Misc I saw another guy kiss my gf, I need your opinion [SRS] [GTFIH]

[Swimstrong]

sup misc hope you had a good halloween

so I took my gf to a party my friends were throwing last night, there were probably 20 of us (all athletes) but then a bunch of acquaintance-type people showed up.
she played a bunch of beer pong early on when she was meeting all the athletic girls so she got wasted pretty quick, but thats fine
most of the night we were just chillin with the other people my year and suddenly theres this awkward beta **** that sits beside her and starts giving her water

and at this point i'm thinking, this **** is great, someones making sure she doesn't get ****ed and I can go talk to people and generally enjoy the party. of course I hang out with her as well but this **** is always sitting right beside, third wheeling while me and the gf are making out and she's talking about how she wants to phuck when we get home

so fast forward to 1:05am, I call a cab cuz delays are long and I wanna get home and smash. gf comes all on me in the bathroom like "i want to sleep in your bed, i want you to take all my clothes off", i notice she's like really horny but knowing her a large portion of it is the alcohol. so while we're waiting for the cab the party is dying out, hosts have to kick a couple ****heads out and i'm good friends with the hosts (they had me over for my college recruiting trip) so I start to help clean up. my gf is over talking to some randoms and i come and see her, seems all good, just a bunch of phucks shooting the chit. I notice this beta phuck is back again and he has since texted me gf, just a bunch of **** like "Are you gonna get home okay? Please be safe." general beta chit, I kiss her etc, go back to cleaning.

I walk back through the hallway again and I see her and beta talking, he's on the way out with all his fuks. I walk the other way through the hallway so i'm like behind her, and next thing I see this ******* leaned in and kissed my girl, and immediately I'm ****ing pissed. ******* makes his exit but I go up to my gf like "WTF was that?"

she says "he kissed me", etc, now misc I was in an intoxicated state at this point but when I see my girl kissing another guy (this has never happened before, i'm her first kiss first bang first anything... dating since she was grade 11, 2 years and 1 month) all I see is red. Suddenly she starts crying these crazy tears, but I dont want to be phucking cucked so I tell her I'm not taking her home, we're dropping her off at her place with the cab but she's telling me how she loves me, she wants to go home with me because i'm special to her and she wants me, all that chit.

Now misc this girl is not very open about her emotions (hence why i was her first kiss/bf despite her being grade 11 and good looking) so all I'm thinking right now is that shes saying all this chit because she knows she fuked up. We start talking outside and she goes on about how she ****ing loves me, how it wasn't her fault because he kissed her. then she gets all pissed at me because i don't trust her in this situation that he kissed her. misc i acknowledge i wasnt in the perfect frame of mind but all i can say is i saw what i saw. i'm going to talk to her today because she was just too fuking obliterated last night. i dropped her off at her university housing with her floor RA.

i think its over, but i dont want to make a mistake misc. she's been completely faithful for 2 years, i'm her first everything and i have her in the palm of my hand.
what are your thoughts?

TL;DR: beta fuk hangs around gf and he kisses her?? at the end of the night after "Are you gonna get home safe? Hope you're okay." type chit. OPs gf has a ****ing breakdown cuz OP is the best that ever happened and we've been together for 2 years. OP is not convinced that it was beta making a move but recognizes that in his intoxicated state he may be misreading the situation.

[ironicinori]

sloots man. he didn't just kiss her, she kissed him too.





















































full disclosure: I didn't read a single word.

[LtGoose]

im her first kiss first bang first anything

I've got sum bad newz m8

[casiNo.]

its not that hard to move your head out of the way

[Swimstrong]

sloots man. he didn't just kiss her, she kissed him too.

its not that hard to move your head out of the way

thats my logic. ive had sloots try to kiss me before at parties when I have a gf, guess what I do, I get out of the situation. this was a 2 second kiss followed by immediate panic at the hands of the gf.. but I hear you

[ParanormalGains]

Go to beta brian and tell him to stop texting her and back off. Forgive girlfriend.

[butwhat]

ur the beta here lol

this guy was trying to fuk your girl the whole party and you didnt do ****

but yeah id break up with her

[secant333]

tough one to call m8, it all depends on how she reacted to the kiss imo

eitherway, its good to put some distance and think chit through and see how she handles this

EDIT: 2 second kiss? its over m8 lol

[primetime347]

depends on a lot of things. what kind of kiss was it? just a peck? did she kiss him back or flinch away?

[Swimstrong]

ur the beta here lol

this guy was trying to fuk your girl the whole party and you didnt do ****

but yeah id break up with her

logic being if my gf would fuk another guy then why would i want her as a gf?


i'm not making excuses for her misc I just want to provide some context. gf was suuper drunk like she fell previously, i dont think its out of the realm of possibility that she was just completely phucked

[Ayz33]

her actions throughout the night led to the kiss...its not some complete rando coming up to her doing it.

he got her # too???

[Jeeter]

depends on a lot of things. what kind of kiss was it? just a peck? did she kiss him back or flinch away?

this

need more details on the kiss

[kenzy5g]

sloots man. he didn't just kiss her, she kissed him too.





















































full disclosure: I didn't read a single word.

phuckin lol'd so hard

[aztecpenguin]

Canada... Hmm, yes, that's the problem. I hear there's a state in America. North Carolina was it?

[MyLastSemester]

ur the beta here lol

this guy was trying to fuk your girl the whole party and you didnt do ****

but yeah id break up with her

Sort of this.

