On Christmas eve she was ran over by a car and broke multiple bones in her left leg. She has been in the hospital ever since. To make matters worse I have just been gone for the last four days in NYC visiting my mom/dad for Christmas.
I'm planning on driving up and see her today after work and then she hits me with:
Text: "I'm actually pretty upset that you a re you more concerned about working then coming to see me after my 4th surgery.."
My response: "Well my boss needs me to be here. I'm going to come see you as soon as possible".
I think she meant "Working out" since she know's I'm going to the gym after work before going up to see her. but Haven't had a response yet.
Please advise me misc.
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12-28-2015, 11:22 AM #11 Mile 2 Mile 3 Mile FOUR
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Help with GF
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12-28-2015, 11:31 AM #2Wanker M8
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Fuk, your poor g/f. If I lived near I would go visit her myself.
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12-28-2015, 11:32 AM #31 Mile 2 Mile 3 Mile FOUR
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Originally Posted by jasonpourne
I've taken every day off of working out since last Monday. That's an entire fricken week.6'5 220
i can bench press 135 pounds on a good day
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12-28-2015, 11:33 AM #4Registered User
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Work i can understand, but why go work out after? Get to the hospital ASAP after work...
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12-28-2015, 11:33 AM #5Registered User
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inb4 tyrone and jamal alrdy there when you arrive
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12-28-2015, 11:33 AM #6Registered User
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Tell her to look both ways next time. J/k
If you see yourself with her long term then move mountains to be there at her side. Women are very big on you being there when they are in need of help. If you don't take the time to be at her side she will never forgive you brah.
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12-28-2015, 11:33 AM #7Registered User
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yer an *******
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12-28-2015, 11:36 AM #8Who's Highpitch??
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You love this girl or just bang her?
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12-28-2015, 11:37 AM #9Registered User
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actually OP you should def go to the gym first your upcoming 220 bench is too important
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12-28-2015, 11:37 AM #10Registered User
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Lol'd hard at working out before seeing her. I thought i was bad at some of the chit i do.
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12-28-2015, 11:38 AM #11Building my empire
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Gainz >> pussy
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12-28-2015, 11:40 AM #12Ex-Virgin
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This lmfaoOriginally Posted by Titansfan08
Next time tell her you had to stay late at work, hit the gym, then shower and change back to work clothes before you go see her.
Win winGoodbye fried rice, hello fried chicken!
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12-28-2015, 11:41 AM #131 Mile 2 Mile 3 Mile FOUR
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Well I'm dumber than rocks. But I really really really like her.Originally Posted by Titansfan08
Misc thinks I should skip the workout?6'5 220
i can bench press 135 pounds on a good day
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12-28-2015, 11:47 AM #14Registered User
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Originally Posted by MarinoMike
Skipping the workout shouldn't even be a question. Whether you should skip work is what you should be deciding.
If you told your boss "My gf got in a car accident on christmas and has had 4 surgeries, can I take the day off to go visit her" I'd be surprised if he/she said no, or at least didn't let you leave early.
Also if you're not willing to sacrifice a personal day or even a vacation day to see her after something like that happened, then she clearly doesn't mean that much to you.
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12-28-2015, 11:47 AM #151 Mile 2 Mile 3 Mile FOUR
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I texted her: but no respond. I think she may have gone in for surgery again.
6'5 220
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12-28-2015, 11:52 AM #16Registered User
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lol'd @ the 'would that make you feel better'. Should have left that part out OP.
inb4 rage from gf.
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12-28-2015, 11:57 AM #171 Mile 2 Mile 3 Mile FOUR
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Well thanks for your help black jesus.Originally Posted by bsarge1199
6'5 220
i can bench press 135 pounds on a good day
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12-28-2015, 12:00 PM #18drink more water
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lmao dude thats one of those "you know you're right, sorry, i'll head straight there"
swallow your pride if you actually care about her, she cared enough to tell you she's upset about it
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12-28-2015, 12:00 PM #19Saved
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Please be trolling.
Please be trolling.Jesus is my lifting partner.
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12-28-2015, 12:02 PM #20👀❤️🗽
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What hospital in New York op?? I'll see her for you.
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12-28-2015, 12:05 PM #21
OP, time to go NC. this sloot thinks her comfort is more important that your job and physical health.
her leg probably got broke while she was with Jamal anyways.
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12-28-2015, 12:05 PM #221 Mile 2 Mile 3 Mile FOUR
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No. Serious advice needed. She's 25 really successful is independent and makes lots of money (a little more than I do actually).Originally Posted by GreenWave1
And I'm 23, work in finance, and an idiot.
I care enough about her to make a friggen misc thread dude.
She know's I'm dumb when it comes to dealing with girls. But somehow she really likes me.
Told her I'll go straight up after work.6'5 220
i can bench press 135 pounds on a good day
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12-28-2015, 12:07 PM #23👀❤️🗽
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"would that make you feel better?"Originally Posted by MarinoMike
Dude you're seriously an ass hole.Really need a job crew
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12-28-2015, 12:10 PM #24drink more water
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yeah i'd probably apologize for that too, really uncalled forOriginally Posted by sices
just tell her you.. idk.. realized how rude that came off or something
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12-28-2015, 12:11 PM #25always sleeps with fan on
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Originally Posted by MarinoMike
Lol ok^ strong justification of sum chit ass judgement. You could hav @least omitted the pit stop 2gym einstein. Next time don't take so many days off for no rzn.. a week+ is not necessary unless u get deathly sik or i dno - get run over by a car and break a leg? Smha series of short tasks over a relatively longer period of time is life. altruistic light moves under the cover of your own darkness.. find this inner torch bearer and accompany them to the end. we all walk together, but we all walk alone. there is no understanding or purpose beyond that
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12-28-2015, 12:12 PM #26Registered User
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strong boyfriend OP...maybe that's a sign you don't really love her. My guess is that you won't hear the end of it...never ever..girls don't forget chit like that
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12-28-2015, 12:12 PM #27WTF man, do you even care about this girl?! Are you a sociopath. WTF am I reading, so many kunts on the misc this evening.Originally Posted by MarinoMike
She needs to break up with you over this, srs. Or you should do it, you clearly care very little for her.𝕮𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖈𝖍𝖊𝖈𝕶, 𝖓𝖊𝖛𝖊𝖗 𝖈𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖇𝖎𝖙𝖈𝖍
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12-28-2015, 12:14 PM #28Bastet's Dream
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What was wrong with seeing her after working out again? Didn't read
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12-28-2015, 12:15 PM #29Registered User
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"Would that make you feel better?"
Oh lawd. I feel like you mean the best, but you just go potato when trying to communicate it.And how can man die better, than facing fearful odds, for the ashes of his fathers, and the temples of his gods?
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12-28-2015, 12:16 PM #30Registered Miscer
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I hope you're bringing flowers, candy, and awful rom-coms, srs. may even need a teddy bear for mentioning the gym
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