should i reach out to my sister that my mom gave up for adoption? srs

[Srbija87]

wow OP....srs?

You're old enough to make decisions for yourself. I mean, put yourself in her shoes, I have a nephew thats about 4 years old and he loves his parents like crazy. Just imagining the pain and how much your sister probably missed your mom at the time she was taken away hits me right in the feels.

I'd answer immediately...like...i cant even see how you had to think twice about responding. Poor girl is probably depressed and confused and she literally did nothing wrong to no one......common son.

[SydneyJunkie]

i just read the first page and dont take offense op but your mom is a god damn devil srs. putting your first born up for adoption them just neglecting her from your real kids their whole life wtf? what did a fetus do to her that would allow her to be neglected. even if she grew up in a different family im sure you could have seen your SISTER once in a while growing up. dude your mom is soul less and i dont know how you could love her. im so mad im out

[TheLawDawg]

I agree with the miscers ITT and think you should respond OP.

Me and my dad recently reconnected. We never went entirely no contact, but we didn't speak much for a long time, and now we are on really good terms. Had to put a lot of things behind me for that to happen, but I'm glad it did.

[DrFap]

Guize, I think it's safe to say OP won't be responding anymore. He's more than likely sitting back in his chair, watching the replies, watching his rep go down, thinking of an excuse as to why he doesn't want to speak to her.

Goodnite sweet thread

Or he's going to wait 10 months then ask his mom if he should reply to us.

[SydneyJunkie]

Came to the conclusion OP and his mom are cold heartless fuks

[cheachea]

You should contact her. It might be a cool experience.

[Aerojh]

wow OP....srs?

You're old enough to make decisions for yourself. I mean, put yourself in her shoes, I have a nephew thats about 4 years old and he loves his parents like crazy. Just imagining the pain and how much your sister probably missed your mom at the time she was taken away hits me right in the feels.

I'd answer immediately...like...i cant even see how you had to think twice about responding. Poor girl is probably depressed and confused and she literally did nothing wrong to no one......common son.

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[boxer1234]

in 4 tmmrw

[cobrah85]

You're an adult. If you want to talk to her you should. Its your decision regardless of what your mom thinks. She doesn't have to know anyway. I say go for it.

[SavageForreal]

Or he's going to wait 10 months then ask his mom if he should reply to us.

LMAO fuk op and his mother. I feel for that poor poor sloot of a sister though. I really mean this from the bottom of my heart though OP.... PHUCK YOU. You are a coward and your mom has your balls in a clutch. you're not even a man you wimp. GTFO

[lmaoits]

Reading that 3rd message and knowing you thrrew your own blood out like that made my blood boil. I swear if I knew you in real life I'd beat the living crap out of you

[JasonCDT1]

Negged on recharge for being a piece of chit and for not updating the thread.

Would be a real shame if lots of other miscers were to neg you aswell, almost like a train, of negs, hopefully nothing of the sort happens though because that would be against the rules, nomsayin?

[StanisBaratheon]

Honestly wouldn't respond. Before you know it she will be guilting you/pressuring you for meetups etc so she can get to the bottom of why your mother gave her up. She may genuinely want to get to know you but I have no doubt that she really wants closure and you can see it in her statement about having done NOTHING wrong. She may ultimately use you for confrontational purposes.

This will all blow up eventually and you will lose your mother and the sister you never had to begin with.

[lolololz]

Be a man and contact her. You obviously want to or you wouldn't have asked us. Time to stop listening to mommy and reply back to her. The girl has been through enough.

[mischman]

It would break my heart to find out that I have a sister with such ****ty grammar

Would buy her Auto-correct for her birthday.SRS

[skittlesitsik]

wow giving a 4 year old child away. that is legit heartless i dont care what happened. you could have given her away young but at 4 years old? wtf. you are also 24 years old, strong mom still influencing your decisions. whatever the circumstances of her birth were, even if it was rape, how is that her fault?

this might be the most i have ever raged on the misc

[p7nk]

I want to know the story, why a mom would give up her child

[daghetto]

OP your a ****ing pus.y, you gonna wait till your mom dies and then go running to her cause thats the only fam you got left boy? shes prolly better off without u and ur mom

[TLTrooper]

OP your a ****ing pus.y, you gonna wait till your mom dies and then go running to her cause thats the only fam you got left boy? shes prolly better off without u and ur mom

This is gonna be the likely situation once OP's mom passes. Its gonna be OP and his sister and one day they'll be talking and THIS will come up and one of the two will become curious again and bam. OP you're an idiot. Never completely abandon family. You can keep your distance depending on the situation, but never just abandon them. She genuinely wants to be part of your life and to love you and be loved by you. Sack up son, its time to be a grown adult.

[povertyphaggot]

op she's your sister, not a stranger. think about it

[Eandretta96]

Could have sworn he said he would update it in the afternoon.

[wake_me]

Read first page, jumped to last hoping for good news, feels, and reps to share. Terribly disappointed...

[JIA]

You brahs with the insults chased OP away. I can understand why he'd hesitate to contact her. Having her entering their lives will disrupt their family relationship dynamics dramatically, and we all want to maintain a happy home with healthy relationships and marginalize the drama. Real life isn't entertaining TV drama where we're the audience and don't have a dog in the fight.

She's the casualty, though. Pretty unfair to her. She deserves a response. She's desperately trying to form a blood "family" and I certainly sympathize with her need to connect with her estranged family members. I suspect her adopted family had a falling out or was not as loving and she had a rough childhood.

Emphasize that in no way was it her fault that she was given up, nor yours. Quash the guilt. Appease her anguish. Shift her vision of an unjust God. Give her an opportunity to connect on a kindred level. Start atoning for your mother's mistakes.

A mature discussion with your mother and family about this adoption is also in order. I don't care if your mother's uncomfortable discussing it; the music has stopped, it's time for her to face her decisions and its consequences.

[wake_me]

You brahs with the insults chased OP away. I can understand why he'd hesitate to contact her. Having her entering their lives will disrupt their family relationship dynamics dramatically, and we all want to maintain a happy home with healthy relationships and marginalize the drama. Real life isn't entertaining TV drama where we're the audience and don't have a dog in the fight.

He can at least acknowledge her. If he doesn't want to meet up etc., whatever. I can't imagine how abandoned she must feel. How hard it must have been to reach out, only to be rejected again by her blood family.

[JIA]

He can at least acknowledge her. If he doesn't want to meet up etc., whatever. I can't imagine how abandoned she must feel. How hard it must have been to reach out, only to be rejected again by her blood family.

Yeah really unfair to her. Even the Misc. has a rather strong moral compass and a strong sense of injustice. Could be from our Puritan roots.

[Anthrax93]

You only live once bro, don't waste it. Contact her.

[freekid2002]

Times like these I really wish I was green. You're messin with our feels *******......fuk u

[wake_me]

Times like these I really wish I was green. You're messin with our feels *******......fuk u

You know what you did wrong.

[cromofo]

Feeling such anger and sadness atm.

OP did you just crawl outta your mommas cunt you cold ass piece of ****? Almost a year she has waited and hoped for your reply...was it that hard to bring your fingers to the keyboard and write a couple of words?! She is your blood and flesh, you're her bro and she is your sis...

Can't even imagine how poor girl felt during that time.

**** you OP, **** you.

I've never been so hit by a thread on misc like this. Fukk

[HouseStarkfff]

This ******* is probably with his mom crying his lungs out because ppl on the Internet said mean things to him