Mum Keeps Insulting My Physique And It's Eating Away At My Self-Esteem

[cire96]

I totally relate and sympathize, I lost 50 lbs went to 202 in August, realized I had a lot of gaps in my build and the only way to look better was to build muscle. Also I was sick from dieting so much. People who don't work at it don't see that's what you do daily. I mean those who quit diets after 1 day, I keep at it all year and never stop. But I gained 30 lbs and have cut since Nov 1st, probably 210 or so, but I got fatter and it's like the world ended. Like look at yourself, are you one to judge? My dad has the biggest gut and he thinks cause he's skinny he's arnold.
Anyways the funny thing is when I get results I'm a genius and when I'm a work in progress i'm a fat failure.

Totally agree. I have no problem dealing with criticism, as long as it's from someone who knows what they're talking about. It's almost like a homeless man trying to teach a working class man, how to become a millionaire. It doesn't make sense.

[cire96]

Scoot into her bed as she's sleeping, carefully pull down her underwear and start dry humping her. Grab her by the tits and use your legs po keep her lower body still, keep dry humping her until you ejaculate. Kiss her on the back of the neck and leave the room without saying anything.

This is absolutely disgusting. Why would you suggest such a thing?

[CJdiverse]

call her a skinny kent

[BtchW8]

Totally agree. I have no problem dealing with criticism, as long as it's from someone who knows what they're talking about. It's almost like a homeless man trying to teach a working class man, how to become a millionaire. It doesn't make sense.

I would say a drug addict telling someone who wants to be clean how to do it.
The people who know what they're doing support you whilst the others who are clueless just try to bring you down. You're doing better than me if that helps, going to the gym soon to tear up that place like godzilla.

[elterrible987]

Currently, I'm in a bulking phase and my bodyfat is quite high, around 20% but I'm working on it. She keeps making fun of me, and saying that I look unhealthy and bloated all the time. She says that I should quit lifting weights and start doing only cardio. It's really eating away at my self-esteem now, because I'm comfortable the way I look and when I go out into public. But, after her comments, I'm starting to feel really insecure about myself. I came from a soccer/football background and when I started lifting, I was about 77 kilos at 18% bodyfat. Now I'm about 94 kilos at 20%. I really hate myself now, because I'm 19 and my mother treats me like I'm 12, she keeps telling me what I should be doing when I go to the gym, and how I should be working out, despite that she is 50 and terribly out of shape. I reminding her how poor her health is whenever she picks on me, but her deluded self, keeps saying that she's healthier than me. She is extremely fat, with high blood pressure, and at risk of diabetes. She eats very high GI carbohydrates like white rice etc. I don't know what to do guys, as I feel like I'm wasting my time at the gym if my mother thinks that I should quit my bodybuilding goals and instead become a weak, cardio-oriented person. It's not as if I don't do any cardio, I do about 30 mins of running as a warm-up and warm-down. Wut do?

Mother cant insult you if shes dead, nomsayin.

[cire96]

Just an update, mum will be cancelling my gym membership. Goodbye guys, looks like this is the end of bodybuilding for me. I will most likely be taking up jogging or something else as a hobby now. I'm sorry.

[Saiyamane]

Text her the eyes too far apart copypasta

[iTunesBrah]

Just an update, mum will be cancelling my gym membership. Goodbye guys, looks like this is the end of bodybuilding for me. I will most likely be taking up jogging or something else as a hobby now. I'm sorry.

lolwut

[Kwano]

Just an update, mum will be cancelling my gym membership. Goodbye guys, looks like this is the end of bodybuilding for me. I will most likely be taking up jogging or something else as a hobby now. I'm sorry.

Time for crossfit

[vulgarin]

stopped reading at 20%... bro if your 20% you don't lift. If your a lifter you cut to ~8-10% then bulk. Insulin sensitivity and **** will be better, you wont look like dog **** and you wont diabetus. srs.

[cire96]

stopped reading at 20%... bro if your 20% you don't lift. If your a lifter you cut to ~8-10% then bulk. Insulin sensitivity and **** will be better, you wont look like dog **** and you wont diabetus. srs.

Thanks for the info man, appreciate it.

[Shreder54]

Maybe you should try not being a little bitch.


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[BaconEggs]

Just an update, mum will be cancelling my gym membership. Goodbye guys, looks like this is the end of bodybuilding for me. I will most likely be taking up jogging or something else as a hobby now. I'm sorry.

Wat. You're 19 years old and your mum is paying for your gym membership? And your mum is bullying you? Toasting in a roll bread

[Unfinishedsenta]

Bang her mom, that's the only way to get back at her.