If you truly dgaf and thought this guy was 100% no threat and were amused by his betaness and therefore decided to not do anything, then it's not your fault.

If you even sort of suspected this guy was a threat, but were hesitating cuz you didn't want a confrontation, then you dun goofed.

Either way, good luck, OP. I wouldn't date a girl who get's trashed at parties and flirts with other dudes (you say she wasn't flirting back with the dude, but its hard to believe she wasn't).

Edit: Also just read that she gave him her number. Yeah, bro, she may not have kissed him back (she probably did even just for a second), but in the end she gave her number to a dude clearly trying to fuk her. I'd dump her.

[TBoneBrah]

You were all pished. Let it slide OP.

[Slurgie]

ur the beta here lol

this guy was trying to fuk your girl the whole party and you didnt do ****

but yeah id break up with her

this

[Icheatonmygff]

Dump her, she cheated.

[Swimstrong]

Sort of this.

If you truly dgaf and thought this guy was 100% no threat and were amused by his betaness and therefore decided to not do anything, then it's not your fault.

If you even sort of suspected this guy was a threat, but were hesitating cuz you didn't want a confrontation, then you dun goofed.

Either way, good luck, OP. I wouldn't date a girl who get's trashed at parties and flirts with other dudes (you say she wasn't flirting back with the dude, but its hard to believe she wasn't).

this guy wears anime hats unironically dude he was getting my gf water so i assumed he would call her m'lady and call it a day, as he makes his big exit he kisses her hence my wtf

[dash_riprock]

You guys are obviously young- this
Type of dumb crap happens when you're young, drunk, and inexperienced. She should've known beta dude was attempting to get with Her- she prolly liked the attention because well, who doesn't dig attention.

Id give her the benefit of the doubt because she was wasted and I highly doubt girl was in her right mind to be kissing others when you, her bf, is at same party.

If you weren't there and she told u she had done this I would say call it quits, but her saying she wants to nail u then getting kissed by another ****tron is diff methinks.

If anything remotely close to this happens again Id kick her to the curb tho.

[criminal_manne]

Stay single in college brah

[janglingjack]

Why does the dude who kissed her have her phone number?

They've been fukin and roaring with laughter at you for weeks.

Oh and where are the fukin pics?? You have 5 mins or negs

[GenocideAttack]

Its a SRS thread but really OP, unless you're loaded with reps who in the fuk would actually read all that and on top of it, there's no pics ffs

[dussocaster]

ITT, OP is 12.

[kenzy5g]

this guy wears anime hats unironically dude he was getting my gf water so i assumed he would call her m'lady and call it a day, as he makes his big exit he kisses her hence my wtf

go do roids.

walk up to him and stare into his soul, yknow?
make him feel scared
cup your hands, put them on his face.
feel his cheeks
pop one of his pimples and smear the pus around with your thumb.
take a ritz cracker out of your pocket and dip it in the pus
and eat the cracker
and tell him if you ever see him again, youll stab him.





















gl op

[Swimstrong]

You guys are obviously young- this
Type of dumb crap happens when you're young, drunk, and inexperienced. She should've known beta dude was attempting to get with Her- she prolly liked the attention because well, who doesn't dig attention.

Id give her the benefit of the doubt because she was wasted and I highly doubt girl was in her right mind to be kissing others when you, her bf, is at same party.

If you weren't there and she told u she had done this I would say call it quits, but her saying she wants to nail u then getting kissed by another ****tron is diff methinks.

If anything remotely close to this happens again Id kick her to the curb tho.

seems like a reasonable response, I really hear your on 1st point but shes awkward and inexperienced. ya complete mind**** "i want to take off all my clothes and sleep in your bed, are we gonna have sex or go to sleep?"

no way she was actively pursuing that beta he just weaseled in and i think she realized her fault in putting herself in that position

[GaloisTheory]

when a guy is flirting with your gf like that

you're supposed to go up to her and grab her ass and kiss her, whisper something in her ear, and then go back to what you were doing. That's code for she's, mine so fuk off. Some guys just don't knew she's taken already and will leave her alone. But if he's trying to steal your girl and doesn't chill out after that, you will have to step up. But at 6'2 and only 175 lbs, you're not that intimidating. Bulk up, lanky *******.

I only read the title, so this post my be out of place.

[Icheatonmygff]

seems like a reasonable response, I really hear your on 1st point but shes awkward and inexperienced. ya complete mind**** "i want to take off all my clothes and sleep in your bed, are we gonna have sex or go to sleep?"

no way she was actively pursuing that beta he just weaseled in and i think she realized her fault in putting herself in that position

Your gf didn't even pull away from the kiss. She just took it and let that beta insert his wet wet lips onto her soft lips while you didn't do nothing in front of you, LMFAO. If you don't dump her change your name to SwimCuck. Judging from your response and the other beta cucks making up as "alcohol" as the excuse for her behavior. That's pretty much what I told all my ex's when I cheated on them even though i'm in full control of myself even if I a drink a load.

[ridezilightning]

How did he get her number and how did you see the texts?

If some ******* was following my girl around more than a minute he'd either have to leave or I'd make him leave, the phuck is wrong with you?

[dash_riprock]

Also think that u should've put said ******* in his place far sooner if you saw him orbiting your gf all night. Gotta protect ur bish a bit bruh. I would've told him to Phuk off if he was trying to take care of my gf- wtf lol. Id also be laying a beating on him immediately after seeing that considering he apparently knew she was ur bish.