Seriously depressed, GF of 6 years of whom we have a daughter cheated on me (SRS)

[SydneyJunkie]

Whatever you do brah, don't make excuses for her, you did nothing wrong. Your and my story is so similar. Had one kid w my ex, she cheated. I was devestated and kept asking myself what I could have done better when I wasn't at fault. We got back together, had another child and she pulled the same bs. Now I have two young children w a broken family being raised by a fkn whore who has no business teaching children anything. Keep your head up and don't quit your hobbies. It's gonna hurt like hell for a while but you WILL get over it. Stay safe.

how the fuk do you ninjas just pop out children with loose screw headed bishes? seriously like the first one ok **** happens. but AGAIN. DO YOU EVEN BRAIN? makes no fkin sense to me i swear

[FuqurLs]

How old are you?

Judging from the fact that OP has a daughter a couple of years old...I would say a fair bit older than you lol.

[Jibt3ch]

In fir later

[achillesbruh]

You cheated, she cheated, your fukd. The moment you decided to bone another girl is the moment you threw the relationship out the window and you very well know that and should accept the consequences. pull yourself together and be a good dad. Look at the bright side now you get the chance to bang random sloots maybe even find a better step mom.

[achillesbruh]

Dont want to think of this .. Anyways I made my decision and decided to move on.. Thats the best thing I made a list of good and bad about being with her and i believe this will be the best.. on top of that she has like 20k debt and 4-5 maxed out CC

Lmfao Fuk yea op. Strong personal finances.

[Zoool]

lol at the op hinting he "wasnt a good father/bf" but not saying it outright until his cheating etc gets detectived

sorry you feel like chit op but its your damn fault. already posted about cheating on her, talking to other girls, going out without her multiple nights a week when you have a kid etc.


no surprise she found someone else and left. you goofed hard. man up accept the consequences and do the best for child.

[Zoool]

Whatever you do brah, don't make excuses for her, you did nothing wrong. Your and my story is so similar. Had one kid w my ex, she cheated. I was devestated and kept asking myself what I could have done better when I wasn't at fault. We got back together, had another child and she pulled the same bs. Now I have two young children w a broken family being raised by a fkn whore who has no business teaching children anything. Keep your head up and don't quit your hobbies. It's gonna hurt like hell for a while but you WILL get over it. Stay safe.

Lmfao miscer logic of peace.


some of you are fukking hopeless.

[achillesbruh]

You got some issues Man, I think you need some counseling
To help your ass from bouncing off the walls when you get down some
I really think you and your girlfriend need each other
Or maybe you just need to treat her better
I hope you get to read this letter, I just hope it reaches you in time
Before you hurt yourself, I think that you'll be doin' just fine

[corvade]

You got some issues Man, I think you need some counseling
To help your ass from bouncing off the walls when you get down some
I really think you and your girlfriend need each other
Or maybe you just need to treat her better
I hope you get to read this letter, I just hope it reaches you in time
Before you hurt yourself, I think that you'll be doin' just fine

moms spaghetti

[rightinthefeels]

You're in a pickle OP.

If you stay, she won't respect you.

Your relationship with her will never be the same regardless of whatever you decide to do.

Also, don't let that girl tell you it was your fault she cheated. She cheated because she wanted to.

My advice: sort out legal issues (custody, child support), keep contact with her as little as possible, keep lifting, GTFOW (go fuk ten other women), don't get married, spin multiple plates.

At the end of the day, you are a man and you have full control over your life. Find peace in that power. A lot of guys have felt, and will continue to feel your pain. Keep your head up.

[OneManArmy13]

Dude, you did it first lol

[JD805]

Tim to move on OP. Cheating is something a man should never forgive.

[GodbeBryant]

she kicked you out of the room? lol it's HER house?

you cheated then she cheated with the trainer? he probs had a better body too lmao

op is a cuck, no sympathy from me.

[Fang2]

lmfao this is why I'm a personal trainer at a gym.

I f*ck so many girlfriends/wives of people like this pathetic OP.

I can't stop laughing. "I haven't been the best BF"

Guess what? My shoulder was the perfect place for her to rest her weary head.

her pussy was the juiciest place for me to slide my trouser snake into.

haha OP if it makes you feel better that stupid ugly b*tch was crying half the time we were f*cking. Although that might be from the anal. Not sure.

Anyways. Keep em coming gents.

Insecure pieces of sh*t who don't look good at all people like OP make me life so easy.

