Do girls realize how easy it is for them to get dates/guys/sex? (srs)

[KMadigan777]

On some level do they ACTUALLY know their power? It is hard to deal with when they are crying about how hard is it to find a guy. Do any of the girls out there realize all you have to do is ask a guy and you can get a date/boyfriend or anything? (Srs)

[benyu]

yes but they will be labelled as sluts and a high percentage of them dont want to be called that

[DrLoveMisc]

Women don't just want dates with any men.

They want dates with non needy, real, high value, mysterious, wealthy, no sexually fustrated, busy, fun, good looking men that are desired/chased by other women which feelings towards these women are "unclear".

Since these men are rare. Women have no power at all. On the opposite, these men have all the power.

[Tiffany Wantsmore]

It's easy to get sex, yeah. But if a girl approached a guy for sex he'd automatically assume she was a sloot and wouldn't gf her, which defeats the object.

Because men's primary aim is sex, they think women's is the same. It's not.

[1F8LTime]

On some level do they ACTUALLY know their power? It is hard to deal with when they are crying about how hard is it to find a guy. Do any of the girls out there realize all you have to do is ask a guy and you can get a date/boyfriend or anything? (Srs)

The problem with women in my social circle who I have dated in the past, it's easy to see why women have this issue. Women are attracted to the alpha male while hoping he one day develops beta qualities, they love the challenge to "try to change him or train him" and an alpha male doesn't change for a female. The beta guy on paper is everything she is looking for but the alpha male is what she is attracted to. The reason they can't find a guy is because they want the best of both worlds. They eventually get fed up with the alpha ways and settle for a beta, but then there is no longer a challenge with the beta male, it becomes boring so they run back after the alpha. It's just a cycle that keeps repeating itself over and over!

[WaterPlease7]

Lol that's if you just wanna have temporary company with any dude...Who cares, if that's not what you're looking for?
If there's one guy in particular that you like, you surely don't have 100% chance to end up in a relationship with him.

[KMadigan777]

But its a catch 22, girls 'want' the guy who is unattainable and any guy who goes up to talk to her demonstrates a lower value because he is chasing her thus NOT unattainable.

[MajesticLion]

They can get those things with ease, of course they know. The thing is, those things aren't what they truly want.

Whether or not they're prepared to pay the price for what they want, to sacrifice some things in order to gain others, is where the whole scheme falls apart.

[AlterBrah]

Also men never listen to what women say they want. 100% of the time they are not sure and their moods change at the snap of their fingers.

[zebraman12]

It is hard for a male to truly grasp how many dicks are thrown at hot females every single day, week, year, etc. For this exact reason, I could only respect a woman who isn't slutty and who have respected themselves and their body.

My favorite is "the past is the past." Maybe they're right, but I'm not going to work for something that the guy at the bar bought for $4.00 and spit hot smoke in your ear for about 45 minutes.

[Nicklol]

you have to be jesus christ to get a girlfriend srs

[deadliftbrah19]

Women don't just want dates with any men.

They want dates with non needy, real, high value, mysterious, wealthy, no sexually fustrated, busy, fun, good looking men that are desired/chased by other women which feelings towards these women are "unclear".

Since these men are rare. Women have no power at all. On the opposite, these men have all the power.

Exactly. We have a ton of men barking up our tree for sex, but it doesn't give us any power other than to say "only if you take me to a 5 star restaurant" and a desperate enough guy will. But women don't want just random sex with a different guy every night, unless she's going through a full sloot phase.

It's easy to get sex, yeah. But if a girl approached a guy for sex he'd automatically assume she was a sloot and wouldn't gf her, which defeats the object.

Because men's primary aim is sex, they think women's is the same. It's not.

Exactly, because women can get pregnant and no birth control is 100%, her primary aim is a relationship with a man she is attracted to and can have a future with.

Also men never listen to what women say they want. 100% of the time they are not sure and their moods change at the snap of their fingers.

This is the Borderline women you date who don't go into Dialectical Behavioral Therapy. They are all over the place so of course they change their mind every 5 minutes. If you know women who have been married 20+ years, you'll see they don't do this.

[Enguin]

It's easy to get sex, yeah. But if a girl approached a guy for sex he'd automatically assume she was a sloot and wouldn't gf her, which defeats the object.

Because men's primary aim is sex, they think women's is the same. It's not.

Never thought a woman who approached me was a sloot, except for one, but I was fairly confident she was well before she made her way to me. I wasn't attracted to most, I would've accepted about 70% of offers at the time if it had just been handled differently, some of the chit women said tripped me the fuk out.

Most men are not used to women approaching, a lot of men have insecurities issues in todays day and age for obvious reasons, so if a woman approaches them the men will talk themselves out of it. If a persons confident or experienced with women this isn't an issue, although they may in that case see it as easy and think shes a sloot.

Average guy is open to fuk the majority of women, but average guy isn't prepared either for a normal womans approach in atypical social settings.

Aka: Men barely require an ice-breaker but they still often do, most women stand a chance with a most men if they do so.

[EctoPlasmic217]

Ya if you are a guy, it sucks how you are not supposed and are expected to embrace having to lead, taking the lead

[fatheroflifting]

Should've just said dates OP.. now they're all going to focus only on the sex part of your question. Girls want dates. Girls can get dates any time they want. That's what OP really wants to know.

