Found out girl im seeing has been in 3sum .. what to do?`

[3rf]

inb4 people judge me, but after my last ex 4 years ago i havnt dated any girls or anything, not really liked a girl, iv been talking to this girl/ seeing her for a while now and today i found out shes been in a 3sum before.. i played it off like idc but deepdown about to spew, like iv never felt like this before but i feel like ****, cant sleeep, physically feel sick, stomache hurts, and tbh i cant look at her the same anymore, i just imagine 2 guys ****ing her, :'(

not sure what to do misc?
i dont see it working with us anymore, i know some wil say forget about it man, bla bla, but i legit feel sick,
contemplating bloking her off fb and her number ...

pls help?
and pls realise that this is semi srs, like realise this chit hurts (nohomo)

[TypeNirvash]

That's usually a deal breaker for me, to be honest.

[Gxp23]

I think you have answered your own question here bud.

[bruverend]

lol off to the next

[LikeAMachine]

If you can't handle it, you probably need to move on.


Personally, I'd angle toward getting one myself and then dump her lel

[cc40]

100% deal breaker.

Don't date sloots. Rail her and stop talking to her if you really want to. Just dont relationship her.

[matthew2474]

That's usually a deal breaker for me, to be honest.

This.

[~Hades~]

inb4 people judge me, but after my last ex 4 years ago i havnt dated any girls or anything, not really liked a girl, iv been talking to this girl/ seeing her for a while now and today i found out shes been in a 3sum before.. i played it off like idc but deepdown about to spew, like iv never felt like this before but i feel like ****, cant sleeep, physically feel sick, stomache hurts, and tbh i cant look at her the same anymore, i just imagine 2 guys ****ing her, :'(

not sure what to do misc?
i dont see it working with us anymore, i know some wil say forget about it man, bla bla, but i legit feel sick,
contemplating bloking her off fb and her number ...

pls help?
and pls realise that this is semi srs, like realise this chit hurts (nohomo)

so what in the actual **** are you asking us for if its this big of a deal

be a man and drop her

[whitecollarcrim]

wow.

you have very low self esteem.

its a good thing man, srs.
wouldn't you ahve one if you could?

[earwax]

pix

[ocill88]

I would go nc or tell her why your breaking up with her . 3 sums are deal breakers for me also

[3rf]

That's usually a deal breaker for me, to be honest.

I think you have answered your own question here bud.

lol off to the next

makes me so sad, like had so much chit in common with her, studied same course in uni, shes smarter than me, super hot, etc etc.....
how should i end this with her? nohomo but teary as fuk typing this

[Lolzing]

just stay safe

[nnl]

have your own 3some
left hand and right hand

[earwax]

inb4 past is the past crew

[3rf]

wow.

you have very low self esteem.

its a good thing man, srs.

plsxplain

[Scrizzle]

Yeah that's fukcing gross dude. A girl like that is a straight up whore and not gf material. Fun to be with but don't make a relationship with her.

[Gxp23]

makes me so sad, like had so much chit in common with her, studied same course in uni, shes smarter than me, super hot, etc etc.....
how should i end this with her? nohomo but teary as fuk typing this

2 options to make it quick and easy.

1. Tell her the truth and how it is.

2. Tell her you are not looking for anything right now and want to call things off.

[anonymous]

[JHCL1990]

inb4 people judge me, but after my last ex 4 years ago i havnt dated any girls or anything, not really liked a girl, iv been talking to this girl/ seeing her for a while now and today i found out shes been in a 3sum before.. i played it off like idc but deepdown about to spew, like iv never felt like this before but i feel like ****, cant sleeep, physically feel sick, stomache hurts, and tbh i cant look at her the same anymore, i just imagine 2 guys ****ing her, :'(

not sure what to do misc?
i dont see it working with us anymore, i know some wil say forget about it man, bla bla, but i legit feel sick,
contemplating bloking her off fb and her number ...

pls help?
and pls realise that this is semi srs, like realise this chit hurts (nohomo)

I've had this feeling before when I was seeing a girl and really liked her, then found out she ho'd it up. Makes you feel like chit. Dumping her would be the best option. You'll forget about her in a month tops.

Also PICS? Kinda curious what she looks like OP.

[MantissToboggan]

this is also a dealbreaker for me

could never date a girl that i knew got double teamed by some bros

[3rf]

I've had this feeling before when I was seeing a girl and really liked her, then found out she ho'd it up. Makes you feel like chit. Dumping her would be the best option. You'll forget about her in a month tops.

most ****ed up thing is , everytime i think of her now i just imagine 2 ****ing guys dominating her on the spitroast makes me want to puke man, her image is tarnished in my eyes... ****.. to think this girl was the right girl the whole time ((((

[Redfish225]

Initiate another and go NC, problem solved and checklist checked.

[whitecollarcrim]

plsxplain

would you have a threesome with 2 other women if you had the choice?
if the answer is yes, than whats the problem she did it? the fact you haven't had the chance.
if the answer is no, than that's fair.

also she's probably likely to let you has a MFF one day. its good brah.
i'm biased, my current GF is letting us have MFF threesome soon, so I think its okay.

[Polaris]

No Contact

or

If you cant handle her at her worst, you sure as hell dont deserve her at her best.

Your choice OP.

[nick753]

get her to have a 4sum with you and 2 dudes then go nc lol

[MushuMiles]

id keep her as a fwb to bang with one of your boys when you guys are getting yucky. or maybe even do a ffm 3some. youre being way to pessimistic.

[3rf]

would you have a threesome with 2 other women if you had the choice?
if the answer is yes, than whats the problem she did it? the fact you haven't had the chance.
if the answer is no, than that's fair.

also she's probably likely to let you has a MFF one day. its good brah.
i'm biased, my current GF is letting us have MFF threesome soon, so I think its okay.

man im no slayer... like dead honest, only slept with girls iv dated, only get Bjs from sluts.. as homo as it sounds i feel sex is emotional connection

[JHCL1990]

would you have a threesome with 2 other women if you had the choice?
if the answer is yes, than whats the problem she did it? the fact you haven't had the chance.
if the answer is no, than that's fair.

also she's probably likely to let you has a MFF one day. its good brah.
i'm biased, my current GF is letting us have MFF threesome soon, so I think its okay.

LOL bro wtf? A girl having a threesome is completely different than a guy doing it. Do you not realize how easy it is for a girl to get laid?

[whitecollarcrim]

man im no slayer... like dead honest, only slept with girls iv dated, only get Bjs from sluts.. as homo as it sounds i feel sex is emotional connection

then you are 100% justified, because she thinks sex is more about pleasure and physical than mental, whereas you don't.
it's just hypocritical for some to not want a girl who did a 3sum, but want one?

LOL bro wtf? A girl having a threesome is completely different than a guy doing it. Do you not realize how easy it is for a girl to get laid?

what's the difference? srs.
the difficulty? because thats a cop out and you know it.
then you're just mad girls have it easier to get laid.