[travis976]

Look at the hate we're breeding
Look at the fear we're feeding
Look at the lives we're leading
The way we've always done before

[SadBoys]

lol at your beta ass trying to make her look bad and never mentioning your cheating until misc busted your pathetic ass. Yeah, she is at fault for cheating but you are even bigger scum for doing it first

[p7nk]

Opie treats gf like ****, gf sucks the cock of the first guy who treats her nice.. this story is refreshing and new.

[NoobGains23]

Me and my trainer ain't nothin' but mammals so lets do it like they do on the discovery channel.

[SUR14]

Kick her out the fukking house or leave and go some where else. Let her be and just focus on your daughter.

[XwakarimasenX]

misc username : al****orilla

So, im a personal trainer at this gym, and this chick subscribed to the gym with this guy, (which I thought was her gay best friend) and we start getting close after just a couple of sessions while her bf keeps mean mugging us from accross the smith machine where he is benching 135lb for a 1 max rep, which should be a body weight bench for him,

-anyway, she tells me "my bf wants us to stop trainning bc he is jelous"
and i tell her, "im a sik kunt m8, I can over head press your bf for reps if I want to"


- I tell her to tell her bf that she went to a friends just to have a chat

-
- I txt her " I just got home" tonight.. but I think she and her beta bf weve been togheter all day
- her beta bf that can barely bench 135lb text back from her phone " How did you find it last night ?" because he suspected something when she left for the day for the chat with the friend.
- I texts back "im glad you came, and i came on your face "
- She later that night txted me that her bf lost it kicked the door open slammed the lights on and was in tears, got her to admit she went to my house and let me clap dem cheeks while bustin in her suga walls.
-bottom line is, she left him and is comming over tonight for round 5, while her Bf is cryin while fisting himself


My name is Chad



lol

[NoobGains23]

What goes around cums around.
Just so happened it was Chad who came around your girls mouth.

[fknmisc]

UPDATE : - Im still in shock about everything, I tried to make things better since last night, doing beta stuff.. Im really not a romantic type of guy or anything, etc.. sometimes i used to do small gestures here and there and would really love and appreciate it..

- She told me this weekend she doesnt have feelings for me anymore and doesnt love me, she said she still cares about me only for the fact im her daughters father and cares about whatever happens.. blah blah bs and i asked if she did for the gym trainer or ivan, she told me she did.. I think its truly done and theres nothing i can really do, i mean she has the upper hand, shes cold and feels no remorse about the cheating and even after with whats going on with my dad and all, after balling out to her..

- worst part is the gym trainer isnt even remotely aesthetic, hes alot older like in early- mid thirsties, almost balding, skinny barely looks like he lift, kind of dorky.. But I wont lie he seems like genuine good guy..

I know most of you will probably neg/insult me for doing this but IDC, im doing what I FEEL is right.. even my own friends advised against this.. So she went to her parents last night (Unfortunately her parents hate me now because she told them everything, well her side, mostly for letting them down)

- ANOTHER HARD THING IS.. we live togheter, and at my parents.. were both students, 24 and im 25 in our last years of school, im graduating UNI this summer, and shes graduating a trade at the end of summer.. ( she did another trade before but didnt like her job) We basically have no choice to still live together because of $$..

She can't go back to her parents because theres no room and she doesnt get along very well with them and i dont want to kick her out because of the following reasons:
- I wont see my daughter anymore or as i would like to, neither will my parents it will crush them, they are all very close even my ex with my parents
- my parents still think were togheter, dont wanna break the news, this will really really hurt my parents, especially my dad with his weak health ( my dad always asks me to have more kids, get married, etc) stop fkking around , etc..

--> now the really painful part is im gonna still see her everyday, no choice, and even sleep in the same bed as her knowing shes getting fked by another guy :'( .. She insists for me to sleep on the couch but I have back pains

So i prepped this before she came home and wrote some beta cringe stuff ( Basically a description from the beginning of 6 years from when i met her until now and how we grew apart) shes also a huge about flowers and chocolate.. Honestly even this summer we were fine.. She admited what really was the nail was the fact I went to Cuba but what is done is done..

Any Girl miscers advice would be really appreciate it, some srs.. I really want to try and make it work if its even remotely possible, srs..It's my fault i pushed her to do what she did, i got what was coming.. only thing i could do is try to wipe the slate clean and move on for my daughter, even if theres a remote chance of getting back togheter.