Like a few others have said, girls only want dates with a few guys, the ones that others girls already have. She knows she could easily get dates anytime with a flock of 7/10 males. She doesn't want that though until she feels her clock ticking.

[BigTimePlayer]

Should've just said dates OP.. now they're all going to focus only on the sex part of your question. Girls want dates. Girls can get dates any time they want. That's what OP really wants to know.

Like a few others have said, girls only want dates with a few guys, the ones that others girls already have. She knows she could easily get dates anytime with a flock of 7/10 males. She doesn't want that though until she feels her clock ticking.

Pretty much this. If a woman is in her late 20s/early 30s & still single, than she may settle for whomever is available to her in that moment just so she can settle down & have kids. I feel bad for those guys though since he may never be smart enough to know that she settled for him due to her clock ticking.

[SwimLiftRunGrl]

I disagree. I asked this guy at work (41 year old computer nerd) to go have lunch and he said no. We both work in the same position. Before anyone say anything, we are both average looking. So it is not always easy for women to find a good guy.

[MeFromG]

On some level do they ACTUALLY know their power? It is hard to deal with when they are crying about how hard is it to find a guy. Do any of the girls out there realize all you have to do is ask a guy and you can get a date/boyfriend or anything? (Srs)

More importantly, do you realize that sex ist not everything, or "having a bf" just for the sake of saying this sentence to someone else?! And do you realize that chemistry is rare and you don't encounter it in every person crossing your way? And even if you encounter it, there are often trillions of problems, issues, obstacles that can / may outnumber chemistry easily and stop people from being together.

[Enguin]

^ chemistry isn't rare.
There's just a lot of people to consider.

[deadliftbrah19]

On some level do they ACTUALLY know their power? It is hard to deal with when they are crying about how hard is it to find a guy. Do any of the girls out there realize all you have to do is ask a guy and you can get a date/boyfriend or anything? (Srs)

You're 30, most women your age if they are single, they either have children or they are looking to get married quickly.

They don't really want the cawk carousel, so even though we get blasted with cawk pics and a ton of offers for sex, only escorts would be really happy with that. 99% of other women over 30 are say "go away bad dream".

[Fang2]

On some level do they ACTUALLY know their power? It is hard to deal with when they are crying about how hard is it to find a guy. Do any of the girls out there realize all you have to do is ask a guy and you can get a date/boyfriend or anything? (Srs)

Instead of rambling about girls on the misc, why don't you go out and talk to some of these girls?

You're 30, most women your age if they are single, they either have children or they are looking to get married quickly.

They don't really want the cawk carousel, so even though we get blasted with cawk pics and a ton of offers for sex, only escorts would be really happy with that. 99% of other women over 30 are say "go away bad dream".

True for some, not for others.

[joshewwah]

Its easy for them to get trash, but for females to actually want to get the alpha males it will be next to impossible.

Not everyone is destined to get what they want, not everyone becomes rich, not everyone gets their perfect alpha male/perfect female partner, not everyone is lucky to be blessed with genetics, not everyone is lucky in general

I lol @ people wanting to reach the top when only a few will ever get there

[SwiftRick]

It's also because of this that a lot of girls have dull personalities.

I think of it as a blessing that guys have to approach girls and take the lead.

Self Improvement has caused me to be more charismatic, personable and actually pick up interesting hobbies.

You have nothing to gain when things are easy

[BigTimePlayer]

You're 30, most women your age if they are single, they either have children or they are looking to get married quickly.

They don't really want the cawk carousel, so even though we get blasted with cawk pics and a ton of offers for sex, only escorts would be really happy with that. 99% of other women over 30 are say "go away bad dream".

Sadly that's true about single women around 30 already having kids, been through a divorce or want to get with a beta provider since her biological clock is ticking. It's hard for single men in that age range to find a good woman unless he decides to get with a woman 5 to 7 years younger than him.

[fatheroflifting]

I disagree. I asked this guy at work (41 year old computer nerd) to go have lunch and he said no. We both work in the same position. Before anyone say anything, we are both average looking. So it is not always easy for women to find a good guy.

Men at 41 are a lot different to younger men so that's not a fair comparison. A lot of older men really couldn't give a **** about women or dating and would rather spend their time doing something else, not to mention they're usually simply just not attracted to women 30+ (no offence but yeah.. most of yous are not very attractive past that age so obviously we wouldn't be that keen anymore). This is more about people in their dating years.

[azakdan2682]

Women don't just want dates with any men.

They want dates with non needy, real, high value, mysterious, wealthy, no sexually fustrated, busy, fun, good looking men that are desired/chased by other women which feelings towards these women are "unclear".

Since these men are rare. Women have no power at all. On the opposite, these men have all the power.

What books did you read for dating? Your posts are always spot on.

[CheeseFreak]

No. Not when we don't have very high self-esteem

[karatewoman]

This is silly and sells out men. Not all men are easy and will take whatever comes. Some of them also have standards and need more than two legs and a heartbeat. Rare on this site, but more common IRL.

[DolphinPilot]

I've always maintained that women are fully comprehending that they have their pick of the litter. I like to think most men have lost out at one point or another because the girl has the impression she can do better.

[deadliftbrah19]

What books did you read for dating? Your posts are always spot on.

I've seen him turn his luck around in dating by a complete 180 as we are friends outside of bb.com.

This guy went and read books, watched videos and actually went out and learned something to get an attractive, quality girlfriend. Hats off to him over the cackeyes who just complain.