[Sanguivorant]

Tell her this and she'll shut up:


Your eyes are too far apart. Nose is definitely crooked. The shape of your face is not aesthetically pleasing at all. You look like a 3/10 with make up in this photo. I don't even want to imagine what you look like without make up. I actually just threw up in my mouth, just thinking about it. Your head is too big (although that may be, because of your giraffe neck posture) . As for your hair, lol. Seriously, do something. You look like a horse. Stare at your face for more than 5 seconds, and you will see how ugly you are. The eyes which are too far apart is what ruins /damages an already ugly face even further. Unfortunately for you, that can't be surgically fixed, lol. You arms are way too long. lol at how they hang by your sides. Kind of reminds me of lurch. Don't even let me start on your pale complexion. It only works if you look hot. Unfortunately, you do not look hot. Its hard to sum up a creature like you in one word. 'UGLY ' would be unfair , since it doesn't reflect how repulsive you look. GROTESQUE is stretching it. But somewhere in between, is where you would be, on the scale of an average man. I'm sorry if my words seem a little harsh. Just so you know, I sugar coated this post as much as possible.

[ineedadrink]

So you're fat and your mom is calling you fat. I don't see the problem here. What else should she call you?

[whysodirty]

bulking above 15% is a horrible idea

listen to ur mom and do some cardio/eat less.

[Train57]

Scoot into her bed as she's sleeping, carefully pull down her underwear and start dry humping her. Grab her by the tits and use your legs po keep her lower body still, keep dry humping her until you ejaculate. Kiss her on the back of the neck and leave the room without saying anything.

[Menark]

Going to the gym is a lifestyle and you will be doing it forever. It was your choice and seeing as you are 19 its probably time you move out of home and do what you want rather than listen to what your parents say.

[TheBulker]

Just cut...srs

[-Lucifer]

She's doing you a favor. Are you using "special supplements"? If not you're not getting any advantages being this fat, just building up a long term plan to attain heart disease and clogged arteries.

This. Lose all that lard, OP. Get angry at yourself and not at your mom.

[umadbroski]

hate smash your mom.

[vulgarin]

Shoo shoo gains goblin!

[jakesonyou69]

Your own mother shouldn't be flat out insulting you about your weight ever, and she's clearly pretty ignorant when it comes to lifting, but do consider what she's saying to a very small extent. I recommend knocking off that dreamer bulk crap, dude, srs.

It's tempting as all hell to just say screw it and dirty bulk big time, seeing the strength gains and mass come that much easier than doing so at a slower pace to reduce fat gain in the process. That said, I don't think this is worth it, unless your goal is to become a fat power lifter. If you neglect cardio/moderate healthy-ish diet and worry mostly about just lifting long enough, it gets tough to get back into fat loss mode, and keeping the gains while cutting isn't the easiest thing in the world, especially if doing a serious cut and/or remaining natty forever.



Cliffs -

Ignore what she's saying to insult you as much as you can, and don't bother trying to educate her, as that is 99.9% most likely a complete waste of time and effort.

Seriously consider balancing your workout routine out a bit more so you don't end up a fat, bloated mess who happens to have some heavy big 3 lifts. Unless you're cool with being an overweight power lifter, of course, then that's your call.

[ballzofpeaze]

lol at bulking past 15% bodyfat. what are you doing with your life. listen to your mum

This lol

[Gui524]

She's actually spitting the truth OP, at 20% no natty lifter looks good, you're just a big blob, cut to a decent BF if you are serious about lifting

[tom11]

Scoot into her bed as she's sleeping, carefully pull down her underwear and start dry humping her. Grab her by the tits and use your legs po keep her lower body still, keep dry humping her until you ejaculate. Kiss her on the back of the neck and leave the room without saying anything.

i have a rock solid boner now

[cire96]

She's actually spitting the truth OP, at 20% no natty lifter looks good, you're just a big blob, cut to a decent BF if you are serious about lifting

Will do. Thanks for your comment.

[PeteJonesHTX]

shoo shoo gains goblin!

[cire96]

Your own mother shouldn't be flat out insulting you about your weight ever, and she's clearly pretty ignorant when it comes to lifting, but do consider what she's saying to a very small extent. I recommend knocking off that dreamer bulk crap, dude, srs.

It's tempting as all hell to just say screw it and dirty bulk big time, seeing the strength gains and mass come that much easier than doing so at a slower pace to reduce fat gain in the process. That said, I don't think this is worth it, unless your goal is to become a fat power lifter. If you neglect cardio/moderate healthy-ish diet and worry mostly about just lifting long enough, it gets tough to get back into fat loss mode, and keeping the gains while cutting isn't the easiest thing in the world, especially if doing a serious cut and/or remaining natty forever.



Cliffs -

Ignore what she's saying to insult you as much as you can, and don't bother trying to educate her, as that is 99.9% most likely a complete waste of time and effort.

Seriously consider balancing your workout routine out a bit more so you don't end up a fat, bloated mess who happens to have some heavy big 3 lifts. Unless you're cool with being an overweight power lifter, of course, then that's your call.

Thanks for the advice I really appreciate it. I will now take a healthier approach to building muscle. Thank you again.