Does being a virgin into your 20s mess you up in the head?

[relevators]

Is it just a state of being or is it a deeper psychological issue that can have adverse effects? A hurdle, if you will, that once you get across you can catapult to the next level. What seems standard to a non virgin, is bigger and more important than life to a virgin. Are virgins at this age weird? (assuming they are virgins not by choice). Does life change for them once they cross that bridge (into "manhood")? So many questions...so little time


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Virginity is a massive mental fk up

[HairyCalves]

I know this one kid who's 22 and a virgin still. Literally the weirdest ****er I've ever seen srs.

[relevators]

I know this one kid who's 22 and a virgin still. Literally the weirdest ****er I've ever seen srs.

weird in what way, *******? Is he weird because he is a virgin at 22, or is it his behavior?

[AlamedaBoy]

It can't be good for you especially in this hypersexual society we live in. Looking back at our ancestors I highly doubt most of the 20 something year olds were virgins.

[Maxamanius]

Yes, get a hooker, if you're past 20 and still haven't got laid get a phucking hooker, it will change your life for the better. It'll give you the confidence you need moving forward otherwise you'll be stuck in that "virgin state of mind" for a long time and possibly forever. I lost my virginity to an escort and ever since I've been smashing sloots on tinder regularly

[relevators]

Yes, get a hooker, if you're past 20 and still haven't got laid get a phucking hooker, it will change your life for the better. It'll give you the confidence you need moving forward otherwise you'll be stuck in that "virgin state of mind" for a long time and possibly forever. I lost my virginity to an escort and ever since I've been smashing sloots on tinder regularly

elaborate on this "virgin state of mind"

[Habbening]

lost mine at 20 lol

[HairyCalves]

weird in what way, *******? Is he weird because he is a virgin at 22, or is it his behavior?

Behavior , you can pretty much tell he's a virgin within 10 seconds of meeting him.

[Workout4ever]

you're not a man if you're a virgin, could there be anything more beta?



it's only acceptable if you're a female, then it's actually valued

[NotANun21]

Lost mine at 23... Yes it fuks you up in the head 100%

There is no way you will ever be 'normal' no matter how many gushy gushy wet wets you bust in after it's gone

[poopman123]

I was a virgin unti age 21. I now have banged well over 40 girls (age 25 now). The first one is the hardsest. After that its easy.

[IsthisreaLife]

I read guys who lose there virginity later on, like in their 20's. Have problems with ED and cumming during sex. Seriously

[rynnp]

i think its more the idea of it than anything else.

if u lose ur virginity at 14 and never have sex again til like 30 ur still gunna be the same as a 30 year old virgin. but the thought comforts u and makes u feel better? i dunno. i bet if people actually tried, they would and this is coming from a virgin lol. but people are too afraid of rejection, social conduct, etc. and busy lives.

It can't be good for you especially in this hypersexual society we live in. Looking back at our ancestors I highly doubt most of the 20 something year olds were virgins.

well their life expectancy was much lower and there was nothing to do. nothing to keep them busy. in this day and age we are cosntantly caught up in work whether that be actual paid work or school.

plus there was no social awkwardness (or very little of it) because of how much people were forced to interact with one another due to lack of tech. and social awkwardness doesnt even exist. its a social construct that we made up when we cant think of things to say anymore in silence. there is no "proper" way to socially conduct ourselves, we just made all of this up. and nowadays its very fixed

[rynnp]

I read guys who lose there virginity later on, like in their 20's. Have problems with ED and cumming during sex. Seriously

probably related to pr0n and fapping too much instead of losing their virginity so late

[poopman123]

I read guys who lose there virginity later on, like in their 20's. Have problems with ED and cumming during sex. Seriously

No ED here, but depending on the pussy/head I can come in 5 seconds

[Oatmeal12]

Nah man my cousins like a 24 virgin, it doesn't mean hes messed up it just means hes not trying hard enough and doesnt care enough to. Alpha

[Maxamanius]

I read guys who lose there virginity later on, like in their 20's. Have problems with ED and cumming during sex. Seriously

Well I didn't lose mine till 22 and right away I noticed I had problems with ED and cumming during sex so I think you're on to something, think my test was low from not having sex all those years when the fertile male is supposed to be having sex so maybe your body thinks since you're not having sex, no need for all that testosterone.

[relevators]

Lost mine at 23... Yes it fuks you up in the head 100%

There is no way you will ever be 'normal' no matter how many gushy gushy wet wets you bust in after it's gone

Hmmm I'm not sure about this. Are you saying that even after you get that "gushy wet" in your 20s (for the first time) you can never return to normality ?

[The_Albatross]

you're not a man if you're a virgin, could there be anything more beta?

being 5'9" and under is right up there.

[Workout4ever]

being 5'9" and under is right up there.

post a picture of your body or face pussy

[3eb]

being 5'9" and under is right up there.

[97Camry4Lyfe]

Statiscally 14 percent of males 20-24 are virgins so I'm sure it can't be that bad.

[Blockuh]

Feelsbadman =/

[GymMeathead]

Longer answer: No

Short answer: Yes

[VTheKing]

Nah man my cousins like a 24 virgin, it doesn't mean hes messed up it just means hes not trying hard enough and doesnt care enough to. Alpha

idk man, he 100% thinks about getting his dick wet every day guaranteed. The difference is whether he recognizes that he needs to put in some work to get a lay (and hence he doesn't bother), or if he feels entitled to pussy but acts desperate and ****.

[BlueMoon92]

Well I didn't lose mine till 22 and right away I noticed I had problems with ED and cumming during sex so I think you're on to something, think my test was low from not having sex all those years when the fertile male is supposed to be having sex so maybe your body thinks since you're not having sex, no need for all that testosterone.

I think it's more that people who lose theirs late do so mostly because of anxiety towards the opposite sex, and that anxiety continues in the form of performance anxiety once they actually do lose it

[Anomic24]

I noticed that you can always tell a virgin from people who have gotten laid, especially when they're in their 20s. It definitely F**ks you in the head. It may just be a lack of confidence thing because I can guarantee that you will get clowned if you're a 20 or over virgin

[jamesbwbevis]

24 yrs and kissless, let alone virgin.

Thinking about getting a hooker, its probably the only way i'll ever get any type of physical experience with women

[Loca1Hero]

Nerves the first time, whiskey dick the other time so at 22 I'm still a virgin. I don't know though I don't really feel like it makes any difference as far as personality/mentality goes, for me at least. I don't put much importance on it I guess. If I had gotten it in I'd still be a pretty introverted dude anyway. It's not like a switch turns all of a sudden and you're a player. I know I could get laid easily if I actually put in effort to meet girls but it doesn't seem too important to me atm with midterms coming up and chit

[rynnp]

Well I didn't lose mine till 22 and right away I noticed I had problems with ED and cumming during sex so I think you're on to something, think my test was low from not having sex all those years when the fertile male is supposed to be having sex so maybe your body thinks since you're not having sex, no need for all that testosterone.

if u fap ur body thinks ur having sex...