To the brahs above 30, what are your biggest regrets?

[naths]

I don't want to make the same mistakes/regrets as you guys when I hit 30+, and I'm sure many other miscers are in my boat.

What are your biggest regrets so far? Or are you guys still too young to have regrets?

I just need a little bit of guidance on what doesn't matter so much, and what really matters, if you feel me?

[StainlesSon]

In for answers, drop some knowledge on us. oh wise misc grandpas

Edit: what mistake could you possibly make in anctartica? Get in a fistfight with penguins???
(I want ya ll to picture that, oh, it'd be glorious)

[SwissRicola]

In for answers, drop some knowledge on us. oh wise misc grandpas

this, in

[TheAmericano]

Only 25 but my biggest regret so far...

- Spending all of high school and freshmen and sophomore of college in a relationship.

- Now I just date casually and am free to do want/who/when I want, no drama, zero stress and I'm so much happier

[fj123]

Only 25 but my biggest regret so far...

- Spending all of high school and freshmen and sophomore of college in a relationship.

- Now I just date casually and am free to do want/who/when I want, no drama, zero stress

in for actual 30 year old answer.

will neg after r/c

[TheAmericano]

in for actual 30 year old answer.

will neg after r/c

location: Mexico

I understand why you're upset

[naths]

In for answers, drop some knowledge on us. oh wise misc grandpas

Edit: what mistake could you possibly make in anctartica? Get in a fistfight with penguins???
(I want ya ll to picture that, oh, it'd be glorious)

Many, many, many mistakes my friend, falling into holes in the ice, falling off the flat earth (if catbrah's flat earth theory is correct), not wearing warm pj's, you know, the usual

Only 25 but my biggest regret so far...

- Spending all of high school and freshmen and sophomore of college in a relationship.

- Now I just date casually and am free to do want/who/when I want, no drama, zero stress and I'm so much happier

fukk, too much real life

[fj123]

location: Mexico

I understand why you're upset

not upset at all fella!

ur still getting negged though

[naths]

not upset at all fella!

ur still getting negged though

Pls don't neg him, 25yr old response is still better than no response

[StainlesSon]

Many, many, many mistakes my friend, falling into holes in the ice, falling off the flat earth (if catbrah's flat earth theory is correct), not wearing warm pj's, you know, the usual



fukk, too much real life

I get it brah, I apologize for downplaying your struggles

[heyyouwhome]

-not getting my business started sooner
-not getting my addictions under control sooner
-taking too much time off from lifting and not being consistent enough with it
-wasting too much time chasing pussy and not focusing on myself

that's about it

[y0jimbo]

location: Mexico

I understand why you're upset

brutal.

[Wyzz]

Not 30 but...

1) Not travelling more and backpacking...even if its 2 weeks at a time it's worth it and you won't be able to travel the same way when you're older.

2) Buying unnecessary ****

3)spending too much money on food.

4) Not working out more in my early 20's. A nice lean physique actually goes along way..aslong as your not super socially awkward

[naths]

-not getting my business started sooner
-not getting my addictions under control sooner
-taking too much time off from lifting and not being consistent enough with it
-wasting too much time chasing pussy and not focusing on myself

that's about it

Fukk, so we got someone who regrets not being able to chase pussy, and then we got another brah that regrets wasting time having to chase pussy

You guys got me all fukked up

[LightskinSwag]

My biggest regret is opening this thread

[twopiece]

in for actual 30 year old answer.

will neg after r/c

don't be a *******

his response would be just as true even if he was 30

[tank2003]

not taking care of myself better. I never seriously injured myself when lifting. Shoulder pain here and there and the occassion "oh chit...i went full potato" but its a learning experience.

My one tip to new lifters: DO NOT neglect your core. Ive always put up big numbers on lifts. 450+ on 1RM BP, shrugging 8 plates per side for 30-30 reps, 225 tricep dips (with me already at 240 lbs at the time) and still being able to run a sub 7" mile, I shied away from legs in general because of my low back issues and core work aggrivated it a lot. Now i'm paying for it. Ruptured L5/S1 in late 2012 and getting ready to find out what surgery i will need next

I'm almost 31 btw

[heyyouwhome]

Fukk, so we got someone who regrets not being able to chase pussy, and then we got another brah that regrets wasting time having to chase pussy

You guys got me all fukked up

i got laid a LOT in my mid-late 20's. it was mostly worth it but true a lot of late nights spent dealing with women and their crap when i honestly could have just paid to get laid, which is more or less what i do now. to be clear it's at the very bottom of my list. the others i mentioned carry much more of an impact on my future

[Wyzz]

Fukk, so we got someone who regrets not being able to chase pussy, and then we got another brah that regrets wasting time having to chase pussy

You guys got me all fukked up

I can confirm.

Don't chase it and make it your life long goal lol.It will lead to nothing good. The more you don't chase it the better you'll be with women and happier in life.

I'm not saying relationships are bad but don't get depressed being single. Enjoy it and do what you want when you want.