**BTW ITS NOT AN ENGAGEMENT RING, ITS A PROMISE RING I BOUGHT FOR HER FOR LAST CHRISTMAS THAT SHE STOPPED WEARING **




Picture of our baby shower



Her Reaction:

- "What is all this ?"
-"This is too little too late, not gonna change anything"
-"Shrugs and walks away, doesnt even bother to look at anything"
- I asked her to at least take a look, after going back and forth a few times i finally get her to look
- " Replies : Thanks for all this but this doesnt change anything" even while laughing at some of the stuff i wrote.. which before she used to find these things "cute"
-Basically cold and tells me im pushing too much, to give her space


So for the rest of the night I just left her be, I sit on the opposite end of the couch and notice her texting Ivan the gym trainer, so to train and get my mind off, i Start texting my friends,other people etc.. It worked for the most part, I felt like I was getting over..

Anyways I Even more stupidly and beta, I decided to wake up extra early this morning around 5 30 (which i think im gonna try doing every morning from now on, mostly for my daughter) to make everybody breakfast, eggs, bacon and bagel with OJ.

Her reaction : - WTF are you doing up, go back to bed

- I replied : " look i know you want your space, but given the circumstances Im gonna try to be a better father for our daughter and be more present" ( which is true as well)

- daughter is joyful, btw is 4 years old, doesnt notice like anything is going on between us.. but i feel the tension, coldness, like she doesn't wanna sit beside me, in a disgusted kind of way

- doesnt say thank you for breakfast, nothing.. only eats her bagel, complains egg is too soggy..

- now breaking down again as im typing all this, Basically since friday Night i had about maybe 5 hours of sleep, srs

** Anyways I keep telling myself I dont deserve this, even if hypothetically in a week or a month if she wants to get back my answer should be NO especially for this, because who knows maybe she can do this again in 5-10 years ? But the truth this im really hoping for her to come back.. even if it means being a different person for the rest of my life SRS

[fknmisc]

Bump for any advice, feedback, in put

[Artyforever]

Dude she's just not worth it.

[requital]

it's over. you will live a life of misery and be a cuck for the rest of your days if she suddenly had a change of heart, which she will not. let it serve as a lesson that you cannot just do as you please because it is very easy for some people to cut you out completely. she will continue to get dicked by ivan while you jerk off in the corner, grow a pair.

[Marie646]

Bump for any advice, feedback, in put

Christ it's too early for this. I'm going to pm this thread to a few miscers in the RH section. If that's ok?

[CXVII]

Bump for any advice, feedback, in put

Take it to RH brah...

[fknmisc]

it's over. you will live a life of misery and be a cuck for the rest of your days if she suddenly had a change of heart, which she will not. let it serve as a lesson that you cannot just do as you please because it is very easy for some people to cut you out completely. she will continue to get dicked by ivan while you jerk off in the corner, grow a pair.

You are probably right like most miscers, and this would probably be the same advice i would tell any other miscer.. I always used to misc and brows these type of threads and never thought it would happen to me srs.. My gf was loyal, never did anything, never lied, never wronged.. EVERYTHING just happened so fast this week..

Its very different when your living it first hand man.. We literally almost see each other every day for the past 6 years, a little less this past year but for the most part yes.. yes like any other couple shared alot of magicaly moments, etc.. we have a family, man shes closed to my family, my parents, my cousin ( theyre all married in their 30s with kids the same age as my daughter) so shes like kind of closer with them than even me..

Literally I deserve this, she was a great woman srs, always welcomed me home with open arms, dinner on the table, came to see me when i was studying, always texts me how my day was going, literally any guy could asked for.. never talked to any other guys NOT even as guy friends.. She was perfect. Even as recently since the last several months i tried doing better, helping her out more around the house, making dinners etc.. it didnt matter to her

[fknmisc]

Christ it's too early for this. I'm going to pm this thread to a few miscers in the RH section. If that's ok?

Sure, I appreciate anything at this point.. literally anything..

I mean its still possible for couples/parents to get back togheter right even if one doesnt have feelings for the other.. they can always come back.. ? ( I watched some vids on relationship stages on youtube, srs)

[fknmisc]

I Could post.. the "vows" if anyone wants to cringe at me.. Showed it to a couple of other girl.. friends ( Literally just friends from school ) and they all told me they cried.. srs

Kind of hesistating because theres alot of personal chit in there..