 job and have time to get laid and get a GF?

That's why I have the question in the title homie. I'm fully aware

Wtf when do people do this stuff?

[DGen94]

feel bad for you. wasting your life working LOL. get more time to do fun chit. would shoot a bullet in my head if i was you

[SoutheastBeast1]

feel bad for you. wasting your life working LOL. get more time to do fun chit. would shoot a bullet in my head if i was you

Strong sig to thread topic

"Better than you at LIFE"

Mirin hard. Not even mad. Completely be leaf

[TheMinimalist]

i was at my job today, and mid way i was thinking this: 'right now, i'm at a **** job just paying my dues (rent), while i put in some time toward a better job, and more opportunities, and more time to do stuff'...

started thinking that some guy my age is getting laid right now, out at a bar or club, while i'm 'here' (at work)...

i got depressed for about 2 minutes, but then something hit me...

i have 2 options

1) feel sorry for myself, blame others for my situation, and 'hope' that things change (passive approach)

or

2) take responsibility, accept my situation completely, and 'work to' improve it (active approach)


the first is the easy option (short term)... because it does not require any effort, and it justifies everything. but long term, option 1 will keep me spinning in circles, getting nowhere.

the second is a lot more difficult. because it requires responsibility. it requires knowing that 'I' and only 'I', am responsible for my life, nobody else. and it requires actual 'work' to improve my situation. short term, it seems scary, because i have to accept i am where i am today, because my choices and decisions led me here... the second part is this: actively trying to improve my situation. short term, tough. long term... results...

[ttuTRAP]

This thread is mainly geared toward those of you in the real world, not the 18-22 year olds who go to class for 2 hours out of the day and don't have sh*t to do until a few tests roll around

Obviously you *******s have time to do stuff

yep, got a 9am tomorrow and nothing else but i aint going whoop! whoop!

[L_Coops]

work full time job (office) - 37.5 hours a week
second part time job (nightclub) - 12 to 16 hours a week
gym at least 5 times a week
two gfs
1 dog
and different social circles of m8s that I catch up wif
the life of a nightclub bouncer in Calcutta ya dig?

you honestly sound like a cuck

lol'd

[L_Coops]

You could find an equally busy, single woman and both be content with seeing each other like once a week or once a fortnight. Text in the days between etc.

[EuphoriaPL]

post weekend schedule

otherwise you're gonna have to cut out some gym time it's the only way bruh.

balance between work gym and gf is always a constant struggle. work stays constant because it has to otherwise u get fired. so really its just between gym vs gf. i've noticed when my gains start getting srs i fight more with the gf. longer periods of time with no fighting means i've been showing her more attention and thus not going to the gym as often/slacking on gains.

i imagine it will become much easier when we move in together and i won't have to schedule specific parts of my week to see her because i'll always see her at home.

[hymendiamond]

-premed crew
-undergrad medsci crew
-study 12 hours a day crew
-study ~32 hours straight on addy during exams crew
-hit the gym 3 days a week crew
-sleep 11 hours a day crew

lmao any engineering/rigorous science program will eat you alive in undergrad

[imbored21]

miss college soo bad.
brb class for 10 hours a week where you just sit in the back and play on your phone.
brb mom does chores
Fck this gay earth.

[MBisonSon]

Because for most people their only obligations in life are to work 9-5.

If they could get somehow have their bills paid and a little money extra to get ****ed up and get laid most people wouldn't do anything else.

It's a good thing you're going to school and working out though because you'll be in your prime with all this stuff going for you while everybody else falls off.

The most successful people I know go out once or twice a month, the least successful go out 3-5+ times a week, I refer to them as "****tards" or people who's lives revolve only around getting laid (basically your average person).