No ED. depression causes lack of appetite so that's my reason. What you said makes a lot of sense. I'm working with a psychiatrist and she's monitoring my meds and weight. I've gained 1 lb since last week and hope to continue. Thanks for your message.
To the other poster. I think the NC will hopefully give me time to adjust to new meds and become more stable. Now that it has been a few days, I don't even know if I'm interested... I'll see in a bit. He was a cool dude, but oh well. Ultimately he's not what I'm looking for.
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02-02-2016, 09:55 AM #31not sure if female miscer or troll
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02-02-2016, 10:08 AM #32
Why is that?
You seem like a really genuine, deep-feeling, seeking type of person. I wish you the best, and I say this from that standpoint- if a guy I had just started talking to leaned on me to be his emotional support so early on like you did, I would bail, because it's extremely draining to be around a person like that.
When you are in a tough spot & need to vent, go to either a best friend or a trusted family member...someone who has known you for many years and who can support you in the ways you need it. Someone you just met cannot [and often will not] do so, because there is no history or investment. It just comes off as unstable, you know what I mean?
I know you're working on getting better, but you have to cultivate boundaries with people you just meet, so you don't scare them off...boundaries as in, just get to know them as a person, for the POSITIVES, and leave the more intense, private issues for a later date [because these can shape a person's view of you, and you are NOT depression...you may be in a depressed state, but that is not the sum of you, and therefore, you don't want to make that the sole focus of what others see...]7:1
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02-03-2016, 10:38 AM #33
There's a lot of reasons. The #1 being that he is just now getting out of a LTR is is not ready for an emotional situation. He told me that he was having a hard time being there for his long term best friends, so a new person doesn't stand a chance. After his LTR he allowed himself to have feelings for another person and she left him. So really there is no place in his life for someone like me. On the flip side, I'm not sure there is room in my life for him either... I have depression but he has his own stuff going on. Everyone brings some sort of "baggage" to the table. I have not necessarily seen his side of that, but he has seen the worst of me.
Additional complicating factors: he's going to have an "ex-wife" (going through a divorce), has a young child, and is a little bit older than I am.
I think we are just going to let this go, especially now I think I have a just a little bit of distance from the situation. Like really, what did either of us expect...? It is kinda hurtful because I think we both really liked each other, but the timing/logistics are unfortunate. He has more experience so I think he saw where this was headed before I did and called it quits sooner rather than later.not sure if female miscer or troll
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02-03-2016, 12:51 PM #34
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02-04-2016, 09:11 AM #39
It just builds off the depression
Depression makes it physically hard to get out of bed. Over sleep, move slow, rush out, miss breakfast. Too depressed to eat at lunch, maybe eat a small snack... come home, don't have energy to grocery shop or cook... go to sleep or eat something like yogurt or cereal.
Just an example. Repeat that for a couple of years on and off and you end up with my stats.
New meds have been helping me have more energy so I have been eating more and doing more... unfortunately it kept me up last night so my routine is a bit off for today. Feel bad buy I will make the most of it and get back on track for friday...
Talking to someone I like but he hasn't responded since yesterday. Lol. It's such a stupid cycle. I didn't do anything stupid with him though.not sure if female miscer or troll
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02-04-2016, 09:22 AM #40
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02-07-2016, 08:56 AM #43
Sounds like he is rebounding and you missy need to get yourself together before going forward with anyone. I honestly don't know if this can be fixed because your emotional breakdown made you look kind of cray. But...good news there are a lot of other people out there. I think you are just infatuated at this point. Good luck!
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02-07-2016, 01:08 PM #44
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02-14-2016, 02:28 PM #47
You'd be draining to date, and he probably picked up on that and went for the hills.
Two lifelessons from this:
- never ever ever text anyone you're interested in seeing when going through one of your depression spells. Nothing good can come of it. Maybe instead you can write them a letter but then never send it. Or an email and never press send.
- don't tell people about your depression issues until you feel the relationship has potential. This usually means at least after a few dates. You don't owe them anything.Bish Don't Kill my Vibe
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02-14-2016, 02:50 PM #48
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02-14-2016, 03:12 PM #49
I'm going to tell you how to salvage this.
Tell him you're sorry, you were immature and childish, blame it on PMS and too much alcohol
Ask him if he'd allow you to treat him to dinner as an apology.
Dress super sexy, show some cleavage, wear a dress, perfume, the works.
When he talks about things, just agree completely and fake interest, his hobbies are yours. So much in common
Then you have to make out with him but not give him the sex.
After that you can go back to being crazy, just make sure you give him something to look forward to in these bs dates.
You're welcome
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