[AdamOm]

Not getting an A in every class I ever took. Its phucking easy, you just don't care to apply yourself.

[alphaqh4rd]

Not 30 but...

1) Not travelling more and backpacking...even if its 2 weeks at a time it's worth it and you won't be able to travel the same way when you're older.

2) Buying unnecessary ****

3)spending too much money on food.

4) Not working out more in my early 20's. A nice lean physique actually goes along way..aslong as your not super socially awkward

dam brah! gonna hit 30 this year and what you said hits me.

[twopiece]

Not getting an A in every class I ever took. Its phucking easy, you just don't care to apply yourself.

This is a good one. Uni/college seems like a fukking joke looking back

[naths]

Not 30 but...

1) Not travelling more and backpacking...even if its 2 weeks at a time it's worth it and you won't be able to travel the same way when you're older.

2) Buying unnecessary ****

3)spending too much money on food.

4) Not working out more in my early 20's. A nice lean physique actually goes along way..aslong as your not super socially awkward

My biggest regret is opening this thread

not taking care of myself better. I never seriously injured myself when lifting. Shoulder pain here and there and the occassion "oh chit...i went full potato" but its a learning experience.

My one tip to new lifters: DO NOT neglect your core. Ive always put up big numbers on lifts. 450+ on 1RM BP, shrugging 8 plates per side for 30-30 reps, 225 tricep dips (with me already at 240 lbs at the time) and still being able to run a sub 7" mile, I shied away from legs in general because of my low back issues and core work aggrivated it a lot. Now i'm paying for it. Ruptured L5/S1 in late 2012 and getting ready to find out what surgery i will need next

Fukk, so what I've gathered thus far:

Travel, don't buy unneccesary chit, don't spend money on food, work out more, don't open some misc threads, take care of yourself, work on your abs, and work on your legs.

So far so good. Learning lots of new things today.

Edit: also - get A's in class, don't spend too much time dealing with bitches chit, it doesn't matter if you're single.

Ps. Been with the same girl since I was 18 as well brahs, so single chit doesn't make sense to me.

[RuleFive]

You're 22, so I'm assuming you already have finished undergrad by now?

I'm not a brah, but my biggest regret is not getting a technical degree. Got a BA in print journalism. The only saving grace is I had scholarships to pay for all of it, so I never had any debt for school.

So yeah, get a degree that's worth your time and money, and if you have a bachelors already, go for a Masters.

[Ace Corona]

Just turned 45 in January, my biggest regrets are partying too much in my twenties and going to jail and prison, and not going to college sooner.

[naths]

Just turned 45 in January, my biggest regrets are partying too much in my twenties and going to jail and prison, and not going to college sooner.

AND don't go to jail and prison, but that kinda goes without saying, but thanks brah, likin the contributions.

You're 22, so I'm assuming you already have finished undergrad by now?

I'm not a brah, but my biggest regret is not getting a technical degree. Got a BA in print journalism. The only saving grace is I had scholarships to pay for all of it, so I never had any debt for school.

So yeah, get a degree that's worth your time and money, and if you have a bachelors already, go for a Masters.

Nah brudda, got two years to go, did 2 years of an electrical apprenticeship and then had dudes in the job telling me how depressed they were and how much they regret being a tradie, so I quit and went to uni for business, and then quit that and been loving life and uni doing an undergrad in CS (ICT) for the past two and a half years

Edit: and yeah I'm going for a masters, finish undergrad in a year though

[TheAmericano]

fukk, too much real life

Saw what you wrote op.

The issue with your situation is, it might not turn out the way it did for me.

- I've had friends who let go really good girls and now (24-26) are regretting it big time.

- It's easy for us to give you advice, we aren't the ones that are going to have to live with it. Hear what people have to say, but ultimately do what's best for you

not upset at all fella!

ur still getting negged though

I'll take the neg, maybe it will help you unrustle your jam jams

no worries

[mudrock]

i regret nothing.

i made my bed so i'm gonna sleep in it until i get a better one

[MadDocker]

Not pulling my head in earlier and getting my finances sorted. All that money you piss up the wall on stupid chit could pay a good chunk off a mortgage or be invested. (Not saying be a scrooge. Just think about it before you update your electronics every year or drop a few hundred at the club etc.)

Caring what other people think so much. Just go about your business and be yourself. Don't be a jerk but don't try and change yourself to suit other people. You'll learn to know yourself and gravitate towards people that are similar or suited to you. You'll be happier than trying to put on some facade and be something you're not.

[naths]

Saw what you wrote op.

The issue with your situation is, it might not turn out the way it did for me.

- I've had friends who let go really good girls and now (24-26) are regretting it big time.

- It's easy for us to give you advice, we aren't the ones that are going to have to live with it. Hear what people have to say, but ultimately do what's bet for you




I'll take the neg, maybe it will help you unrustle your jam jams

no worries

Mainly it's due to the fact that we are different people, COMPLETELY different people, but chit happens brah

yes edited this my friend