should i reach out to my sister that my mom gave up for adoption? srs

[freekid2002]

well maybe people like OP, but not his sister.

[Rooney15]

OP do the right thing...

[KingBallerOtaku]

Stay humble, stay hungry.


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Be an *******, Just ignore.

[wake_me]

What happen?

OP took our advice and met his sister. Turned out it wasn't really his sister and OP is unconscious somewhere in an alley, missing a kidney.

[sozwut]

how the fuk is OP still green?

[sniffdatangus]

just read the first page but you are a ******* and your mom is a **** srs

edit: strong first post

[Slurgie]

Negged you OP for 1) not replying to your sister & 2) not updating

You shouldn't let your Mom isolate you from family without knowing the real story. Besides your Mom would never even know if you did talk to her on fb unless you told her.

[Bronolen]

OP you're a *******.
100% rustled right now respond to your sister *******

[BroseCanseco]

in 4 updates

[tehfinkster]

Jesus man I hope you reply but it's your life. You shared this much with us might as well follow through.

[standon23]

tldr seems like some craziness though

[Chris1206]

single mothers dont raise men

there is a reason why the black community in america is chock full of garbage

single women know fukk all about discipline, decency or duty

/Singlemother crew checking

Attained good grades/played sports and now am in the process of getting my degree. Know exactly what i want in life and how to get it. Never putting my kids in that single parent hardship situation ofc but i can guarantee you i will be more of a man than over half of misc raised by both parents


*******


btw op respond breh

[my.self]

I would just respond to her and see how the chat goes. You also don't have to go telling your mom that you spoke to her or anything like that. I'm sure your sister won't be contacting your mom anytime soon either.

[Vlady77]

Come on mane she is your sister talk to her..

[wagtail]

I had the same thing growing up.

Ended up reaching out. Then he died 2 years later, drowned in rough seas. Spent 5 years angry and grieving, but wouldn't change it.

Have a sister too, there were two of them. She and I don't have much in common but I go to her house for dinner sometimes and play with her kid.

PM me if you need to talk.

I reckon reach out.

[jwlee7ucla]

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[Ayz33]

10 ****ing months?????? holy **** man

[RealityKings]

Holy **** you're a piece of **** and so is your mother.
You're ****ing lucky she's the one trying to initiate contact with your ass rather than distance herself.
Chick has been going through it for her whole life and here's her dickfaced blood brother ignoring her.

[SasquatchHunter]

My girlfriend is adopted and would love to meet her bio mom. One because it is totally natural. Second because my girl friend is a nurse and wants to know he medical predispositions. Imagine if you found out you were adopted OP. You would be curious. As an adult my girlfriend knows it must have taken a whole lot for her to be given up for adoption. There is NO resentment. As an adult you and I both know if we get someone knocked up too early, abort, adopt or screw it all and hope for the best.

Be honest with your sister. Start a dialogue. She. is. your. sister.

[daitrong]

logged in to NEG OP. Poor Parenting skills had led OP to not have family values.

[AD117]

You are 24 and she is 30. You can have a relationship with her without your mother knowing. More importantly she is old enough to understand your restraint because it might upset your mother.


I definitely think you should do it.

Answer her you fuking *******.

You are 24, you are not your mother. Her mistakes should not spill over into your life.

Unless there is a reason why you dont want to associate with your sister who wishes you nothing but the best (and dont be quick to assume the worst of people like some *******s in this thread who think shes after a handout) give her the fuking benefit of doubt and get it through your thick skull that you're not opening any "doors your mother wanted closed". Your mom took the easy way out, and you will follow in the footsteps of a weak person if you do the same.

These. Talk to her bro. You might hit it off and gain a sister who loves you for life. Hell, it already sounds like she loves you.

[SasquatchHunter]

logged in to NEG OP. Poor Parenting skills had led OP to not have family values.

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Bro nothing is black and white. My girlfriend's bio mom was extremely poor living in a shack somewhere in the midwest. Because her bio mom knew she couldnt provide, and did not believe in abortion she gave her up to my girlfriends parents. They had spent over 100K on fertility docs etc.. My girl grew up in a middle class family and is college educated. Her bio mom, I dont know if she finished high school


Don't judge till you walk in those shoes.SRS

[linebackerlb]

Op,
Don't ever let someone else's feelings or reactions alter your actions or decisions. Don't feel bad for not messaging her because regardless of how she's feels you made the decision to not talk to her when you had to make a crucial decision. Do whatever you think is right because as long as you stay real with yourself you can't be wrong.

[dizzin9]

didnt read after 1st pg...

but OP has not responded yet?????

[Kevin007]

I got no time for bull****. Rarely post on this forum any more.

****ing ruined the beginning of my ****ing weekend.

You not responding to US for 24 hrs already pissed me the fuk off. Imagine that x300 (10 months)

**** you OP.

[Shredikapu]

Looks like your mom is a first class sloot. Seriously, all jokes aside I feel extremely sorry for your older sister...what a poor life she had. Hated by her own mother, thrown away, ignored by everyone, treated like a piece of crap. Well done, she is 30 years old now right ?! Her entire life is gone already...just wow. Cant imagine how she felt like her entire life, uncomplete like she was a mistake or something. Aww man I wann give a hug

Get your ****ing **** together ! Walk up to your dickhead of a mom ask her WTF she did and tell her she needs to start being responsible...she is old enough mane wtf man. Das not it mane. It americaening

[Trillical]

dude has to be trolling. no replies...and sickening story. surprised hes not red for this chit

[Kevin007]

Absolutely sickening. First he goes no contact on his sister. Then he goes no contact on the misc.


Completely understandable considering who raised this piece of ****.

[wake_me]

dude has to be trolling. no replies...and sickening story. surprised hes not red for this chit

Might neg if true, for disrespecting SRS tag.

[gcsportnut12]

Time to sit and wait.....